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AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

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TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

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beguilingeyes · 13/06/2025 05:47

It's the X Factor version of politics. Plausible conmen promising simple solutions to complex problems. See also Trump and Johnson. And Brexit. Remember when Johnson was predicted to be in power forever if he hadn't shot himself in the foot so spectacularly?
Stop The Boats! Get Brexit Done! Oven Ready Deal! It's nauseating.

The sound bite, clickbait media is ushering the Reform party into power because the likes of Farage are more entertaining than boring old policy.

OrdinaryMagicOfAcorns · 12/06/2025 21:16

The main parties are working against the interests of working people and in favour of the international wealth, that’s why. They are all in it together and they all lie. We are desperate. These show up Labours latest lies.

https://fullfact.org/politics/2025-spending-review/

https://equalitytrust.org.uk/news/in-the-news/reaction-to-the-2025-spending-review/

LetIt · 12/06/2025 19:25

I despair OP. Politics has just become populist nonsense, the world and the country are falling apart and we have zero choice of anyone that isn’t self-serving, who actually believes in something and can actually do anything to lead us out of this mess. It’s depressing and I can’t see a way out of it. So I just stop thinking about it tbh. Everytime I turn on the news it just leaves me angry or depressed.

MonTuesWeds · 12/06/2025 18:30

ColaPineapple · 12/06/2025 11:59

I’m not surprised at all, they can get away with weak policy because the voter bloc they are targeting aren’t the most politically or economically literate. They have identified a gap (socially right economically left) and are fully exploiting it for their own egos - but it will work. This voter bloc are otherwise politically homeless and so sceptical of the political norm they won’t listen to anyone who challenges the only party even trying to represent them.
Surprised - no?
Its a result of years of political mess and poor political and economic literacy in the working class.

Instead of blaming the voters - can you explain why this socially slightly more conservative/economically more socialist bloc have no other political channels through which to express themselves - and why it is you believe this position is a result of political illiteracy? What is wrong with this position

ColaPineapple · 12/06/2025 11:59

I’m not surprised at all, they can get away with weak policy because the voter bloc they are targeting aren’t the most politically or economically literate. They have identified a gap (socially right economically left) and are fully exploiting it for their own egos - but it will work. This voter bloc are otherwise politically homeless and so sceptical of the political norm they won’t listen to anyone who challenges the only party even trying to represent them.
Surprised - no?
Its a result of years of political mess and poor political and economic literacy in the working class.

Fastertimer · 12/06/2025 11:46

I totally agree with! A few social media influencers are ‘influencing’ people too, mind you, go on comment section on social media and you can tell there is hardly a brain cell between the lot of them. They’ll get what they deserve and soon see that they are all lying scheming shits.

BIossomtoes · 12/06/2025 11:35

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:31

One Word - Rishi!

National politics usually trumps local politics!

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Not in local elections a year after Rishi was history. You said yourself that reopening libraries was popular.

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:31

BIossomtoes · 12/06/2025 11:31

Why did Reform win then? You can’t have it both ways.

One Word - Rishi!

National politics usually trumps local politics!

BIossomtoes · 12/06/2025 11:31

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:27

County council actually wasn't that bad during the Tory reign. They re-opened several libraries shut by their Labour predecessors for a start which was very popular.

Why did Reform win then? You can’t have it both ways.

User32459 · 12/06/2025 11:28

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 11/06/2025 19:06

The never thinking and planning for the long term, only for the election cycle, and thereby always kicking problems down the road, is a massive problem with democracy, and doesn't seem to be being addressed by anyone.

it's also the economic system we have. Everything is measured in the next quarter's GDP figures. So something that will pay off in the long run doesn't get done if there's no immediate benefit.

It's like austerity. The things they cut weren't valued because they don't see the economic benefits, but you take them away and you lose more in the long run. Community centres, cutting the police and mental health support etc etc.

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:27

BIossomtoes · 12/06/2025 11:13

How is a former Tory going to be any different because they’ve rebranded themselves? A rose by any other name and all that.

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County council actually wasn't that bad during the Tory reign. They re-opened several libraries shut by their Labour predecessors for a start which was very popular.

randomusername03 · 12/06/2025 11:26

yabu in that you admit that current parties are a shower of lying grifters, but equally expect people to vote for them again as if by magic they are going to change. I dont think people voting reform are expecting magical change, just a two finger salute to the current parties. if reform are shite, they may not get voted in again, or they might as clearly being shite hasn't hindered any of the current parties.

BIossomtoes · 12/06/2025 11:13

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:11

Indeed, the Tory and Labour parties have really screwed things up by not listening to the electorate for the past 2/3 decades.

How is a former Tory going to be any different because they’ve rebranded themselves? A rose by any other name and all that.

Badbadbunny · 12/06/2025 11:11

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 15:10

So people were apparently turning away from the parties that had previously run the councils (often Tory) by voting for Tory councilors who re-stood as Reform candidates! What a mess.

Indeed, the Tory and Labour parties have really screwed things up by not listening to the electorate for the past 2/3 decades.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 22:22

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 22:10

Sure, Starmer talking about the Island of Strangers - he looked really powerful as the tail being wagged by the Farage dog. Just like Cameron was and that gave us Brexit...

You're coming across as benighted which is a shame as I was hoping to get some insight into current right wing thinking. The right is scattered at the moment and being pulled to the hard right, which must be difficult for moderates. The government are also emulating some very divisive rhetoric in order to pander to people who aren't even following what they're doing.

It's a shame people can't seem to have a straightforward discussion.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 22:14

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 22:10

Sure, Starmer talking about the Island of Strangers - he looked really powerful as the tail being wagged by the Farage dog. Just like Cameron was and that gave us Brexit...

The ERG gave us Brexit. It doesn’t matter whether you think Starmer looks powerful or not. He’s the PM and he’s got an unassailable majority and another four years in power.

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 22:10

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:53

The last time I looked the left were in power and the Tories were decimated.

Sure, Starmer talking about the Island of Strangers - he looked really powerful as the tail being wagged by the Farage dog. Just like Cameron was and that gave us Brexit...

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:53

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:50

This is why you're losing.

The last time I looked the left were in power and the Tories were decimated.

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:50

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:47

What are you gibbering on about now? Don't worry, I know you can't answer simple questions.

This is why you're losing.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:47

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:38

You have no idea how you come across

What are you gibbering on about now? Don't worry, I know you can't answer simple questions.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 21:39

Oh the irony! I admire your patience @MiloMinderbinder925.

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:38

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:30

I have no idea what you're talking about. Perhaps that's why the right are so unfathomable, it's like a secret language.

You have no idea how you come across

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 21:30

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:23

Proves the point. Suit yourself. It's not my disadvantage.

I have no idea what you're talking about. Perhaps that's why the right are so unfathomable, it's like a secret language.

MonTuesWeds · 11/06/2025 21:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/06/2025 20:49

It's not a genuine request or a sincere desire to understand (even for its strategic benefits) - it's just a performance for the benefit of your political friends.

On what evidence did you base this?

Proves the point. Suit yourself. It's not my disadvantage.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 21:18

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 19:45

Labour won the general election with 35% of the vote share and declared that the Tories, with 24%, were over. Now Labour polls at 24% while Reform, who got 15% at the general election, now polls at 30%.

The red wall shifted to the Tories because they sold change and and gave up on them when they achieved none, Labour found their way back with a manifesto for change and then clearly didn't provide the change that a third of them expected or wanted. You are dreaming if you don't think those constituencies don't keep spinning the wheel until something sticks. I think the results in Durham at the local election could well be widely replicated in three years.

Clearly Labour are spooked. They've stopped talking about the Conservatives completely and focus their attention on the small band of Reform MPs - is there six now?

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Yes I agree with your posts. This and the island of strangers one.