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Dog lovers aren’t animal lovers

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Namechanger1993 · 11/06/2025 08:31

I’ve been lurking in various dog related threads recently and it’s become abundantly clear how few dog owners on MN actually love animals. Not all. But lots.

Posters not caring about health tests on parents, or the breeders experience or ability or what happens to the bitch (mother of the pups) after as their desire for expensive mix outweighs their ethics about puppy farming or dogs being born in pain with chronic health issues as a result of bad breeding. Posters admitting their dogs have soiled themselves for a year before they put their dog to sleep. No matter which way you look at it (and believe me, I understand how hard it is to say goodbye), people who love their dogs don’t let them sleep in their shit for a year. Posters not exercising their dog sufficiently or not giving it mental stimulation and then wondering why its badly behaved.

Time and time again I’ve seen posters put their desire for a dog above any morals they might have about animal welfare (including their own dogs). welfare. Honestly, it’s quite shocking how little so many posters care about their dogs, or indeed the dogs use to produce their cute puppy.

OP posts:
vodkaredbullgirl · 12/06/2025 10:28

Big Mac anyone 😆

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 10:18

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 10:15

Pre stunned slaughter after a lifetime of misery never seeing daylight & a high chance of being abused by the animals that work in those places.

I think all the free range animals out enjoying the sunshine in the fields today may disagree with your comments about never seeing sunlight 😉

redboxer321 · 12/06/2025 10:17

@CoubousAndTourmalet
Ah, the old you can't take a joke reply. The old ones are the best, eh?

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 10:16

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 10:12

Keep telling yourself that. Factory farmed animals that are bred in vile conditions simply for slaughter are a world away from a natural death in the wild

I don’t need to tell myself that, I’ve seen both.

FWIW your comments are just patronising and won’t do anything to help your cause.

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 10:15

EdithStourton · 12/06/2025 08:39

Everything that lives, dies.
There are far worse ways to go than pre-stunned slaughter.

NB Patronising people is not a good way to get them onside.

Pre stunned slaughter after a lifetime of misery never seeing daylight & a high chance of being abused by the animals that work in those places.

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 10:12

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 08:51

Exactly, it’s not like animals die a lovely, peaceful death in the natural world.

Keep telling yourself that. Factory farmed animals that are bred in vile conditions simply for slaughter are a world away from a natural death in the wild

Charlottejbt · 12/06/2025 10:08

YANBU. Certain dog breeds are not a pet but a weapon. Ownership needs to be highly regulated, not the current free for all.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 12/06/2025 10:04

redboxer321 · 12/06/2025 09:51

No we are not. You may be but no one else is. Anyway, none of it matters really, the world as we know it is fecked and turning your heating down a notch and not driving a car is not going to make the slightest bit of difference.

Humour about it being a competition. You know. Funny. Irony/sarcasm....?

Oh, silly me! I forgot! Vegans don't do irony/humour, do they...? Everything is literal and robotic. My mistake. As you were 😏

redboxer321 · 12/06/2025 09:54

Plenty of drugs have been tested on animals before being prescribed to humans.

Before is the important word here. It should never have been done but it has and the drugs exist.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 09:52

hididdlyho · 12/06/2025 09:47

Why is eating meat any different to taking advantage of modern medicine to cure illness? Plenty of drugs have been tested on animals before being prescribed to humans. We live in an imperfect world and if being vegan makes you feel better about your impact on the planet, then that's great. Life is short and people should be encouraged to live in a way which makes them happy, but I think trying to claim some kind of moral superiority for not eating meat is a little odd.

Edited

Agreed. Most of us can have a positive impact on the planet without being too evangelical about it. And yes, you CAN pick and choose based on what suits your lifestyle best. If that was the main message, people would be more inclined to do something.

redboxer321 · 12/06/2025 09:51

CoubousAndTourmalet · 12/06/2025 09:40

Oh, are we having a competition for who has less impact on the planet? Jolly good!

Here's my entry.
No kids
No car (though partner has an old Skoda estate)
No tv or smartphone.
I've never once been on a plane in my entire life!
But I've lived with dogs for 50 years.
I'm vegetarian but my dog is not.

Am I really harming the ecosystem more than a vegan with two kids and a car, just because I buy local cheese and local milk and feed my dog a bit of kibble?

No we are not. You may be but no one else is. Anyway, none of it matters really, the world as we know it is fecked and turning your heating down a notch and not driving a car is not going to make the slightest bit of difference.

hididdlyho · 12/06/2025 09:47

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 06:34

What a nasty post. Enjoy eating that KFC after the chicken sat in its own poo and then was gassed ( all the time probably posting about your fur baby on Instagram)

Why is eating meat any different to taking advantage of modern medicine to cure illness? Plenty of drugs have been tested on animals before being prescribed to humans. We live in an imperfect world and if being vegan makes you feel better about your impact on the planet, then that's great. Life is short and people should be encouraged to live in a way which makes them happy, but I think trying to claim some kind of moral superiority for not eating meat is a little odd.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 09:46

You make out the bacon fairy sneaks in in the middle of the night and puts them to sleep without any suffering.

Absolutely nobody has said anything of the sort.

There’s also rarely ever such a thing as death without suffering - unfortunately that’s part of life. FWIW I’ve seen videos of slaughterhouses and live surrounded by farms - it doesn’t put me off eating meat in the slightest 🤷‍♀️

KimberleyClark · 12/06/2025 09:43

fiveIsNewOne · 11/06/2025 21:19

Many dog owners don't like animals in general. They just like their dog as a part of themselves.

How many of them let them chase or scare wildlife, annoy other dogs or cats, all those interactions when their dog them is the only animal which matters.

Just like many parents don’t like children in general, only their own as part of themselves, and often let them run riot in restaurants and other inappropriate places.

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/06/2025 09:43

CoubousAndTourmalet · 12/06/2025 09:40

Oh, are we having a competition for who has less impact on the planet? Jolly good!

Here's my entry.
No kids
No car (though partner has an old Skoda estate)
No tv or smartphone.
I've never once been on a plane in my entire life!
But I've lived with dogs for 50 years.
I'm vegetarian but my dog is not.

Am I really harming the ecosystem more than a vegan with two kids and a car, just because I buy local cheese and local milk and feed my dog a bit of kibble?

Depends. Does the Vegan regularly consume imported avocados and products containing palm oil? Wink

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 09:43

Yep, I do think anyone who has children or goes abroad and is also banging on about how we need to eat a vegan diet to save the planet is being massively hypocritical.

Go vegan by all means, but don’t act like you’re doing it to save the planet when you made the decision to reproduce 🫣

EdithStourton · 12/06/2025 09:43

LadyTangerine · 12/06/2025 09:10

They get carted onto a lorry, packed in like sardines. Often travelling great distances to then queue up with the smell of blood and the sounds of other animals in great distress.

It is a horrible distressing procedure. Lucky if they are stunned first what with all the halal that has seeped in to our supermarket shelves most aren't stunned they are hung upside down and bleed to death.

You make out the bacon fairy sneaks in in the middle of the night and puts them to sleep without any suffering.

Eat meat if you must but do watch clips of slaughterhouse procedure just so you're fully informed of what suffering goes into your greasy burgers and bacon butties.

You make out the bacon fairy sneaks in in the middle of the night and puts them to sleep without any suffering.
I did nothing of the sort.

Putting words into the mouths of other people doesn't help your case at all.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 12/06/2025 09:40

Oh, are we having a competition for who has less impact on the planet? Jolly good!

Here's my entry.
No kids
No car (though partner has an old Skoda estate)
No tv or smartphone.
I've never once been on a plane in my entire life!
But I've lived with dogs for 50 years.
I'm vegetarian but my dog is not.

Am I really harming the ecosystem more than a vegan with two kids and a car, just because I buy local cheese and local milk and feed my dog a bit of kibble?

redboxer321 · 12/06/2025 09:25

I have to say if you have kids, I don't see how you can really claim to care about other animals or the environment. The main challenge many animals face is lack of living space because so much of it has been taken over by humans. Adding to that number isn't going to help. Also most humans go on to have children and no one know how those children or their children's children are going to turn out: they could be massive carnivores.

I was feeling bad about having a dog but what would be the option for her? I do think about feeding her a vegan diet but I'm not convinced and vegan food is not cruelty free anyway. So my only option would be to put her to sleep. And I'm not going to do that. She does eat other animals but I am unconvinced that animals are being killed for pet food. There must be so much of the carcass left after humans have taken what they want. Which brings me back to kids. That's what we need to stop. Humans breeding or breeding in the numbers that they do at least.

LadyTangerine · 12/06/2025 09:10

EdithStourton · 12/06/2025 08:39

Everything that lives, dies.
There are far worse ways to go than pre-stunned slaughter.

NB Patronising people is not a good way to get them onside.

They get carted onto a lorry, packed in like sardines. Often travelling great distances to then queue up with the smell of blood and the sounds of other animals in great distress.

It is a horrible distressing procedure. Lucky if they are stunned first what with all the halal that has seeped in to our supermarket shelves most aren't stunned they are hung upside down and bleed to death.

You make out the bacon fairy sneaks in in the middle of the night and puts them to sleep without any suffering.

Eat meat if you must but do watch clips of slaughterhouse procedure just so you're fully informed of what suffering goes into your greasy burgers and bacon butties.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 12/06/2025 08:51

EdithStourton · 12/06/2025 08:39

Everything that lives, dies.
There are far worse ways to go than pre-stunned slaughter.

NB Patronising people is not a good way to get them onside.

Exactly, it’s not like animals die a lovely, peaceful death in the natural world.

EdithStourton · 12/06/2025 08:39

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 06:27

Keep telling yourself that dearie. While you're convincing yourself take at look at some abattoir footage & then say you're an animal lover.

Everything that lives, dies.
There are far worse ways to go than pre-stunned slaughter.

NB Patronising people is not a good way to get them onside.

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 06:34

Whippetlovely · 11/06/2025 15:59

I love my dog and my cat. I don't love other people's animals. The same way I love my children, I don't love other people's children. Perhaps your right people shouldn't use the term animal lover when really they mean they like animals. You can't really love anything unless you have a personal relationship with it. This is why we can quite happily eat a KFC burger with no guilt. If it was my chicken of course I wouldn't chop it up and eat it as I'd have a relationship with it. One that's been in a farm I've never met I have no connection with I can eat guilt free. It's not hard to understand. Humans are meant to eat animals weather you like it or not. You don't have to if you so choose but the rest of us really aren't interested in your opinions on our diets. Go off and enjoy some spinach.

What a nasty post. Enjoy eating that KFC after the chicken sat in its own poo and then was gassed ( all the time probably posting about your fur baby on Instagram)

WitchesCauldron · 12/06/2025 06:27

EdithStourton · 11/06/2025 14:20

Nah.
I know how much I love animals. I also understand the trophic cascade and accept that I am a member of an omnivorous species.

It is entirely normal to love and enjoy animals and still eat meat.

Keep telling yourself that dearie. While you're convincing yourself take at look at some abattoir footage & then say you're an animal lover.

SquashedSquid · 12/06/2025 01:59

"We can indeed all be vegan in this country, if we wanted to. Stop being so defeatist."

No we can't, and it is ableist to suggest so.