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If you teach, was your SEN training good enough?

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Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 14:51

Inspired by a post from Bridget Phillipson about Labour investing in almost 3,000 more teachers. Many on that Facebook post highlighting SEN training as inadequate, so I'm curious about views from teachers.

My own experience (as a parent, not a teacher) has been very mixed. A senco who based her understanding of neurodivergence only on the traditional, mostly male presentation of autism and who therefore believed my then 6yo dd was 'fine at school'. A brilliant Y2 teacher (who had a partner with ADHD) who took the time to understand every child and knew how to get the best out of each of them - ND or not. A brilliant Y3 teacher, who has herself got one adult child with ADHD and a younger daughter with autism who just 'gets it'. A secondary school, in which some teachers excel in understanding ADHD and applying appropriate support and management strategies, and some that still appear to question whether it's even real, let alone try to understand/ support (despite a formal diagnosis).

EHCP applications have increased and that this is unsustainable. But my theory is that if SEN training for teachers was prioritised and was comprehensive enough, this may help stem the flow of EHCP applications from parents who currently feel unheard and unsupported. Many SEN children could thrive in mainstream, with very minor adjustments that inconvenience nobody, and attendance would also improve as a result.

I'm not a teacher, but I really value education and appreciate the two or three really excellent teachers who have supported my children to do well in mainstream schools. But it strikes me that those teachers, without exception, have personal lived experience of neurodivergence that only those dealing with it every day, as a parent or family member, really understand. The only thing I can think of that may improve this situation is improved SEN training for all teachers, yet I've heard from several teachers that they've had perhaps one day which has focused solely on autism.

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Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 23:41

@Hercisback1 I agree that some SEND is hard to pick up early on by schools. But I've spoken to many parents who know there is something underlying their child's behaviour, but their school simply won't entertain the idea because "it's got to be a parenting problem". And in some cases it is of course.

But I vividly remember talking to my daughter's reception teacher about Coke Bottle effect, her need to organise her environment and contain things to feel more in control, her one very intense and controlling friendship. Her teacher told me that she'd interpreted my daughter containing all the play kitchen equipment in a suitcase as her inability to share with others. She told me that it was normal for little girls to form close friendships. She told me that my daughter chose not to wear her shoes and socks because "small children like wandering around with nothing on their feet". The following year, she missed a half term of school after repeated fight or flight scenarios played out (wouldn't keep a seatbelt on, broke her car seat in half trying to escape, opened the car door on the motorway, pinched, scratched, kicked and hit to the point of drawing blood from me in order to avoid leaving the house etc etc).

In Y1, her reluctance to enter the classroom was met by the teacher rolling her eyes in exasperation. She was made to stay behind and sit on a chair in the middle of the classroom for a minor infringement of the rules while the teacher and TA discussed loudly whether they would send her to the headteacher.

Contrast that with her Y2 teacher who knew that if she engaged dd with talking about something that interests her (her cats, or her new water bottle), the distraction was enough to get her over the threshold and settle down to learn. Or her Y3 teacher who knows to avoid putting her on the spot to answer a question in front of everyone.

I do accept that all of this is much easier to do with dedicated TAs, and in a primary setting where teachers are teaching the same class throughout the day.

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Kirbert2 · 11/06/2025 23:41

NanaPurple · 11/06/2025 23:18

What happens when a child with SEN leaves school? They will no longer have a teacher or TA. Surely one of the aims of the education system is to encourage each pupil to develop their own strategies for life.

Depends on the child and SEN. My child will always need some kind of support, I suspect and has an EHCP which could potentially support him up to the age of 25 if needed.

FruityCider · 11/06/2025 23:39

howshouldibehave · 11/06/2025 23:23

In my experience, the teachers who are brilliant with neurodivergence tend to be brilliant with all their students.

I have known some absolutely brilliant teachers in my decades of teaching. Do you know what those teachers are doing now? Not teaching any more in every case.

Being brilliant all day every day, being expected to do it for more and more children, with less and less help, and fewer resources, completely burnt them out. It's like a frog in slowly boiling water, you don't realise what's happening till it's too late.

Yep, that's me! Not out yet but in the 'strongly considering it' camp. Probably out in the next 3-5 years.

Cluborange666 · 11/06/2025 23:38

I’m 54 so it may have changed but we got half a day on ALL disabilities (secondary English). My son has autism, adhd and dyspraxia and is extremely bright. I had to home educate him as his teachers were useless. You only really understand when it’s your own child but basic teacher training would definitely help.

drspouse · 11/06/2025 23:23

I would say the essence of what is needed is communication between school and parents, and believing that parents might have done some research.
DS was massively failed by his first school and part of it was them not telling us what was happening. They had an escalating behaviour strategy but he saw it as a goal. Even when we told them he saw it as a goal, they wouldn't change. We told them about research on dyspraxia and they just said "this is our standard practice". The OT said the same - didn't want to read any research or even listen to me (science PhD) explain it.

howshouldibehave · 11/06/2025 23:23

In my experience, the teachers who are brilliant with neurodivergence tend to be brilliant with all their students.

I have known some absolutely brilliant teachers in my decades of teaching. Do you know what those teachers are doing now? Not teaching any more in every case.

Being brilliant all day every day, being expected to do it for more and more children, with less and less help, and fewer resources, completely burnt them out. It's like a frog in slowly boiling water, you don't realise what's happening till it's too late.

NanaPurple · 11/06/2025 23:18

What happens when a child with SEN leaves school? They will no longer have a teacher or TA. Surely one of the aims of the education system is to encourage each pupil to develop their own strategies for life.

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 23:17

everyonestoohot · 11/06/2025 23:01

I think it is interesting you have talked about SEN but then have narrowed it down to neurodivergence, when SEN is much more than that, is my first observation.

A teacher can appear to be be ‘brilliant’ with meeting the needs of a neurodiverse child but it has to take into account everyone’s needs, not just children without SEN but those with SEN.

It’s one of my bugbears that SEN is now almost exclusively focused on autism and / or ADHD and visual and hearing impairments, learning difficulties, dyslexia, physical difficulties, are the poor relations!

In my experience, the teachers who are brilliant with neurodivergence tend to be brilliant with all their students.

Physical disabilities are easier to spot and provide practical support for. The reason neurodivergence has such a focus is because it's so misunderstood, and there's still so much stigma attached to it - precisely because it is not visible.

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Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 23:08

There's a disconnect at times between knowing the strategies, and teaching 300 children a week so you forget who needs what. That might explain some of the variance in parental experience.

The SENCO not knowing about different presentations of autism is unusual, however in a small primary not too surprising. Secondary SENCOs literally see more children, so get more experience with different presentations. Girls are notoriously good at masking their way through primary too. I am not knocking primary colleagues, they've got one hell of a job on their hands. Some SEND is hard to identify early on and difficult to pick apart from being outside the "norm" of development as children don't develop linearly. Therefore opportunities for early intervention may be limited, but I agree earlier interventions help. But the sort of early intervention to support learning isn't the low level stuff here of a movement break or emotion wheel. It's specific and intense work with a specialist to improve phonics/numeracy etc.

Kirbert2 · 11/06/2025 23:08

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 23:00

Ah, ok. At dd's primary they have at least one TA allocated to every class. I accept that this isn't the case at secondary, though.

That's my experience at my son's primary too. He actually has 2:1 TA support, then there's 1 'general' TA and I'm pretty sure another TA too for a child who has 1:1 support.

howshouldibehave · 11/06/2025 23:08

Fair enough, my experience of TAs has predominantly been at primary level where at least one is allocated to every class (although my teenage son is at secondary). I accept that lack of TAs is a big issue particularly at secondary level.

Very few primaries round here have a TA in each class any more. Ours have nearly all been made redundant/not replaced when they left and we only have them now for high need pupils with EHCP funding. If you look at the local school jobs available, they are virtually all roles working as SEN 1:1s with very high need individuals.

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 23:05

Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 22:46

But where do I get the TA from? There isn't one in my room ever. There's 5 in the whole school, so they're probably in a different building. How do they know they are needed? And who do they leave to do this check in?

Fair enough, my experience of TAs has predominantly been at primary level where at least one is allocated to every class (although my teenage son is at secondary). I accept that lack of TAs is a big issue particularly at secondary level.

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everyonestoohot · 11/06/2025 23:01

I think it is interesting you have talked about SEN but then have narrowed it down to neurodivergence, when SEN is much more than that, is my first observation.

A teacher can appear to be be ‘brilliant’ with meeting the needs of a neurodiverse child but it has to take into account everyone’s needs, not just children without SEN but those with SEN.

It’s one of my bugbears that SEN is now almost exclusively focused on autism and / or ADHD and visual and hearing impairments, learning difficulties, dyslexia, physical difficulties, are the poor relations!

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 23:00

noblegiraffe · 11/06/2025 22:47

I think the point there was “what TA?”

Ah, ok. At dd's primary they have at least one TA allocated to every class. I accept that this isn't the case at secondary, though.

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Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 22:58

Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 22:28

Nothing earth shatteringly amazing there, happens daily where I teach. Why do you think more training would make that stuff happen? Teachers know those strategies.

The emotion wheel, isn't popular with secondary aged students. Some will use a red and green understanding/feeling card (depending on the their need).

More/ better training may mean the application of those strategies is more consistent among teaching staff. You say that teachers know those strategies already, then why is it that parental experiences are so variable, with many saying that they're not actually being implemented? As I said in my original post, my experience of teaching has been mixed, even within the same school - and this reflects the experience of many others. How can a senco - a specialist in SEN coordination - not be aware of the latest developments in understanding different presentations of autism, for example?

I understand that some of these strategies aren't popular with secondary aged children - which is why I asked in another post whether one part of the solution is earlier intervention and targeted support during primary years to enable better outcomes via self sufficiency at secondary level.

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LostMyPantsAtGatwickAirport · 11/06/2025 22:55

FrippEnos · 11/06/2025 22:00

You can't just blame teachers or "schools" either respect is a two way street.

But one of the major changes is just how much slack teachers and schools are expected to pick up today.

Oh I know, the whole thing is shit for everyone involved.

Schools and teachers have huge expectations put on them, and these are then piled onto the children who often cannot cope, and the fallout, which used to be unfairly blamed on teachers, is now blamed on parents.

Maybe the problem is that. Too much on all involved. Academies (I believe around 80% of mainstream secondaries now?) seem too focused on academia, too results focused, too entrenched in rules that suit some but not others. It’s all about academic achievements when we all know that once out of school that’s not what the real world is like for many people. Plenty would benefit from a more practical approach - available in many schools 20+ years ago but only in limited schools now.
Too many targets that put children off learning (do primary aged children still learn about fronted adverbials? That caused an outcry several years ago with many teachers admitting they hadn’t done anything like that until university!). Not all children are going to be academic. Not all children can be helped, but in narrowing what is being done and by being more and more rigid, all we’re doing is ensuring that more children have needs that aren’t being met.

I was at school 30-40 years ago, I can still remember the range of children who, if they were at school now, would be on the SN register - those with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia. They were all there, but somehow they managed better than children are managing now. There was less pressure, fewer targets and tests. We were responsible for our achievements. Somehow my cohort of students made it through, sure some were less successful, some were mega successful, but without the trauma, the school refusals, the huge number of damaged children through the system, the stress on teachers, the heartache and frustration all round.

I know that schools have changed how they teach. I’ve spoken to enough teachers past and present who are very clear that teaching methods have changed, that flexibility has all but gone. I know several teachers who left school to home educate their own child(ren) because they felt so strongly that there was no way they were putting them through school - that speaks volumes to me. I know ex teachers who are now tutoring for a living who are very clear about the changes they saw that made them leave. This isn’t just a now thing, this has been happening for at least the last 20 years and we’re reaching a point where more and more children, teachers, and parents are in crisis. And we still keep doing the same things. What was Einstein’s definition of madness?

howshouldibehave · 11/06/2025 22:54

with only minimal TA intervention

When you don't have ANY TAs to do any sort of intervention, we fall back to the same old question. How much can we expect one teacher to do with 30+ children to a class?

noblegiraffe · 11/06/2025 22:47

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 22:45

I have direct experience of this, because it was implemented for my daughter. It works for her, and with only minimal TA intervention (literally a check in, then a minute to explain a new concept, step away again). It doesn't take a whole lesson of one to one to remedy.

I think the point there was “what TA?”

Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 22:46

But where do I get the TA from? There isn't one in my room ever. There's 5 in the whole school, so they're probably in a different building. How do they know they are needed? And who do they leave to do this check in?

Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 22:45

Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 22:30

Just realised the emotion wheel relies on a TA stepping in. Good luck with that. So again we're back to not having enough resources, rather than the teachers not being trained properly.

I have direct experience of this, because it was implemented for my daughter. It works for her, and with only minimal TA intervention (literally a check in, then a minute to explain a new concept, step away again). It doesn't take a whole lesson of one to one to remedy.

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Whatafustercluck · 11/06/2025 22:40

FrippEnos · 11/06/2025 21:56

Most of your list comes from the top.
If the SLT support it then fine but they also have to put up a united front with the teachers.
And I don't mean just supporting teachers I mean support the teachers fully in implementing the adjustments.
I have had so many training sessions were the implementations were small, for example don't chase the pupils for taking coats off on entry to the lesson, get them involved then get them to take off their coats. Only to have SLT come in and completely overrule the training from the day before.

SLT has to represent joined up thinking.

Yes, I agree. That detailed level of awareness and understanding needs to be ingrained at the top first and foremost.

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napody · 11/06/2025 22:38

modgepodge · 11/06/2025 21:12

I trained 15 years ago and we had hardly anything on SEN, I had a degree in psychology so was maybe a bit ahead of the curve but I now feel that’s out of date - current thinking in ADHD, autism, dyslexia etc is all very different to 20 years ago.

the problem with these tiny tweaks you think might help some children stay in mainstream OP, is that all the tiny tweaks add up and become impossible to manage. Eg 3 kids need their work photocopied on coloured paper, one needs to arrive in school 5 minutes early to avoid the cloakroom rush, one needs to leave lessons 2 minutes early because it eases their anxiety, one needs advance warning of fire drills, two need support organising their personal belongings, two need everything read to them during the lesson, another needs a laptop and another needs a scribe, one needs movement breaks every 15 minutes, one needs 25% extra time on every task (HOW - make the day longer?!), 3 need fidget toys, one has a hearing aid which needs connecting to the mic and testing each day….it all adds up and is completely overwhelming. These are all requests I’ve had made of me as a teacher over the years and individually to the parents and child of course it’s such a minor adjustment and seems perfectly doable. But when half your class have a pupil passport/IEP/whatever they’re called now (as I have had in the past) it’s completely unmanageable.

Yes. The phrase 'reasonable adjustments' gets me. To establish whether something is a reasonable adjustment we should be looking at

  1. Whether the unadjusted, baseline expectation is reasonable- I.e. 1 adult to 30 children simultaneously across a range of attainments without additional needs
  2. Add in all the other 'reasonable adjustments' for the other existing children in the class with additional needs.

Only then can you establish whether further adjustments are reasonable.

But that never, ever happens.

noblegiraffe · 11/06/2025 22:35

28Fluctuations · 11/06/2025 22:15

But some children will benefit from a uniform change. Some uniform is more inclusive, some less.

No one benefits from the blazer and tie. (More expensive, too.)

It's about making changes where you can.

Only some children benefit from the visual timetable and the colourful semantics stickers that I use to show sentence structure. But no one is harmed. It's a simple, low-cost change that is transformative for some and makes no odds to others.

That's not true, loads of kids benefit from wearing a blazer because a blazer has loads of pockets.

My DS hates it when it's a non-uniform days because he has to decant all the stuff he carries around in his blazer like locker key, timetable etc into other places where they immediately get lost. So many kids turn up without a pen on non-uniform days because it's in their blazer.

GreenTurtles3 · 11/06/2025 22:31

I'm a Primary teacher of 20 years and SENCo for 10. The current curriculum just isn't geared up for different learning styles. It all needs to be stripped back; less pressure, less testing, less sitting, give value to hands on subjects, make learning purposeful again.
Most teachers and TAs I know are giving all their energy to the children who really shouldn't be in Mainstream. They haven't got time to focus on the child who is struggling silently at the back because yhey're too busy trying to stop Tyler biting Maisie, Sarah from running out of the classroom and scaling the fence or Connor from tipping a table over.

Hercisback1 · 11/06/2025 22:30

Just realised the emotion wheel relies on a TA stepping in. Good luck with that. So again we're back to not having enough resources, rather than the teachers not being trained properly.