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Great article in the Guardian about wokeism

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inkognitha · 11/06/2025 08:51

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2025/jun/10/how-does-woke-start-winning-again

Good morning everyone.
Today, even the Guardian admits woke isn’t working.

« Yet Progressive Activists’ fatal flaw, the report argues, is that they’re further from mainstream public opinion on cultural issues than they realise. They’re the only group where a majority thinks that immigration should be as high or higher than it is now, and that protecting people from hate speech matters more than defending free speech (a key rationale behind “no debate” – the idea that trans identities aren’t up for discussion – and “no platforming”). They’re also the group most likely to think social change sometimes requires breaking the law, whereas two-thirds of Britons disapprove of protesters blocking roads or gluing themselves to things.
Tryl stresses that being outliers doesn’t invariably make Progressive Activists wrong – perhaps they’re just ahead of the curve, as the suffragettes once were – but it has important tactical implications. His polling shows that Progressive Activists overestimate by a factor of two to three how much others agree with their core beliefs, from abolishing the monarchy to letting children change gender. Consequently they tend to invest too little time on persuasion, focusing instead on mobilising the masses they wrongly imagine are on board. “If you’re reaching out to people, then you’re watering down,” is how Tryl describes this mindset.
While successful campaigns usually build the broadest base possible, Progressive Activists also tend to be purists, rejecting supporters who don’t endorse a complete worldview. (More than a quarter wouldn’t campaign alongside someone who believes – as a majority of Britons do – in Israel’s right to exist, for example.) Their yearning for grand systemic change means they can sound dismissive of other people’s small but well-meaning efforts, and they’re also unusually keen on correcting other people’s “mistakes” on diversity issues, something other groups consider likely to cause embarrassment. »

I hope some of the keyboard warriors/bullies roaming this board and the blue-haired, nose-pierced authoritarians will have a read, and at last, a think on how they do more harm than good.

How does woke start winning again? | Gaby Hinsliff

The long read: British progressives have suffered major setbacks in recent years, in both public opinion and court rulings. Was a backlash inevitable, and are new tactics needed?

https://www.theguardian.com/news/2025/jun/10/how-does-woke-start-winning-again

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WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:52

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:43

Lead the way. I've yet to see anything sensible but remain in hope.

Lead the way with what exactly?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:44

Dangermoo · 12/06/2025 14:23

You're doing a great job for Farage; do keep it up.

Why do his minions keep saying that?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:43

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:34

Exactly. You said Reform LOOKS more sensible. Which is an expressed opinion. And a perfectly valid one. You didn’t state it as a fact.

And the rebuttal was hearsay and telling you to ‘look at facts’ and ‘get out of your echo chamber’

It’s impossible to have a sensible discussion with these people.

Lead the way. I've yet to see anything sensible but remain in hope.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:42

inkognitha · 12/06/2025 14:27

When people use "looks like", it is to clearly signal subjectivity.
WTH are you on about with "looking at facts", dear?

I'm not worried about my own relationship with facts, basic reading comprehension or inconvenient truths, but I can't say that for everyone on this thread.

Have a deep breath and a great day

I'm not surprised you don't understand the concept of facts. Facts are important dear. I also wish you the best of days.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:39

It’s so tiring. Especially because there could be so much constructive debate to reach a consensus if it wasn’t shut down so vehemently.

I could sit down and talk respectfully about politics with someone who believes being woke is a good thing and if they engaged in good faith, we may learn something from one another. We may even agree on certain topics. I did one of those political quizzes prior to the last GE where you answer questions about your views on a range of topics and it tells you who to vote for. Mine came out an equal three-way split between Greens, Lib Dem’s and Reform (where do you even go with that?)
But my point is, it isn’t necessarily the political views that are the problem. It’s the way they are presented.

GeneralPeter · 12/06/2025 14:38

@Lostcat

You hold certain beliefs which you think are “factual”- actually they are the product of a set of narrow and partial assumptions.

I'm curious whether you think this description applies to you.

(I think that's a fair description of all of humanity. That's why recognising the rights of others to advance positions one disagrees with is so important, and why bearing in mind that they might be right is so valuable. Would you agree?).

soupycustard · 12/06/2025 14:37

One of the things that alleged 'woke' is getting wrong is its argument that it is 'transphobic' that females should have sex-based rights in order to be able to fully participate in what is still a patriarchal society.
I have yet to see an argument as to why it makes me a right wing bigot to say that males should not be able to use females' sex-based rights.
I wouldn't even mind if my position was termed 'male-phobic', even though I don't suffer from phobias and know that it is intended as a bit of a slur; at least it would be more correct in the sense that yes, I want females to maintain their sex-based societal protections. But apparently it is progressive to call people like me a 'transphobe' and usually also assume that because I'm a 'transphobe' I am 'aligned' with the 'far right'.
In the 80s I'd have been called a 'Loony Leftie' or a 'dungaree-wearing lesbian'. I wasnt either of those things either but I just can't seem to find a political position that patriarchal capitalism finds acceptable 😂

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:34

inkognitha · 12/06/2025 14:27

When people use "looks like", it is to clearly signal subjectivity.
WTH are you on about with "looking at facts", dear?

I'm not worried about my own relationship with facts, basic reading comprehension or inconvenient truths, but I can't say that for everyone on this thread.

Have a deep breath and a great day

Exactly. You said Reform LOOKS more sensible. Which is an expressed opinion. And a perfectly valid one. You didn’t state it as a fact.

And the rebuttal was hearsay and telling you to ‘look at facts’ and ‘get out of your echo chamber’

It’s impossible to have a sensible discussion with these people.

Shakeoffyourchains · 12/06/2025 14:32

inkognitha · 11/06/2025 11:27

A "basic decent human being" imho
respects the rules of democracy regarding freedom of expression and political debate
does not use violence, intimidation or destruction to get their point across
does not cancel or perform purity tests
makes the effort to know and learn more about what they are actually against
does not belittle, patronise or bully opponents
can listen to a different opinion with an open mind
does more than being a performative keyboard warrior and tantrum thrower

Being antiracist, for the environment, pro-Palestine, whatever, DOES NOT exempt anyone from these basic rules.

OP - claims a decent human being doesn't "belittle, patronise or bully opponents and listen with an open mind"

Also OP - anyone who disagrees is a blue-haired, nose-pierced authoritarian and performative, tantrum throwing, keyboard warrior.

You couldn't make it up ,😂,but as they say the hypocrisy of the right knows no bounds!

By the way OP, if that's your definition of what makes a decent human then I fear you're gonna be in for a helluva shock when you find out what the right have been up to lately 😬

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/06/2025 14:27

soupycustard · 12/06/2025 14:13

It's an interesting paradigm how this thread has gone. One of the problems for 'woke' is the assumption that if you are deemed 'woke' in one way, you have to be 'woke' in all ways, or suddenly you've become 'right wing' or 'a bigot' or a hypocrite instead.
The same is true to an extent the other way, but I'd say less so. I'm glad the Guardian is at least looking at itself a bit.

Yes, that’s a good point.

inkognitha · 12/06/2025 14:27

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:19

@inkognitha

to the point that indeed Reform looks more sensible and aligned with the population.

No it doesn't. The new Reform councillors look like a bunch of amateurs and Reform barely has any MPs. Desperately wanting something doesn't make it reality. Try looking at facts and ignore your echo chamber for a change.

When people use "looks like", it is to clearly signal subjectivity.
WTH are you on about with "looking at facts", dear?

I'm not worried about my own relationship with facts, basic reading comprehension or inconvenient truths, but I can't say that for everyone on this thread.

Have a deep breath and a great day

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WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:27

Lostcat · 12/06/2025 14:14

You can of course dress, act, mimic what you think the opposite sex behave, feel, look like

this is transphobic.

You hold certain beliefs which you think are “factual”- actually they are the product of a set of narrow and partial assumptions. And based on these presumed to be “factual” claims you’ve drawn transphobic conclusions.

It is right and appropriate to point out that transphobia is transphobia and there’s nothing intolerant , woke, angry or authoritarian about doing so.

You are literally proving the point spectacularly here. Anyone who doesn’t agree with your extreme view is ‘transphobic’
They really aren’t.

Christ, it’s like we’ve got a vocal few on the far left shouting and screaming, a vocal few on the far right shouting and screaming, and those of us sitting in the middle somewhere are just sick of it.

We cannot even debate it with you if you hold a completely different definition of the word transphobia to the majority of the population. We can’t even agree on what words mean so it becomes a pointless argument.

Dangermoo · 12/06/2025 14:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:19

@inkognitha

to the point that indeed Reform looks more sensible and aligned with the population.

No it doesn't. The new Reform councillors look like a bunch of amateurs and Reform barely has any MPs. Desperately wanting something doesn't make it reality. Try looking at facts and ignore your echo chamber for a change.

You're doing a great job for Farage; do keep it up.

GeneralPeter · 12/06/2025 14:19

@Lostcat

Absolutely not. This is a total failure to engage with the substance of what I wrote.

You may well have meant something different. But what you wrote, very clearly, was a complaint about people wanting to "reserve the right" to advance certain positions.

It wasn't about people who advance a position but object to disagreement. It was an objection to their right to advance X without also believing or stating some other thing Y that you think they should.

Let's look:

the right to "debate" the legitimacy of trans existence, while pretending they have no problem with trans people.

They want to complain about immigration, while refusing to acknowledge the broader injustices at stake.

They want to oppose environmental activism while claiming to care about climate change.

They want to defend a regime committing genocide, without anyone using the word genocide.

That's not about them objecting to disagreement. That's you complaining that they feel they have a "right" to make an argument in a way you dislike. You may concede them the right to say a, b, c, but only if they also say x, y, z.

But maybe you got onto the issue of disagreement later in your post.

You did. Was it to object to people who advance a position and then refuse to engage in debate?

Let's look:

They are also so entitled that they think it's the job of other people to persuade them to change their mind...

No it wasn't. The opposite in fact. Your objection is that they do, in your telling, expect argument back.

What should they have done instead? Well, it's:

[...] their own responsibility to behave in socially responsible ways.

Not only are they wrong to "reserve the right" to advance positions on terms they, not you, approve of, but they have an active "responsibility" to fall into line.

That's why I said your post suggests an authoritarian outlook. A closer reading, engaging with the substance of what you wrote, hasn't changed that.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 12/06/2025 14:19

@inkognitha

to the point that indeed Reform looks more sensible and aligned with the population.

No it doesn't. The new Reform councillors look like a bunch of amateurs and Reform barely has any MPs. Desperately wanting something doesn't make it reality. Try looking at facts and ignore your echo chamber for a change.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 14:19

Lostcat · 12/06/2025 13:30

That's a complaint about people seeking a right to advance positions in ways that Lostcat disagrees with. It's a right I support and that you are opposing.

Absolutely not. This is a total failure to engage with the substance of what I wrote. You are absolutely free to hold and express your opinions, of course, including those I disagree with. As I am free to do the same.

The point I was making was that people wish to hold entirely hypocritical positions, without having their hypocrisy exposed, or called out for exactly what it is.
People want the right to express transphobic attitudes. Yet when I call those attitudes transphobic, they call me "intolerant" and insist I am encroaching their "rights to free speech". Which, in fact, is quite simply further hypocrisy.

You then describe as "entitled" the idea that if others want them to change their mind they should seek to persuade them.
You instead think it's "their own responsibility" to desist from these positions you disagree with.

Of course it is "entitled" to make it my problem that you think the things that you do (I use "you" here in a general not a personal sense).

Your opinions are your own responsibility - not mine, which is quite the opposite of an authoritarian perspective.

You, on the other hand, demand that if I am to disagree with you, I must only express my disagreement in a way that you find palatable. Otherwise you mock me for failing to being persuasive to you. And this is not to be called an entitled form of engagement? Or arrogant or self-centred perhaps?

That is not a liberal outlook. A liberal is someone who sees value in a pluralistic society where issues are settled in debate, and prizes the right to hold and advance a wide range of views. Including (or especially) views the person disagrees with.

Well firstly, I think there's a difference between liberalism (especially in the neo sense) and anti-authoritarianism. But in any case,

  • in terms of seeing value in a pluralistic society, absolutely I do. Which is why, for example, I'm neither transphobic, nor anti-immigration, and speak out against these views where I see them expressed.
  • And in terms of debate - I support free speech - and enjoy engaging in debate. That means when someone says something hypocritical and offensive - I will express my opinions of their opinions - without calling that person names like "woke warrior" or accusing them of having blue hair or nose piercings.
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The problem here is your definition of transphobic or anti-immigration. I would imagine that you define both of these terms as anyone who disagrees with your stance on them.

I would imagine the majority of us who are tired of either extreme sit around the centre somewhere. Whether it’s left of or right of. So our views are more nuanced than yours. I understand that we live in a varied society and that things need to be as balanced as they can to benefit the majority.

I would consider a transphobic person as someone who hated trans people. I don’t hate trans people. I support their right to exist in society, calling themselves whatever they wish and largely doing as they wish as long as (and this is the important part) they don’t encroach on others.

On immigration - there is a huge range between being completely xenophobic and believing in completely open borders. The problem is, you’re seeing these as binary opinions. That if someone doesn’t agree with unchecked immigration then they must be xenophobic. This is simply not the case. Most people in the centre (myself included) understand that immigration is a good thing and is necessary but with certain checks and balances in place so that it doesn’t become a huge issue.

Just because people don’t agree with you, does NOT mean they are far right. They’re probably more likely to be in the centre.

Lostcat · 12/06/2025 14:14

Nowayyousure · 12/06/2025 14:09

Just looking at first first line

'be transphobic' when individuals accuse people of being 'transphobic' because they believe in biological reality and science that you cannot change sex or transform into the opposite sex. It's impossible. You can of course dress, act, mimic what you think the opposite sex behave, feel, look like but you can never BE the opposite sex. That's not transphobic that factual! Why does reality get called 'transphobic' it really isn't.

You can of course dress, act, mimic what you think the opposite sex behave, feel, look like

this is transphobic.

You hold certain beliefs which you think are “factual”- actually they are the product of a set of narrow and partial assumptions. And based on these presumed to be “factual” claims you’ve drawn transphobic conclusions.

It is right and appropriate to point out that transphobia is transphobia and there’s nothing intolerant , woke, angry or authoritarian about doing so.

Dangermoo · 12/06/2025 14:13

Nowayyousure · 12/06/2025 14:09

Just looking at first first line

'be transphobic' when individuals accuse people of being 'transphobic' because they believe in biological reality and science that you cannot change sex or transform into the opposite sex. It's impossible. You can of course dress, act, mimic what you think the opposite sex behave, feel, look like but you can never BE the opposite sex. That's not transphobic that factual! Why does reality get called 'transphobic' it really isn't.

It's the go to way of shutting people down. I'm talking about the idea of transphobia, in general. It backfired, big time when the wonderful JKR got stuck in, to fight back.

inkognitha · 12/06/2025 14:13

Things are crumbling. MN is a bastion of bekind and even here, the wall is cracking. Even on the Guardian, the wall is cracking.

Their Overton window got so small it should be called a monocle.

The only pity is that they have dumbed the Left down, blocked internal debate, made it bitter, angry, petty, superficial, to the point that indeed Reform looks more sensible and aligned with the population.

I know a few bits about WWII and the rise of Nazism, but it's only now I realise how much the Weimar Republic must have been epically sh*t.

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soupycustard · 12/06/2025 14:13

It's an interesting paradigm how this thread has gone. One of the problems for 'woke' is the assumption that if you are deemed 'woke' in one way, you have to be 'woke' in all ways, or suddenly you've become 'right wing' or 'a bigot' or a hypocrite instead.
The same is true to an extent the other way, but I'd say less so. I'm glad the Guardian is at least looking at itself a bit.

StripyShirt · 12/06/2025 14:12

spoonbillstretford · 11/06/2025 09:28

Woke just means not causing deliberate offence or unfairly discriminating against or being prejudiced about group of people. It's not authoritarian or progressive but just about being a basic decent human being.

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Not any more. It now seems to describe the opposite position to 'Gammon'.

Most rational people are about half way between the two, give or take a bit.

Nowayyousure · 12/06/2025 14:09

Lostcat · 12/06/2025 10:37

So you reserve the right to ;

be transphobic ;
to enforce the arbitrary and violent injustice of nation state borders;
to support a regime that has been enforcing apartheid for decades and is currently implementing genocide;
and you oppose action drawing attention to the destruction of the planet which sustains all forms of life on earth.

And we are not allowed to strongly disagree with you on these points because it’s “out of touch” and “woke”?

And you also think this is an original sentiment that requires its own thread.

Cool beans OP.

Just looking at first first line

'be transphobic' when individuals accuse people of being 'transphobic' because they believe in biological reality and science that you cannot change sex or transform into the opposite sex. It's impossible. You can of course dress, act, mimic what you think the opposite sex behave, feel, look like but you can never BE the opposite sex. That's not transphobic that factual! Why does reality get called 'transphobic' it really isn't.

Dangermoo · 12/06/2025 14:08

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/06/2025 14:03

People should read the comments with the most BTL recommends on that 2016 article. People were angry. The Guardian was shameful, only reporting on it when they could no longer avoid it. In Hinsliff’s mealy mouthed, grudging rape apologist article she acknowledges this desire of the righteous to avoid talking about it. And myself and other women who read the Guardian regularly and considered themselves “Guardian readers” stopped doing so at that time as @TheaBrandt1 refers to.

I admire your principles. 😊

needmoresheep · 12/06/2025 14:07

Insults, threats, cancel tactics, intimidation, bullying or aggression is not the way to win over the hearts and minds of the majority of the population. We have seen it with ‘Just Stop Oil’ basically annoying motorists who were inconvenienced or sports viewers having whatever they were watching disrupted, and then the behaviour of TRAs has just repulsed some people, nurses are forming new unions as they feel they are not supported, LGA has formed, Stonewall is in crisis and even the National Trust is throwing away its core membership in favour of wokeism.

Big business is increasingly aware they need to be more non-political. Customers vote with their pockets.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/06/2025 14:03

Dangermoo · 12/06/2025 13:23

You really aren't understanding it are you? Pointless.

People should read the comments with the most BTL recommends on that 2016 article. People were angry. The Guardian was shameful, only reporting on it when they could no longer avoid it. In Hinsliff’s mealy mouthed, grudging rape apologist article she acknowledges this desire of the righteous to avoid talking about it. And myself and other women who read the Guardian regularly and considered themselves “Guardian readers” stopped doing so at that time as @TheaBrandt1 refers to.

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