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To think “period cookies” is ridiculous…

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smallstitch · 11/06/2025 08:50

Just seen a post on local fb page asking if any bakers can make some “period cookies” with a photo from Instagram. Various iced cookies - some depicting pants with pink gusset, others are sanitary pads, and some say “welcome to the big girls club”.
Is it me or has society lost the plot?

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smallglassbottle · 11/06/2025 13:11

Sounds like something the ancient Romans would have liked 😂

Next: My First UTI cake 🙄

Can't people just get on with their everyday lives anymore?

lifeonmars100 · 11/06/2025 13:09

popcornpower2025 · 11/06/2025 12:46

Isn't that because hair thinning is a symptom of menopause?

Don't get me wrong I still think it's a load of marketing bollocks and there are natural ways to strengthen hair but that'll be why menopause shampoo exists

There have been shampoos like this around for ages, it is great that the taboos that have surrounded menopause are being tackled but needless to say it has also turned into a chance to flog stuff to women

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 13:05

lifeonmars100 · 11/06/2025 13:03

I posted on here about what I did when one of my nieces stated her periods while she was staying with me. I ran her a bath, then we went out for a nice lunch and I got her a 5 pack of dark knickers. I asked her if she wanted to tell her mum or would she rather I did, she chose the latter. To me this sounds a reasonable response but I got a nasty reply from another poster on here who asked me if my niece lacked arms so could not run her own bath and that I had overstepped my role by taking her out!

🙄 to the poster who said that, not you. There was no need for that comment.

lifeonmars100 · 11/06/2025 13:03

WilfredsPies · 11/06/2025 12:58

I’d rather have a packet of chocolate digestives.

I posted on here about what I did when one of my nieces stated her periods while she was staying with me. I ran her a bath, then we went out for a nice lunch and I got her a 5 pack of dark knickers. I asked her if she wanted to tell her mum or would she rather I did, she chose the latter. To me this sounds a reasonable response but I got a nasty reply from another poster on here who asked me if my niece lacked arms so could not run her own bath and that I had overstepped my role by taking her out!

Littlebitpsycho · 11/06/2025 13:03

Ewwww. That is all.

lifeonmars100 · 11/06/2025 12:59

I am all for the shame and secrecy being ended, when I started mine I had been given minimal information, wasn't even told that the blood came out of the vagina, how long the bleeding lasted or how to deal with it. I was so shocked and ashamed when mine started that I did not tell my mother for a few months and dealt with it by using loo roll and getting towels out of the machine at school. However biscuits is just mad.

Financialthymes · 11/06/2025 12:58

Just ridiculous. It’s just too much. Everything is ‘celebrated’ ie turned into a money making/narcissistic exercise these days.

WilfredsPies · 11/06/2025 12:58

I’d rather have a packet of chocolate digestives.

MarxistMags · 11/06/2025 12:47

They have completely lost the plot. 🤔

Skodasuperb · 11/06/2025 12:46

For a brave and artistic baker this could be a goldmine, but wjy should girls get all the fun? What about a pair of boxers with all jizz stains on them? Sort of a "Congratulations on your first wet dream" type thing.

popcornpower2025 · 11/06/2025 12:46

Middlechild3 · 11/06/2025 12:44

I saw menopause shampoo in Boots the other day lol

Isn't that because hair thinning is a symptom of menopause?

Don't get me wrong I still think it's a load of marketing bollocks and there are natural ways to strengthen hair but that'll be why menopause shampoo exists

LeftieRightsHoarder · 11/06/2025 12:44

beezlebubnicky · 11/06/2025 09:01

People commenting disgusting and vulgar shows why maybe we need to celebrate the normality of women's bodily functions. Menarche is completely normal and so is menstruation, and we shouldn't shame people about it.

I'm not sure I would do cookies, but there's nothing wrong with it either.

I agree. I’m sad and tbh a bit shocked to see mumsnetters calling this disgusting. It’s a new stage in life, to be welcomed.

Though I must admit I might hesitate to bite into a cake looking like blood-stained knickers!

I’d go for something red: piece of jewellery, pot plant, item of clothing (of her choice). For something edible, maybe a cake topped with strawberries?

5128gap · 11/06/2025 12:44

Lanzarotelady · 11/06/2025 09:08

Bloody ridiculous!

Christ alive, why are we infantilising women!

I think the cookies are strange and unappealing. But I very much doubt, given they are to mark a first period, they are aimed at women. 11 and 12 year old girls are the most likely recipients I'd have thought.

Middlechild3 · 11/06/2025 12:44

smallstitch · 11/06/2025 08:50

Just seen a post on local fb page asking if any bakers can make some “period cookies” with a photo from Instagram. Various iced cookies - some depicting pants with pink gusset, others are sanitary pads, and some say “welcome to the big girls club”.
Is it me or has society lost the plot?

I saw menopause shampoo in Boots the other day lol

popcornpower2025 · 11/06/2025 12:44

3amamama · 11/06/2025 09:04

I think anything that helps chip away at the fear of women’s bodies is a good thing. Including internalised fear.

I agree. I had serious issues and extreme embarrassment around my period for all of my teen years. I remember when I started my mum basically pulled me in to a room when I got home from school and I felt like it was an accusation. Really weird as my mum was very in to holistic health and women's health and my sister never had the same issues, but I just found the whole thing mortifying.

I can certainly see the value in celebrating it or acknowledging it in a healthy way, rather than having it hush hush and embarrassing

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 12:43

IdiottoGoa · 11/06/2025 08:56

My granddaughter started her periods around the same time as international women’s day so I sent her a book about inspirational women and sent her a message about how awesome women can be.

Didn’t think about a cookie though 🤣🤣🤣

That's lovely 😍

Thindog · 11/06/2025 12:42

I’d buy her a cake with, “Only 4 decades till the menopause,” iced across it.

heartsinvisiblefury · 11/06/2025 12:38

Is there nothing that won’t be commercialised?? What’s next Happy Period banners and cards every month?

JHound · 11/06/2025 12:36

Flashahah · 11/06/2025 11:40

Really?

Yes. Really.

ruethewhirl · 11/06/2025 12:33

Crinnnge. Reminds me of a scene in a Judy Blume book where an older teen girl bakes a cake for a younger relative to commemorate her first period, and ices 'Congratulations' across the top. Way to alert absolutely everyone to what's happening... 🙄

The FB request makes it sound like some sort of 'period celebration' is being planned. 😣 Blimey, I didn't want anyone except my best friends to know when I started - I was even mortified that my mum told my dad! I get that it's a rite of passage, but... ugh, just no.

LifeReallyIsTooShort · 11/06/2025 12:29

funinthesun19 · 11/06/2025 12:02

I haven’t used any of those words to describe periods. There’s nothing shameful about periods. I’ve used those words to describe mums/grandmas/aunties/sisters etc.. who are probably being an absolute overbearing nightmare for a young girl who has just started her periods. Disgusting, vulgar, shameful, embarrassing, horrific. Those are the perfect words to describe these women. Not the periods.

Good response. Some people deliberately misconstrue posts because they enjoy conflict. I didn’t take it that you used those words to describe periods.

Epidote · 11/06/2025 12:28

They do Willie's and boobs in cakes, Halloween theme food like hotdogs looking cut finger etc. Period cookies? Doesn't sound far off tbh.
Have we lost the plot? Yes, definitely time ago. There are poop shape candy and toilet shape with sorbet in for the kids in the cady store.

LifeReallyIsTooShort · 11/06/2025 12:22

smallstitch · 11/06/2025 08:50

Just seen a post on local fb page asking if any bakers can make some “period cookies” with a photo from Instagram. Various iced cookies - some depicting pants with pink gusset, others are sanitary pads, and some say “welcome to the big girls club”.
Is it me or has society lost the plot?

This is absolutely ridiculous, yes, society has lost the plot! When I was a kid I grabbed a sanitary towel out of my drawer, put three spare ones in my school bag, downed a couple of paracetamol and got myself off to school.
Make a big deal out of something and that’s exactly what it’ll be.

Rvethetgergwtbteh · 11/06/2025 12:22

smallstitch · 11/06/2025 11:55

Here you go, not sure if it will show straight away

The irony of the mum writing she wants the cookies so her daughters “ first period is not utterly horrific” - and she’s written it publicly on Facebook (I assume with name/profile photo attached) so that everybody knows! That’s more horrific to a teen than the period I would think.
Nobody should be ashamed of their periods, but if I was the daughter I would be mortified that it’s been announced on Facebook.

whackamole666 · 11/06/2025 12:18

a chocolate cake to celebrate baby's first poo

rice pudding to celebrate your son's first sexual experience

a banana cake to celebrate your husband's erectile dysfunction

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