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Would this piss you off? DP comment on day out

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JadeJ91 · 12/06/2025 07:30

Day out yesterday, historical seaside town with various lovely view points. DP a bit grumpy all day and not paying a lot of interest to anything. Anyway, at one particular location I asked him what he thought of the view and he said ‘not great really….hang on, it’s just got a lot better now’ just as an attractive woman walked past, and he joked about her bum being the highlight of his day so far.

A bit disrespectful, surely? I told him to shut up and he said I should lighten up and ‘have a laugh’

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Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 11:46

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 11:11

And all because I took the side of the man in the OP’s post , how very dare I!

😂👍

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No it’s because you’re a fantasist and a liar!

You’ve got two wives, one dead below the waist and one a sex goddess.

Abouttoscarper · 13/06/2025 11:44

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Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 11:11

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 11:02

And a fantasist!

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And all because I took the side of the man in the OP’s post , how very dare I!

😂👍

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 11:02

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:59

I’m quite chatty actually, very convivial I’m told……

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And a fantasist!

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 09:30

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:43

A man of few words ……..

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Unless it is either about his “incredibly sexy” wife and their amazing sex life

OR

About how she is “dead below the waist”

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:59

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:43

A man of few words ……..

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I’m quite chatty actually, very convivial I’m told……

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:43

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:27

😂

A man of few words ……..

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:27

😂

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 08:23

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No sleep? Concerned your wife might see how disrespectfully you talk about the absence of any sex life in your marriage?

Poynsettia · 13/06/2025 08:15

Historical seaside town -castles. Cathedrals museums or tacky tramway, big wheel stuff?

1 is good
2is not

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:13

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 07:44

I wonder if the OP’s husband is aware of this thread?

He’d get a right laugh, wouldn’t he?

Not as much as we are at you!

Quite the entertainment this morning….🤣🤣🤣

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:11

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:10

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🤣🤣

Tiredandtiredagain · 13/06/2025 08:10

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Last word freaks you say @Tristan5 , now who could take the 🥇 for that?

Your mask is slipping I’m afraid, you know you and your happy jolly giggling “wife”, laughing at all us women having our own opinions.

Now we are “freaks”.

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 08:10

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 07:44

I wonder if the OP’s husband is aware of this thread?

He’d get a right laugh, wouldn’t he?

!

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 08:00

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:55

I think maybe he posts about the life he wants to have, rather than the life he actually does have.

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And very occasionally let’s slip the reality.

Honestly, it’s quite a read!

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:59

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:45

They’re not married. But hopefully he’d read it and think ‘actually yes, by sulking all day then making a lewd comment I was behaving like a bit of a cunt, especially combined with the fact that I’ve stopped making an effort with the relationship since I moved in with her’.
Doubt it though.

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@Tristan5 best ignored

He will shuffle off to the Sex forum soon enough

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:55

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:53

@WhereHasMyPlanetGone he seems to spend most of his time on the Sex forum

I think maybe he posts about the life he wants to have, rather than the life he actually does have.

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:55

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:52

Are they not.

He refers to the poor woman as “my wife” throughout all his posts (a mix of derogatory and “she’s as sexy as anything” comments)

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Ah sorry I meant the OP and her partner aren’t married.

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:53

@WhereHasMyPlanetGone he seems to spend most of his time on the Sex forum

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:52

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:45

They’re not married. But hopefully he’d read it and think ‘actually yes, by sulking all day then making a lewd comment I was behaving like a bit of a cunt, especially combined with the fact that I’ve stopped making an effort with the relationship since I moved in with her’.
Doubt it though.

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Are they not.

He refers to the poor woman as “my wife” throughout all his posts (a mix of derogatory and “she’s as sexy as anything” comments)

Imbusytodaysorry · 13/06/2025 07:50

@JadeJ91 another man op who had hidden who he is until he felt he had you where he wanted you. .
It was all fake , he had now stopped pretending .
Who you see now is who he really is!

WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 13/06/2025 07:45

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 07:44

I wonder if the OP’s husband is aware of this thread?

He’d get a right laugh, wouldn’t he?

They’re not married. But hopefully he’d read it and think ‘actually yes, by sulking all day then making a lewd comment I was behaving like a bit of a cunt, especially combined with the fact that I’ve stopped making an effort with the relationship since I moved in with her’.
Doubt it though.

Tristan5 · 13/06/2025 07:44

I wonder if the OP’s husband is aware of this thread?

He’d get a right laugh, wouldn’t he?

Blanca87 · 13/06/2025 07:31

Raise your bar, hen. Jesus Christ.

Lucyliesdown · 13/06/2025 07:28

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I know you say your wife is on mumsnet….

if you are reading this wife of @Tristan5 … start a thread. You don’t need to be with a dick you describes you as “dead from the waist down”. We all know it will be because of @Tristan5 rather than you actually not wanting to have sex.