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AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

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TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

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Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 11:52

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 11:38

@Fluffyholeysocks of course no one has to justify themselves, but it helps to understand what motivates people and what they think they are voting for. We do need to try and understand other people's perspectives and why they make the choices that they do. To me that is an essential part of democracy, the representation of people's views.

Absolutely, but it's not helpful to shut them down with insults. For some reason they get called thick (amongst other insults). By insulting people and shutting them down, you are not understanding them.

XWKD · 11/06/2025 11:46

Trump has respectable approval ratings. Nothing surprises me anymore.

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 11:44

TheNoonBell · 11/06/2025 09:56

Do you mean former LABOUR MP Oswald Moseley?

Do I mean Oswald Moseley, former member of the Conservative Party and then the Labour Party who went on to found the British Union of Fascists? Yes, I do.

A similar trajectory to Reform MP Lee Anderson (although from very different social classes) who was a member of the Labour Party, a supporter of Arthur Scargill, who campaigned for Michael Foot and the Labour Party in the 1983 General Election but who was suspended from the Labour Party for bricking up the entrance to a legal Traveller community site. He then defected to the Conservatives and then to Reform.

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 11:38

@Fluffyholeysocks of course no one has to justify themselves, but it helps to understand what motivates people and what they think they are voting for. We do need to try and understand other people's perspectives and why they make the choices that they do. To me that is an essential part of democracy, the representation of people's views.

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 11:35

KoiTetra · 11/06/2025 11:05

But is it reform setting the agenda or is it that reform are tapping into the feeling of the country.

The last government did nothing about immigration despite the fact the general public feel that it is too high (69% according to IPSOS).

Reform as we all know is extremely anti-immigration, this has led to Labour becoming stronger on immigration.

Is this Reform setting the agenda or is this Labour acting on public feeling due to fear of Reform?

My view is that if you believe in democracy then Reform is actually a good thing because the major parties have ignored the views of the general public on certain things for years. With Reform they are now scared of losing power and so are looking at taking notice of those areas and considering watering down reform ideas and making them more reasonable .

I agree - if Labour were doing a good job, Reform would not be getting the attention it is getting. Put simply, the Tories and Labour haven't done a good job of listening to the people while in Government. People want change and Reform are offering that.
People do not need to understand all of Reform policies, it doesn't matter why, when challenged,what Reform voters are voting for. No one has to justify their vote, at the end of the day every vote counts equally whether it's an informed vote or a uninformed vote. No one has to study manifestos to vote. People want change - the present Labour Government and the previous Tory Government are not and were not popular. Instead of insulting Reform voters, try and understand why people are voting for them. There's much room for improvement in our elected representatives - the Labour Party and Conservative Party need to get better and get better quick. Focus on themselves and not Reform.

Lonelydave · 11/06/2025 11:06

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 10:13

@Lonelydave when you say government is broken, what do you mean by that?

How would you propose public sector chief execs performance is measured? Do you think that the bonus systems for the privatised water companies has been a success?

@MargoLivebetter if I knew I wouldn't be here! Seriously, the bonus system for anything public sector is just immoral, and you only need to look at Thames water and the trains to see what a mess all previous governments have made.
I know personally of a few cock ups, which whilst being swept under the carpet and fixed, (GWR new trains with the electrics on the outside, great for London to Bristol etc.., but past Exeter, and ooh, whats that big blue stuff to the left, ah, sea, hmm salt water and electrics - how on earth could that go wrong?).
The ombudsman for each sector actually needs to have power, the constant mess with the water companies has been lack of investment because they must create a dividend, as a homeowner/renter/business your water can only come from one place - therefore, results should be on how much leakage/sewage release etc.., get those to sensible levels, then start giving bonuses.
From my very simple point of view, we as a country seem to be lowering everything to the lowest common denominator, rather than striving for success we are choosing a 'lets not rock the boat' option. We see this everywhere, rather than address the problem (social housing/anti social behaviour/petty crime) a huge song and dance is made about the issue - everyone knows what the issue is, we have a breakdown in getting help to the people which need help!
It's not rocket science, but, and I think that this is the biggest issue, we need to encourage more society involvement, kind neighbours, active hospital helpers, community groups get the anonymous keyboard warriors out of their bedrooms and do things, rather than moan - more encouragement for cubs/scouts/guides etc.., police cadets all this is out there, instead of giving school children credit for turning up and behaving at school, give these credits for active involvement in the community, try and change the relationship at an earlier age.
Yes there will be people who need more help than others, and some will be extremely rich and others very poor, but, and here is an example, the labour party abolished the 'no one will leave school with out being able to read or write' policy, quite a few years ago, how in 2025 we can actually allow young adults to leave education without the basic building blocks for being an active citizen, words fail me.
Sorry getting a bit ranty! I'll take my tablets and go to a dark room.....

KoiTetra · 11/06/2025 11:05

TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:37

I agree with this. I think the main parties are complacent but the problem is they try and emulate rather than challenge Reform, allowing Reform to set the agenda which isn't good.

But is it reform setting the agenda or is it that reform are tapping into the feeling of the country.

The last government did nothing about immigration despite the fact the general public feel that it is too high (69% according to IPSOS).

Reform as we all know is extremely anti-immigration, this has led to Labour becoming stronger on immigration.

Is this Reform setting the agenda or is this Labour acting on public feeling due to fear of Reform?

My view is that if you believe in democracy then Reform is actually a good thing because the major parties have ignored the views of the general public on certain things for years. With Reform they are now scared of losing power and so are looking at taking notice of those areas and considering watering down reform ideas and making them more reasonable .

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 11:03

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/06/2025 10:40

Well people fell for the Nazis, people are falling for MAGA in the US.

People fall for the far right, it seems.

It’s a bit of a tired old trope to keep comparing Trump and/or Reform to Nazis. It’s another one that nobody is buying anymore

ClosetBasketCase · 11/06/2025 10:55

Because Labour f*cked up. Big time. And now people want out. People failed to read the labour manifesto - which is as empty as diane abbots head.
And now they've got stung by it, which anyone with half a brain could see was going to happen.

Unfortunatly, as is the way with these things, people have swung from one extream to the other

tobee · 11/06/2025 10:53

Do you mean former LABOUR MP Oswald Moseley?

And your point is @TheNoonBell? I mean is that all you've got? Do you know what the word former means?

Dotjones · 11/06/2025 10:46

People fall for Reform for the same reason others fall for Labour, the Greens or the SNP - they vote for what they want their chosen party to represent, rather than what they actually represent.

In the case of Reform gaining support, it's not despite of what happened with Brexit, it's because of what happened with Brexit. Many Brexit voters didn't get the kind of Brexit they thought they were voting for - in many cases, a version that was never on the table in the first place.

A substantial number of people voted Leave because they wanted to fully leave the EU and other European bodies that had control over legislation in this country. A lot wanted an end to immigration, and the removal of people who had entered the country over the last few decades (and their relatives born here). They wanted a version of Britain that was self-reliant and dominated foreigners rather than integrated them into our society.

This wasn't what was on offer with Brexit, it's not what Reform are offering either, but Reform represent the closest party to the mainstream who align with such views - even though they don't.

There's also the fact that in someone like Farage there is an alternative to the deceitful politician who pretends to be competent but isn't. Starmer, Johnson, Blair - all useless in their own way, all dishonest and self-serving. Farage is different because there is no pretence that he will be any good - everyone knows he won't be, even his supporters. Perhaps counter-intuitively, this is an attraction for many - they don't want a liar like Starmer, they want a liar like Farage. Trump has shown this tactic can be used very successfully.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 10:46

The main thing I disagree with Reform on is environmental policies (or lack thereof)

But I also recognise that if you want your population to care about climate change, you need to fix their other immediate issues first. Caring about the planet unfortunately is a privileged position to be in. So is caring about illegal immigrants. If the UK was the land of plenty, if people could afford to rent and/or buy their own homes, have decent childcare options, not worry about putting food on their own tables or heating their homes then they would have much more headspace to care about the planet and people potentially fleeing persecution.

Now I am not for one minute suggesting Reform is the party to fix all of this. But I also don’t really believe any party is coming to the table to try and make a meaningful change to people’s lives for the better. It’s a shit situation to be in right now for many.

People are struggling and unhappy and you can hardly blame them for not wanting to give a shit about D&I or climate change or illegal immigrants crossing on boats. They’re being shouted at by the left the whole time, being told they must #bekind and that they’re all privileged because they’re straight/white/british - whatever. I think this is why Trump got in to power.

AGAIN, I feel like I need to state this over and over. I’m not aligned to any party, nor do I support Trump. Just making an observation.

senua · 11/06/2025 10:46

Well people fell for the Nazis, people are falling for MAGA in the US.
And people fell for Starmer, even though he sits on the fence and then changes his mind ten times before breakfast.

KeineBedeutung · 11/06/2025 10:43

Similar reasons to why intelligent Europeans are falling for far right parties?

AmberFatball · 11/06/2025 10:43

I think it will be very interesting to see how Reform cope with their power in the local authorities where they now have control of or are the biggest party in the council. I was reading at the weekend of at least one place where no other party will go into coalition with them because they simply don't know what Reform policies are at a local level. They seem to campaign on National isdues, mostly linked to immigration but when it comes to bin collection or allocating budget to compulsory activities they have not got a clue. It will be very interesting to see if they hang on to council seats next year or whenever that council next votes.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/06/2025 10:41

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 10:25

Unfortunately he really is. He’s way better than any of the other party leaders.

He must be on some level to have got this far. It doesn’t work for me but it must tap into to something for many people.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/06/2025 10:40

Well people fell for the Nazis, people are falling for MAGA in the US.

People fall for the far right, it seems.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 10:35

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 11/06/2025 10:18

@TheCoralShaker Farage, a brilliant communicator?? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yes he actually is. I may not agree with what he is communicating, but he is good at communicating. I’ve seen him put on the spot with difficult questions and have only ever seen him answer them directly and straight off the cuff.

Doesn’t mean I agree with the content of his words, but he knows how to deliver. That’s why he is gaining popularity.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 10:25

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 11/06/2025 10:18

@TheCoralShaker Farage, a brilliant communicator?? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Unfortunately he really is. He’s way better than any of the other party leaders.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 11/06/2025 10:18

@TheCoralShaker Farage, a brilliant communicator?? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 10:13

@Lonelydave when you say government is broken, what do you mean by that?

How would you propose public sector chief execs performance is measured? Do you think that the bonus systems for the privatised water companies has been a success?

Lonelydave · 11/06/2025 10:07

Yes their are far too many people falling for reform and it's easy to see why, government across the board is completely broken. We cant build decent infrastructure, because of a random newt somewhere, developers state one thing then do the other and the cost taking everything to court is just coming out of the taxpayers money rather than a simple, you said the development would be this, it isn't therefore 50% fine.
Local councils go after someone who has put the wrong thing in the wrong bin, its just a merry go round.
Civil service and local government need major reforms and actually be accountable, as these are 'gateway services' into the political parties it should break up the complete nonsense which we have at the moment.
And we need to have a bit more of a responsible and open conversation about the two things which no-one is allowed to talk about immigration and the NHS, not like 7 year olds in the playground which is what we have at the moment.
Additionally we need to get a society back, far, far too many people just live in boxes, go to work/school/shops in box and travel back in the same box, we have created a vanilla society where people are afraid of change.
Finally, pay of local government top brass, NHS, Fire, Police, civil service all of these need to be tied in to performance, and not have a revolving door of 'I cocked up here, head down for 6 months, I'll move to another authority and get paid more'
Reform are only in it for themselves, as I believe most MP's and councillors are, we all see how much council tax has increased, yet MP's with their 2nd home can offset this - um, you taketh with one hand and taketh with the other.

TheNoonBell · 11/06/2025 09:56

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 08:44

Nigel Farage is the same sort of upper class, privately educated politician as Oswald Moseley in the 1930s. They exploit the politics of grievance and convince working class voters that their quality of life is poor because of foreigners, ethnic minorities (Jews for Oswald Moseley and 'boat people' for Farage) and socialists. People prefer to punch down and blame people that they view as inferior to them.

Of course Nigel Farage, a former public school boy, is going to have more polished oratory skills than Angela Rayner who left school when pregnant at 16 and came from an extremely deprived home with a mother who couldn't read or write. I know who has had the more difficult journey into politics and government.

Apart from Brexit (which I believe has been an unmitigated disaster although I assume that you would disagree), what has Nigel Farage done in office to improve people's lives apart from making it socially acceptable to hate the people that he blames for all the UK's ills?

Do you mean former LABOUR MP Oswald Moseley?

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 09:54

@foxinbluesox what jobs do you see the long-term unemployed doing? Where would the increased economic activity come from? How would it be generated. Again genuine questions, as whilst I see this as a really good thing to do, I'm just curious how Reform would succeed where others seem to struggle. I'm watching Trump's attempts in the US with interest (and some horror).

Katiesaidthat · 11/06/2025 09:47

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 09:13

Reform supporters never answer this question. Their main drivers are being anti-immigration and 'stopping the boats', but their detailed immigration policies haven't been revealed. I think a lot of Reform voters would like to be able to shoot the immigrants arriving by boat, as if we were at war and these people are enemy combatants.

Apparently, the people who are the most anti-immigration and most distrustful of immigrants live in places with the lowest numbers of immigrants in the UK.

This is very normal. Eastern Europe is very vocally much more anti immigration than Western Europe, which is kind of ironic when you think of it...