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Called Unsociable 10 year old a fat c*nt

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Herefortea2 · 12/06/2025 22:46

Ok, am I the worst person ever??
Last week I was at marks and spencers and there was this boy there, about 11 who was riding around on a electric scooter, whizzing past people and behaving in a passive aggressive way. When I past him he loudly made throwing up noises several times right in front of me, to scare/shock me and I said oh are you ok, maybe you need a doctor (because I don't like to be initimdated by youths). Anyway I do the shop and keep thinking about him, I was in a bad mood already and he really annoyed me, I'm fed up of little shits thinking they can terrorise people.
Anyway I saw him again on the way out and again he was whizzing past scaring people. He came past me again and then I said it.....I said 'fat cnt'!!! Now I actually do not use that word, I don't like it, I don't like it when it's used around me either but I was so pissed off that that's what I said!!!! Anyway he circled round and was like what did you say....I ignored him and he started insulting me and following me as I walked to my car, saying is this your car you fucking bitch, cnt, etc etc. I walked away saying I'm calling the police! Then this guy comes over who's his dad! He apologies and says he's trying to get him home (the kid had been in the car park for half an hour at least, maybe longer), the kid tells the dad what I called him and the dad says 'no she didn't' then the kid goes off at the dad for taking a strangers side. The dad is completely useless as the kid is still circling me where I actually have to push him away from me! Eventually he leaves after a lot of verbal abuse, from the kid. Now I'm thinking I shouldn't have done it and feeling guilty and also worried that I can't go back to M&S because he might be there and start abusing me and I have 2 young children. Thoughts? I am going to hell?

OP posts:
PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:54

Jacopo · 13/06/2025 00:46

The machete story made me laugh out loud. I’m probably going to hell too.

The worst thing about it (and this really is outing, so if anyone recognises this then yes, we live in the same place!) is that the Air Ambulance was used to get him to the nearest specialist centre to deal with his injuries.

How many thousands did that cost?! Little fucker decides to emulate his piece of shit father and try to be the hard man, hurts himself in the process and thousands of pounds raised by the charity are used to get him to hospital. I wish I could tell you his nickname but that would be identifying to the kid concerned and, ironically, I would be the one in trouble. But lets just say that it is a word commonly used to describe someone not blessed with brains, although I have been told he used it because it proved he was hard!

Mintsj · 13/06/2025 00:52

I don't think what you did was too bad. The boy is well old enough to know that his behaviour is highly antisocial and you gave him a taste of his own medicine. He behaved like a cunt, he got called a cunt.

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:50

Blueoak · 13/06/2025 00:45

Where is the justice that we lose the 😂 emoji and then this gift of a thread appears?! Absolute bravo work. Best thread I’ve read in ages. 10/10. No notes 🤣

However, the smileys are now there for everyone to see, so there is that!

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:49

JayJayj · 13/06/2025 00:48

Hmmm! I can’t decide.

On one hand I’d be fuming if you calle any child that, however there is no way I would let my child act like that in the first place.

Secondly, in your shoes I’d do the same. It’s also my favourite swear word as most people are offended by it!!

Try not to let it get to you. It was a shitty situation with an annoying arse hole of a child.

It’s mine too. Along with bollocks, which has a nice rounded sound to it.

JayJayj · 13/06/2025 00:48

Hmmm! I can’t decide.

On one hand I’d be fuming if you calle any child that, however there is no way I would let my child act like that in the first place.

Secondly, in your shoes I’d do the same. It’s also my favourite swear word as most people are offended by it!!

Try not to let it get to you. It was a shitty situation with an annoying arse hole of a child.

Jacopo · 13/06/2025 00:46

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:27

Is it ok? Probably not.

Is it forgivable? Hell yes.

Would the kid be such a little fucking shit if his father wasnt so bog useless, and he had had some proper parenting and discipline in his life? I very much doubt it.

What I find amusing is that he will one day, probably quite soon, try his tricks on the wrong person and get real consequences. A few weeks ago, Easter hols I think, there was a young teen wandering the local kids park with a machete. His father is known in the town as a die hard criminal, dealer, violent, you name it. Someone called the police who attended fast. As he tried to get away from them, he leapt a wall, broke his leg and landed on his own machete. I believe that is called poetic justice. Now I am not saying that this kid will do something like that, but pick on the wrong person and he could well end up with a punch to the face.....and he would deserve it.

Yes I am going to hell. I booked my flight years ago.

The machete story made me laugh out loud. I’m probably going to hell too.

Blueoak · 13/06/2025 00:45

Where is the justice that we lose the 😂 emoji and then this gift of a thread appears?! Absolute bravo work. Best thread I’ve read in ages. 10/10. No notes 🤣

DearZebra · 13/06/2025 00:43

Well it does sound as if the cap fits

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:43

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:40

In years to come there’ll be a poster on mumsnet feeling shit because she’s feeling trapped with a cunt. No excuses will be made for that cunt then.

I quite agree, todays cunt is tomorrows abuser.

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:40

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:39

Although I would argue with "unsociable". He is ANTI social.

And a cunt.

In years to come there’ll be a poster on mumsnet feeling shit because she’s feeling trapped with a cunt. No excuses will be made for that cunt then.

SameDayNewName · 13/06/2025 00:40

If this is the way the boy acts, then sadly, you calling him a fat cunt isn't going to be the worst consequence. For him it will, unfortunately, not be a big thing either way - he he has far bigger problems in his future.

I wouldn't beat yourself up OP.

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:39

Although I would argue with "unsociable". He is ANTI social.

And a cunt.

MrTumbleweed · 13/06/2025 00:37

JabbaTheBeachHut · 12/06/2025 23:19

Oh too harsh.

The OP didn't actually kill anyone 😱😁

Fair point, I take it back 😂

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:35

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:32

I suspect this child (and others like him) know not to push their luck with men and older, tougher boys….

Yeah you dont tend to get many tough nut men shopping in M&S do you?

But you cant swing a packet of Percy Pigs without hitting an elderly lady......pathetic that anyone other than that is too fierce for him!

BethDuttonYeHaw · 13/06/2025 00:35

Unacceptable

Crackanut · 13/06/2025 00:35

This is the funniest thread I've read on here in a long time 😂😂😂

Well done OP, he deserved it👏

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:32

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:27

Is it ok? Probably not.

Is it forgivable? Hell yes.

Would the kid be such a little fucking shit if his father wasnt so bog useless, and he had had some proper parenting and discipline in his life? I very much doubt it.

What I find amusing is that he will one day, probably quite soon, try his tricks on the wrong person and get real consequences. A few weeks ago, Easter hols I think, there was a young teen wandering the local kids park with a machete. His father is known in the town as a die hard criminal, dealer, violent, you name it. Someone called the police who attended fast. As he tried to get away from them, he leapt a wall, broke his leg and landed on his own machete. I believe that is called poetic justice. Now I am not saying that this kid will do something like that, but pick on the wrong person and he could well end up with a punch to the face.....and he would deserve it.

Yes I am going to hell. I booked my flight years ago.

I suspect this child (and others like him) know not to push their luck with men and older, tougher boys….

RedRock41 · 13/06/2025 00:27

Pinkelephant66 · 12/06/2025 22:51

Was he actually fat?

🤣👍

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/06/2025 00:27

Is it ok? Probably not.

Is it forgivable? Hell yes.

Would the kid be such a little fucking shit if his father wasnt so bog useless, and he had had some proper parenting and discipline in his life? I very much doubt it.

What I find amusing is that he will one day, probably quite soon, try his tricks on the wrong person and get real consequences. A few weeks ago, Easter hols I think, there was a young teen wandering the local kids park with a machete. His father is known in the town as a die hard criminal, dealer, violent, you name it. Someone called the police who attended fast. As he tried to get away from them, he leapt a wall, broke his leg and landed on his own machete. I believe that is called poetic justice. Now I am not saying that this kid will do something like that, but pick on the wrong person and he could well end up with a punch to the face.....and he would deserve it.

Yes I am going to hell. I booked my flight years ago.

KeepingItReal2017 · 13/06/2025 00:25

Sounds like he was being a fat cunt TBF

Agapornis · 13/06/2025 00:25

Thin cunt doesn't roll off the lips as well, does it 😂
Tiny cunt?
Rude cunt?

Glad the dad backed you, even if he was wrong useless. Take up self defense before your next visit to M&S. Even if you hopefully don't need to use it, you'll feel more assured in standing up for yourself.

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:22

Obimumkinobi · 13/06/2025 00:21

What we're all forgetting, of course is that it was M&S, so he wasn't just any fat cunt.....

😁😁

Obimumkinobi · 13/06/2025 00:21

What we're all forgetting, of course is that it was M&S, so he wasn't just any fat cunt.....

TheOmbudsmansComingtoGetYou · 13/06/2025 00:20

wobblyewobbly · 12/06/2025 23:00

To put it shortly - it basically means going to that same shop wouldn't even cross someone’s mind again if I found out they’d called my child what this grown woman did.

😂😂😂

Hard as nails.

Slatterndisgrace · 13/06/2025 00:15

ScholesPanda · 13/06/2025 00:12

It's funny how people want a village to help them raise their kids, until it means someone doing what they can't, and actually pulling their kids up on the shit they pull.

I concur.