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AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

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TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

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BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 19:58

This is a kind of trial run for Reform. It’s the closest any of Farage’s various party incarnations have come to power and the first time they’ve been accountable for delivering results. We shall see what kind of state those councils are in when they’re next up for reelection in 2029 - bear in mind that’s likely to be the same year as the next GE so the scrutiny will be intense. There will be a lot of people who will think if they screw up running local government they can’t be trusted with national government.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 19:58

senua · 11/06/2025 19:56

I totally agree. They should do something like a rolling election (not a general one) and, say, have a vote in a third of seats every three years.

It might make putting together a cabinet tricky. But it would definitely keep things interesting.

senua · 11/06/2025 19:56

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 11/06/2025 19:06

The never thinking and planning for the long term, only for the election cycle, and thereby always kicking problems down the road, is a massive problem with democracy, and doesn't seem to be being addressed by anyone.

I totally agree. They should do something like a rolling election (not a general one) and, say, have a vote in a third of seats every three years.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 19:54

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 19:52

I think you have fundamentally misunderstood why many people vote Reform. The lefts biggest weakness is that they really do not understand the right (while the right really do understand the left).

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How can the left better understand the right?

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 19:52

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 19:49

I think the results in Durham at the local election could well be widely replicated in three years.

I think that depends on how successful Reform is at running the councils they won. It hasn’t got off to a promising start.

I'm not sure, do you think that Labour government are suffering because of the performance of local councils with bin disputes and bankruptcies? I don't know 🤷🏼‍♀️

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 19:52

I think you have fundamentally misunderstood why many people vote Reform. The lefts biggest weakness is that they really do not understand the right (while the right really do understand the left).

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 19:51

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/election/2025/england/councils/E06000047

Here's the change in the Durham local elections, that's a gain of 65 seats for Reform (from 0) and a loss of 38 seats for Labour, leaving them with just 4.

BBC News

Durham election result - Local Elections 2025

Get the latest news and election results for Durham council in the 2025 Local elections from BBC News

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/election/2025/england/councils/E06000047

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 19:49

I think the results in Durham at the local election could well be widely replicated in three years.

I think that depends on how successful Reform is at running the councils they won. It hasn’t got off to a promising start.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 19:45

Labour won the general election with 35% of the vote share and declared that the Tories, with 24%, were over. Now Labour polls at 24% while Reform, who got 15% at the general election, now polls at 30%.

The red wall shifted to the Tories because they sold change and and gave up on them when they achieved none, Labour found their way back with a manifesto for change and then clearly didn't provide the change that a third of them expected or wanted. You are dreaming if you don't think those constituencies don't keep spinning the wheel until something sticks. I think the results in Durham at the local election could well be widely replicated in three years.

Clearly Labour are spooked. They've stopped talking about the Conservatives completely and focus their attention on the small band of Reform MPs - is there six now?

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 19:38

Theresnothingnewunderthesun · 11/06/2025 19:12

Okay, but my point is, the wards that used to be labour are now reform. Now I haven't interviewed every person in this election, but I don't think its ridiculous to assume that those voters used to vote labour and chose to vote reform!

I’d want to see which wards were previously Labour and what the % turnover was before I was prepared to make any assumptions. The thing I find most surprising about those results is that the Tories gained/held any seats.

Theresnothingnewunderthesun · 11/06/2025 19:12

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 18:54

That’s not quite true. Reform took two out of eleven wards and two were won by the Tories. Independents and the LibDems performed well.

Okay, but my point is, the wards that used to be labour are now reform. Now I haven't interviewed every person in this election, but I don't think its ridiculous to assume that those voters used to vote labour and chose to vote reform!

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 19:09

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 11/06/2025 19:06

The never thinking and planning for the long term, only for the election cycle, and thereby always kicking problems down the road, is a massive problem with democracy, and doesn't seem to be being addressed by anyone.

It's a big problem. I remember a few years ago reading an investigation into prisons in the UK and how rehabilitation and repeat offending could be greatly improved. However it would take time and money so none of it was implemented. We now have a prison crisis.

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 11/06/2025 19:06

The never thinking and planning for the long term, only for the election cycle, and thereby always kicking problems down the road, is a massive problem with democracy, and doesn't seem to be being addressed by anyone.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 18:54

Theresnothingnewunderthesun · 11/06/2025 18:27

Im not sure that is true, Preston has been a labour stronghold as long as I have lived here ( more than decade) at our last local election, they lost to reform.

I don't think that's a move of Tory voters. It's a change of Labour voters.

I have no real opinion on labour I've voted independent for a long time

That’s not quite true. Reform took two out of eleven wards and two were won by the Tories. Independents and the LibDems performed well.

TooBigForMyBoots · 11/06/2025 18:54

OonaStubbs · 11/06/2025 17:47

Most MPs come across as deeply weird. Farage comes across as a relatively normal bloke. I'm sure it's an act but at least he's capable of putting on a normal facade.

🤣🤣🤣

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 18:46

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 18:43

Yes and Wales shows a similar increase in Reform.

That has typically been a strong Labour electorate.

Wales doesn’t vote until next May. We have no idea what the Senedd will look like at this point.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 18:43

Theresnothingnewunderthesun · 11/06/2025 18:27

Im not sure that is true, Preston has been a labour stronghold as long as I have lived here ( more than decade) at our last local election, they lost to reform.

I don't think that's a move of Tory voters. It's a change of Labour voters.

I have no real opinion on labour I've voted independent for a long time

Yes and Wales shows a similar increase in Reform.

That has typically been a strong Labour electorate.

Theresnothingnewunderthesun · 11/06/2025 18:27

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:39

They’re people like you who are pissed off we have a Labour government at all. They were pissed off on 5 July. Once again, because you seem to really be having trouble understanding this, people moving to Reform aren’t those who would ever vote Labour, disillusioned Labour voters are looking to alternatives like the Greens or Libdems.

Im not sure that is true, Preston has been a labour stronghold as long as I have lived here ( more than decade) at our last local election, they lost to reform.

I don't think that's a move of Tory voters. It's a change of Labour voters.

I have no real opinion on labour I've voted independent for a long time

ZoggyStirdust · 11/06/2025 18:18

OonaStubbs · 11/06/2025 17:47

Most MPs come across as deeply weird. Farage comes across as a relatively normal bloke. I'm sure it's an act but at least he's capable of putting on a normal facade.

He’s a great politician to be fair. A really good speaker who knows what the people want to hear. I’m not sure any other politician in history has impacted so much whilst having so little actual power.

hes got the skills for sure, it’s just a shame he’s not using them for good

Menopausalsourpuss · 11/06/2025 18:17

Labour is neither the party of the people or the working classes. It used to be but was hijacked by a load of arrogant human rights lawyers who don't know how to run anything. Reform has positioned itself as the new working class party. I am not convinced that they are anymore competent than labour/tories but their advantage is that they don't have a record of failure in government and have convinced people they have Britain's interests at heart unlike Labour who come across as gullible incompetents.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 11/06/2025 18:11

@ScrubbedCauliflower then Labour need to behave much more the party of the people, and get properly in touch with us. It’s a poor thing when Farage pretending to be “the man in the pub” (he is absolutely not, any more than Boris Johnson couldn’t handle his hairstyle) sounds more in touch than Labour with ordinary people. Meanwhile, once the cameras go, he trots back off to his champagne breakfasts, or jets off to New York to his buddies.

ZoggyStirdust · 11/06/2025 18:09

AaaahBlandsHatch · 10/06/2025 23:04

I've heard this point hundreds of times since 2016, and honestly, fuck that. I'm not a politician, I couldn't give two shits about trying to persuade people. If someone said the earth was flat I'd call them stupid and sneer at them, not listen respectfully and say both sides have got good points.

And in any case, even if you do carefully lay out the points, not a single one of these idiots ever say "you know what, some of that makes sense!" They just call you a traitor or a snowflake and launch into the remainers' tears memes.

They decided what to do and how to vote (because they're morons) without any reference to others' views - the idea that sneering elitists drove them to it by saying mean things on the internet is just a way to give themselves cover and avoid responsibility. I've never fallen for it and I'm not gonna start now.

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There’s a phrase

you can’t use logic to argue someone out of a position they didn’t use logic to get into

Middleagedstriker · 11/06/2025 18:08

OonaStubbs · 11/06/2025 17:47

Most MPs come across as deeply weird. Farage comes across as a relatively normal bloke. I'm sure it's an act but at least he's capable of putting on a normal facade.

In RL he is like a snake oil seller. Slippery and twitchy. Very unpleasant. Sadly I've been in a room with him a few times. 🤢

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 17:59

Treacletoots · 11/06/2025 17:49

To simple people, everything is simple. I think this sums up the average Reform voter

I don't believe that's true. I think people are sick to death of not being listened to and their vote doing nothing to improve their lives. Quality of life in general is far worse for many, deprivation is rife, millions are using food banks, the NHS is not fit for purpose, utilities cost a fortune, food prices are ever increasing, we have a housing crisis and life feels like a grind.

Farage points to asylum seekers and blames them and we have a perfect vote winner because it's a complex problem. He can keep pointing at them because Labour are not going to easily solve it. Meanwhile radical solutions to the status quo are not being tabled and quality of life continues to fall.

Menopausalsourpuss · 11/06/2025 17:59

Alot of aggression on this thread and people who think insulting their opponent is the same as intelligent debate. I blame sm and the media - I remember the 80s when you used to get intelligent discussion on the TV-not anymore!