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Dog lovers aren’t animal lovers

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Namechanger1993 · 11/06/2025 08:31

I’ve been lurking in various dog related threads recently and it’s become abundantly clear how few dog owners on MN actually love animals. Not all. But lots.

Posters not caring about health tests on parents, or the breeders experience or ability or what happens to the bitch (mother of the pups) after as their desire for expensive mix outweighs their ethics about puppy farming or dogs being born in pain with chronic health issues as a result of bad breeding. Posters admitting their dogs have soiled themselves for a year before they put their dog to sleep. No matter which way you look at it (and believe me, I understand how hard it is to say goodbye), people who love their dogs don’t let them sleep in their shit for a year. Posters not exercising their dog sufficiently or not giving it mental stimulation and then wondering why its badly behaved.

Time and time again I’ve seen posters put their desire for a dog above any morals they might have about animal welfare (including their own dogs). welfare. Honestly, it’s quite shocking how little so many posters care about their dogs, or indeed the dogs use to produce their cute puppy.

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redboxer321 · 11/06/2025 20:05

@tumblingdowntherabbithole I don't know if you are not reading my posts or if you're not understanding them but it's one of the two.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:59

MuskIsACnt · 11/06/2025 19:53

I understand. In that case, you’re wrong.

FWIW, it's attitudes like this that give vegans a bad reputation. I'm sure you don't care, but I thought I'd put it out there.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:58

@redboxer321 well of course, you're free to say whatever you like to people, but don't be surprised if you then find yourself on the receiving end of someone's upset or anger.

You have no idea if there's something majorly wrong with someone's dog based on a tiny snapshot of a walk. If someone said my dog was suffering because they saw him limping with grass on his paw, I'd probably burst into tears, quite honestly.

LandSharksAnonymous · 11/06/2025 19:55

@EdithStourton I'd love the registry system with the health test information without a show ring rewarding only looks.

Interestingly, one of the comments my boy got at crufts this year was that his nose is the wrong shade 😂

I tried not to laugh. All these years of trying to encourage betterment of the breed, and my boy gets marked down for a brown spot on his nose. Yet the flat faced frenchies that can't breath are encouraged. Bonkers.

But I'll persevere in the hopes they don't ruin my breed as they have done so many others.

Next year, I'll paint his nose black ahead of time.

redboxer321 · 11/06/2025 19:54

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 18:43

I just like to think most owners are doing their best and don't need a stranger to butt in and give them unwanted advice about their dogs' health and well-being.

My beagle often limps dramatically when he gets grass on his paws - if someone told me they thought he was suffering because of a tiny snapshot I would think they were bonkers - but I'd also be pretty offended that they thought I was stupid enough to walk a suffering dog in the first place.

I'll say this again: I do not give advice. Neither do I butt in.
But owners are sometimes the last people to recognise that their dog is uncomfortable or in pain because they see them everyday and so the decline is gradual and less noticeable. Also people understandably don't want to face up to the fact that one day they will lose them. It's all perfectly understandable but it doesn't make it right.

But I wish someone would do something. I am just back from a walk and saw a man with two dogs. The way they move suggests they are in discomfort/pain. I see him often. He has progressed from throwing the ball over and over and over with a ball thrower to riding a bike with them chasing him. The one dogs gets confused and I think its eyesight might be going.
I hope someone is "bonkers" enough/willing to take the risk of offending him to says something to him because I am sorry to say that I have not found a way yet.

If more people were willing to stand up and say something when they saw something bad happening to people or other animals, the world might be in less of a mess than it is.

Edited to say, the first few words of your post says it all: "I just like to think...." We'd all like to think that there's nothing to worry about but I'm sorry to say, there often is.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 11/06/2025 19:53

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MuskIsACnt · 11/06/2025 19:53

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:42

My point is that a vegan diet that involves importing food for people is probably less environmentally friendly than a diet where people eat locally reared meat - so I don't believe it's something we really need to be aiming for.

I understand. In that case, you’re wrong.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:51

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:49

The change I have seen over the three decades I have been vegan have shown me that change is happening.
They said the same about women getting the vote. About slavery. About a LOT of things that people were adamant would never change. How about that!

Like I said, very idealistic Wink

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:49

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:45

I think you have a very idealistic view of humanity and what they'll do. You will never turn this entire planet vegan.

The change I have seen over the three decades I have been vegan have shown me that change is happening.
They said the same about women getting the vote. About slavery. About a LOT of things that people were adamant would never change. How about that!

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:48

CoubousAndTourmalet · 11/06/2025 19:40

I'm a lifelong veggie, I know plenty of vegans and a lot of them have pets. I am totally baffled by this new militant veganism that involves hating animals... Or at least having rules along the lines of x animal = bad, Y animal = good.
And why does veganism now equate to so much anger and hate? Vegans I knew growing up were kind and caring. When did this change?

I don't know any vegan who hates animals. I certainly don't hate animals. I do, however, hate hypocrisy, and I don't think it is right to save one dog at great cost to the many animals who will be slaughtered to feed it. In a simple numbers game, it is surely not vegan to save one dog when it means suffering and death for so many other animals.
ALL the vegans I know, and I know A LOT, are kind and caring. Absolutely all of them.
Vegetarians on the other hand ...

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:46

redboxer321 · 11/06/2025 19:39

I take your point but someone is feeding a dog in a shelter so it may as well be me. I have thought about a vegan diet for her but I'm not sure it's right. And vegan food, the way it is produced on mass, is not cruelty free in any case.
If there were far fewer cats and dogs we could feed them from offcuts from the meat for humans industry. There must be a huge amount of carcass that is not used.

As I said, I do take your point and think it's a good one.

But it also may as well not be anyone, and the dog fed to the lion instead of breeding a sheep to be fed to the lion.

https://wildearth.com/blogs/the-wild-times/bramble-the-vegan-border-collie?srsltid=AfmBOoqG0aUn8rH-d-yU_gFXMhZANx-THt-SDDt9b8p1PYf-bWJTmGDq

Dogs thrive on a plant-based diet.

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Are you familiar with Bramble the veggie-eating Border Collie from the United Kingdom who lived to the ripe age of 25 years old? This is over 175 "dog years" which is considered to be nearly double the average lifespan of Border Collies who typically l...

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EdithStourton · 11/06/2025 19:46

To drag this thread away from the vegans...

I have mixed feelings about the Kennel Club (and Crufts).

When you judge a dog in the show ring, aside from it being temperamentally stable enough to cope being in the ring, not bite the judge etc, you're not seeing anything about its mind. You're not seeing its working ability. You're not seeing how drivey it is, how good it is at working the wind, or working stock, whether it really would bring down a wolf, whether it's hardy enough to handle the weather that would be thrown at it, whether its coat would shrug off the rain, whether its conformation is robust enough to do a day's work. Nothing about trainable it is.

I don't know when there was last a dual champion cocker or Labrador: springer, cocker and labs have split into very different show and working types. I own a hunt-point-retrieve breed, and I know several dogs who both work and do well in shows, but even in those breeds a split is developing - some lines are losing their working ability, because if you don't breed for the working traits you will slowly lose them, and if you select against them (because a less driven dog is much easier to keep and handle) you will lose them even faster.

So, to that extent, the KC and Crufts destroy working breeds. And they also encourage - via what is rewarded in the show ring - the deformity of some breeds: the too-long dachshunds prone to back issues, the saggy-eyed bloodhounds that wouldn't last 5 minutes in the field, the brachy dogs that can barely breathe.

On the other hand, the KC maintains a registry, so you can know, if you're looking to breed a litter, that this stud dog is too closely related for comfort and that stud dog is far enough away. You can look at generations of health test results. All of that is valuable.

I'd love the registry system with the health test information without a show ring rewarding only looks.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:45

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:44

Animal agriculture is by FAR the worst pollutant to our planet. With sustainable practices to import minimal foods (e,g, avocados), ideally by ship, but with the vast majority being home grown, I think that would satisfy more people, to give us a bit ore variety. I think with modern farming methods (hydroponics, vertical farming hubs, polytunnels, aeroponics etc) we can probably grow all that we need. Add some import to get some treat items (oranges from Seville), and we can be happy and healthy. It's absolutely doable, we just need the will to do it.

I think you have a very idealistic view of humanity and what they'll do. You will never turn this entire planet vegan.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:44

CoubousAndTourmalet · 11/06/2025 19:40

I'm a lifelong veggie, I know plenty of vegans and a lot of them have pets. I am totally baffled by this new militant veganism that involves hating animals... Or at least having rules along the lines of x animal = bad, Y animal = good.
And why does veganism now equate to so much anger and hate? Vegans I knew growing up were kind and caring. When did this change?

It's fascinating - I was veggie for a while as a teenager (I couldn't maintain it due to my autism and sensory issues around food) but I never realised people got so angry about it, and battered people for loving cats and dogs, or hamsters. It's crazy to me.

Why can't people just live and let live? Why do people need to belittle others and try and make them feel shit, or cruel, or stupid? It's not going to change anything.

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:44

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:36

Out of interest, why are you okay with importing and not breeding animals? Is it down to animal cruelty? Do the air miles and pollution not bother you?

Animal agriculture is by FAR the worst pollutant to our planet. With sustainable practices to import minimal foods (e,g, avocados), ideally by ship, but with the vast majority being home grown, I think that would satisfy more people, to give us a bit ore variety. I think with modern farming methods (hydroponics, vertical farming hubs, polytunnels, aeroponics etc) we can probably grow all that we need. Add some import to get some treat items (oranges from Seville), and we can be happy and healthy. It's absolutely doable, we just need the will to do it.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:43

LandSharksAnonymous · 11/06/2025 19:37

We can indeed all be vegan in this country, if we wanted to.

We could. Personally, though, I love a nice blue steak.

Ooh, yes please.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:42

MuskIsACnt · 11/06/2025 19:37

As mentioned previously, vegan diets use less land. We certainly don’t have enough land in the UK to feed everyone a meat diet without importing so I don’t understand what your point is.

My point is that a vegan diet that involves importing food for people is probably less environmentally friendly than a diet where people eat locally reared meat - so I don't believe it's something we really need to be aiming for.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 11/06/2025 19:40

I'm a lifelong veggie, I know plenty of vegans and a lot of them have pets. I am totally baffled by this new militant veganism that involves hating animals... Or at least having rules along the lines of x animal = bad, Y animal = good.
And why does veganism now equate to so much anger and hate? Vegans I knew growing up were kind and caring. When did this change?

redboxer321 · 11/06/2025 19:39

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 18:49

But that means one is offering ONE animal a better life AT A COST to hundreds of others that will be bred and then slaughtered, merely to feed that pet. It is just so short-sighted. And no, much meat for pet food is not merely offcuts from the meat-for-humans industry.
How would people feel if instead of breeding chickens, fish, pigs, sheep, cows, and using them to feed dogs, cats and zoo animals, we just stop breeding the farmed animals, and feed the surplus dogs and cats to the zoo animals. I mean, WHY do we find it more palatable to be so ok with goats and chickens being fed to the lions, than dogs and cats? As a vegan, I am obviously against zoos too, but I am making a point. By saving cats and dogs, innumerable other animals are caused immense suffering.

I take your point but someone is feeding a dog in a shelter so it may as well be me. I have thought about a vegan diet for her but I'm not sure it's right. And vegan food, the way it is produced on mass, is not cruelty free in any case.
If there were far fewer cats and dogs we could feed them from offcuts from the meat for humans industry. There must be a huge amount of carcass that is not used.

As I said, I do take your point and think it's a good one.

MuskIsACnt · 11/06/2025 19:37

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:27

We can indeed all be vegan in this country, if we wanted to. Stop being so defeatist. We can build walled greenhouses and gardens, it's totally possible. We can encourage those with gardens and allotments to grow more vegetables, we can create community gardens to grow vegetables, this is happening in certain areas, and can be expanded upon.

Do you honestly, genuinely believe we have enough land to feed 70 million people a vegan diet without importing? We don't.

As mentioned previously, vegan diets use less land. We certainly don’t have enough land in the UK to feed everyone a meat diet without importing so I don’t understand what your point is.

LandSharksAnonymous · 11/06/2025 19:37

We can indeed all be vegan in this country, if we wanted to.

We could. Personally, though, I love a nice blue steak.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:36

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:34

Yes, absolutely. With better management, and correct systems, eg hydroponics, we can achieve this. Especially when we don't have to feed cats and dogs as well. But I am not against importing, too, within reason.

Out of interest, why are you okay with importing and not breeding animals? Is it down to animal cruelty? Do the air miles and pollution not bother you?

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:34

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:27

We can indeed all be vegan in this country, if we wanted to. Stop being so defeatist. We can build walled greenhouses and gardens, it's totally possible. We can encourage those with gardens and allotments to grow more vegetables, we can create community gardens to grow vegetables, this is happening in certain areas, and can be expanded upon.

Do you honestly, genuinely believe we have enough land to feed 70 million people a vegan diet without importing? We don't.

Yes, absolutely. With better management, and correct systems, eg hydroponics, we can achieve this. Especially when we don't have to feed cats and dogs as well. But I am not against importing, too, within reason.

SharpestBulb · 11/06/2025 19:30

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:26

Yep, scavengers who eat meat (amongst other things, shit included - mine is especially partial to sheep and cow varieties).

Mumsnet, please give us the vom react emoji.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/06/2025 19:28

You like your pet because of what your pet gives you, that’s all. It’s totally selfish.

Correct. I have no issue with being selfish in the slightest, FWIW.