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AIBU to feel sorry for Wynne Evans?

162 replies

whackamole666 · 11/06/2025 11:00

He has NO clue.

Watched his interview on breakfast tv, explaining away all the misunderstandings, jokes and social experiments he was involved in which resulted in his BBC contract 'not being renewed '.

He played all the cards, mental health, dead brother, context, editing.

Of course he was in the studio to promote his latest venture, hoping to drum up interest.

Why do so many people ruin the amazing chances they're given? Baffling.

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Rvethetgergwtbteh · 12/06/2025 18:44

Rvethetgergwtbteh · 12/06/2025 18:30

She might be saying it was her idea, but I find it strange that we have never seen her encourage other male celebs to do that in all of the previous series she has done, so it’s out of character for her. But yep, I’m sure it’s innocent sex toy sending Wynne that’s the poor victim of that minx Katya 🙄

And also I should add did you actually see her face in the moment in those clips? I just rewatched the clips on YouTube and she certainly doesn’t look “in” on the joke in the moment.
I think she’s covering up for his “stupidity”.

Rvethetgergwtbteh · 12/06/2025 18:30

TwoBakedOnes · 12/06/2025 17:27

I don't understand why he's seen as a creep now?

Katya openly admitted it was her idea to refuse his high five and move his hand away - she wouldn't be saying that if she felt he was a creep!

I think he's telling the truth about the spitroast comment being taken out of context and he's admitted he was daft to not realise the connotations.

The BBC threw him under the bus, and so did the media, for click bait.

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She might be saying it was her idea, but I find it strange that we have never seen her encourage other male celebs to do that in all of the previous series she has done, so it’s out of character for her. But yep, I’m sure it’s innocent sex toy sending Wynne that’s the poor victim of that minx Katya 🙄

TwoBakedOnes · 12/06/2025 17:27

I don't understand why he's seen as a creep now?

Katya openly admitted it was her idea to refuse his high five and move his hand away - she wouldn't be saying that if she felt he was a creep!

I think he's telling the truth about the spitroast comment being taken out of context and he's admitted he was daft to not realise the connotations.

The BBC threw him under the bus, and so did the media, for click bait.

SpursTop · 12/06/2025 15:57

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PatheticDistraction · 11/06/2025 19:44

MaryGreenhill · 11/06/2025 13:42

I like him and he's so good on his radio show . What l don't like is the Beeb cancel ppl without the audience having a say in the matter .
Perhaps we would want to show the other cheek and give him a second chance

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But often times people don’t understand what has actually played out, just their interpretation of what the media reports.

Take Gregg Wallace - I have personal experience here, but reading countless comments on news articles at the time, people clearly thought his colleagues had taken offence to his clumsy jokes - but it was far more serious than that, instances of exposure as an example.

Proper investigation needs to be carried out & appropriate action taken.

ginasevern · 11/06/2025 18:01

whackamole666 · 11/06/2025 17:37

Would there need to be separate categories for straight, gay, bi, trans pervs? Or just throw them all into one snakepit?

Good question. I think there would have to be separate categories otherwise there'd be an uproar about diversity.

Doyouthinktheyknow · 11/06/2025 17:53

I don’t have any sympathy for him! He is a sexual predator who doesn’t learn!

BBC is the employer, they have a duty to their workforce to protect them from sexual harassment.

He’s a thoroughly unpleasant man if he can’t take responsibility for his actions!

EmeraldRoulette · 11/06/2025 17:49

@pimplebum "I am a baffoon who has made gaffs, inappropriate jokes and made bad impressions on people so I can relate and feel sorry for celebrities who are cancelled"

did those gaffes include unwanted touching and sexual jokes?

I don't feel sorry for him.

unsevered67 · 11/06/2025 17:47

MaryGreenhill · 11/06/2025 13:42

I like him and he's so good on his radio show . What l don't like is the Beeb cancel ppl without the audience having a say in the matter .
Perhaps we would want to show the other cheek and give him a second chance

Edited

Yep . Let’s just keep turning the other cheek to all these sexist misogynist creeps. It’s ok if they are a bit of fun at times.Women should know their place and continue to serve their purpose as sexual objects for men who have a far higher opinion of themselves than is warranted. That’s how it’s always been. No point in trying to change things

myplace · 11/06/2025 17:44

Reddog1 · 11/06/2025 16:25

I didn’t see the interview today.

He struck me on Strictly as someone who was the overweight, awkward kid at school who one day found out that he could make the cool, sporty, attractive girls and boys laugh. So he always played the joker, sometimes making them laugh and sometimes going too far and making them feel awkward. But he never grew out of that behaviour. Despite his good career (music, tv ad, radio show) and his two lovely children, he is still the plump kid on the periphery in his mind, keen for acceptance.

I agree with this- I still think he should pay the consequences.

BellissimoGecko · 11/06/2025 17:41

Dearg · 11/06/2025 13:54

So this is the same Wynne Evans who got handsy with Katya , then made a crude comment about Jannette Manrara? Then got called out about it and told us all about his poor mental health?

Absolutely brought it on himself. Katya was his first chance, Jannette was his second. I don’t have any more cheeks to turn.

The BBC is culpable given that issues with Strictly had been raised before, but as ever they pay little attention as long as the programme and/ or talent is performing well in the rankings.

This.

whackamole666 · 11/06/2025 17:37

ginasevern · 11/06/2025 15:24

Yep. The series would be never ending, with constant supply of celebrity male pervs and pedophiles waiting in the wings. Like you said, depressing - but I'm afraid sadly true.

Would there need to be separate categories for straight, gay, bi, trans pervs? Or just throw them all into one snakepit?

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TheTwoLeggedGrooveMachine · 11/06/2025 16:46

He thinks he is a bigger celebrity than he actually is, which is: 'moderate opera singer / minor bloke off the telly'.

Exactly. He has something new to promote? That'll be why there are proposal stories in the papers today.

thatsawhopperthatlemon · 11/06/2025 16:31

He thinks he is a bigger celebrity than he actually is, which is: 'moderate opera singer / minor bloke off the telly'.

As for the totally inappropriate, crass and sexually offensive comments to work colleagues that got him sacked, as far as I'm concerned he shot himself in the foot. It was his own stupid fault.

Reddog1 · 11/06/2025 16:25

I didn’t see the interview today.

He struck me on Strictly as someone who was the overweight, awkward kid at school who one day found out that he could make the cool, sporty, attractive girls and boys laugh. So he always played the joker, sometimes making them laugh and sometimes going too far and making them feel awkward. But he never grew out of that behaviour. Despite his good career (music, tv ad, radio show) and his two lovely children, he is still the plump kid on the periphery in his mind, keen for acceptance.

MackenCheese · 11/06/2025 16:13

randomchap · 11/06/2025 13:40

Amusingly mumsnet decided serve up the advert for an interview with Boris Johnson with this thread.

Maybe it picked up on words like buffoon and gaff?

GrinGrin

ginasevern · 11/06/2025 15:24

Eggplanting · 11/06/2025 14:59

Though it would be deeply depressing to see what a vast array of options the casting directors had to choose from.

Yep. The series would be never ending, with constant supply of celebrity male pervs and pedophiles waiting in the wings. Like you said, depressing - but I'm afraid sadly true.

Eggplanting · 11/06/2025 14:59

ginasevern · 11/06/2025 14:56

I think you're onto something. How about "Celebrity Perv Off"?

Though it would be deeply depressing to see what a vast array of options the casting directors had to choose from.

ginasevern · 11/06/2025 14:56

Rvethetgergwtbteh · 11/06/2025 13:50

How could the public decide though?

I suppose they’ve had so many shamed celebrities in the bbc they could create a series out of it and we vote them off 🤣

I think you're onto something. How about "Celebrity Perv Off"?

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 14:38

MaryGreenhill · 11/06/2025 13:42

I like him and he's so good on his radio show . What l don't like is the Beeb cancel ppl without the audience having a say in the matter .
Perhaps we would want to show the other cheek and give him a second chance

Edited

He had his second chance after the wandering hands episode. He blew it.

Motnight · 11/06/2025 14:33

MaryGreenhill · 11/06/2025 13:42

I like him and he's so good on his radio show . What l don't like is the Beeb cancel ppl without the audience having a say in the matter .
Perhaps we would want to show the other cheek and give him a second chance

Edited

Umm it's not the audience who suffered the man's behaviour is it?

Endofyear · 11/06/2025 14:30

No sympathy for him, I've always thought he was creepy. And he's proved me right!

Murdoch1949 · 11/06/2025 14:10

He is a manipulative liar. He tries to come up with alternative scenarios for why he talked of a spit roast with Janette. To claim that Jamie Borthwick (with whom he is obviously friends) is so bendy they called him spit roast boy, is laughable. Borthwick no doubt agreed with him coming up with this explanation, months later, and as he wanted to help Evans out. Borthwick is now in trouble himself for using an offensive term for disabled people. Evans needs to crawl away and learn how to be truthful.

letsallchant · 11/06/2025 14:09

Is this yet another man getting prime TV time to talk about how sad they are that they're now facing the consequences of their own actions? Let me get my tiny violin out.

Coffeeishot · 11/06/2025 14:05

I had to switch it off, I started watching but I couldn't cope with his bemused attitude to the whole thing, I lasted about a minute.