Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

362 replies

TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:33

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:27

That’s absolute rubbish. What do you think caused the worst Tory defeat in the party’s history? The Tories are done so their supporters are looking elsewhere. The total right wing vote isn’t increasing, it’s just moved to a different place. It’s not left wing voters who are joining Reform’s ranks.

That’s not true in my area. It’s the Labour voters that are switching to Reform, Labour has never lost its seat here and always win by a landslide but in the last election Reform came second and Labour had lost a huge amount of votes. I don’t think it’s as simple as the voters that previously voted Conservative switching to Reform because Conservatives have always come either last or last but one to the Green Party here.

TigerIamNot · 11/06/2025 08:31

I would never vote Reform but I fell for a Labour!

baggybags · 11/06/2025 08:28

How can people gloss over the mess Tories made?! it's mind blowing

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:27

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:23

Labour’s policies cause that shift. It was inevitable after the GE.

Labour leading to Reform isn’t a surprising trajectory. Not definite but on track.

That’s absolute rubbish. What do you think caused the worst Tory defeat in the party’s history? The Tories are done so their supporters are looking elsewhere. The total right wing vote isn’t increasing, it’s just moved to a different place. It’s not left wing voters who are joining Reform’s ranks.

Kendodd · 11/06/2025 08:26

Isn't there a thing in phycology that if you fall for a con, you are more likely, not less likely, to fall for another con? I think online scammers have 'suckers' lists of people they've conned money out of before as people to target again. Maybe it's something like that?

SarfLondonLad · 11/06/2025 08:26

It is a sign of how pissed off people are with the 2 so-called "major" parties.

For years it was the anti-Tory vote that was fragmented. Now it seems the Tories are getting the same treatment.

Perhaps Tory and/or Labour will now come to the conclusion that PR in place of FPTP actually IS in their best interests.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 11/06/2025 08:23

It's the appeal of the simple solutions to complex problems.

Vote for Brexit and we'll all be living in the sunny uplands.
Reduce immigration and all of your problems will melt away.

Of course, none of these "solutions" will actually make people's lives any better, but they want to believe it so they do.

They will, of course, be bitterly disappointed when they realise that the "solutions" have failed to deliver. The danger, at that point, is that they will increasingly turn further and further towards extreme options.

Worrying times.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:23

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:18

Yes because the Tory party has imploded and Reform is the only right wing alternative.

Labour’s policies cause that shift. It was inevitable after the GE.

Labour leading to Reform isn’t a surprising trajectory. Not definite but on track.

xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:21

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:17

Moving to Reform is much higher now Labour are in power. Plus we’ll see what Wales does.

Labour are done in Wales but I think the vote will be split between Plaid and Reform. I honestly don’t see Labour or Conservatives doing well when we vote next and the First Minister knows it. They’ve had a good run of over 25 years so a change is well overdue.

SunnieShine · 11/06/2025 08:20

senua · 10/06/2025 22:52

There's no reasoning with stupid
You won't persuade people to vote for you by sneering at them.

True, but somehow the penny never drops.

SummerEve · 11/06/2025 08:18

sparrowflewdown · 11/06/2025 07:46

We do have a problem. We have a lot of illegal/legal migrants setting up shops rapidly in our town they are multiplying by the day. I am very worried they are selling vapes(a lot illegal) and Monster etc to 12 year olds - I know because my DS has told me and I am reporting it to the police. The police take ages to sort it out if at all. Maybe they want to lure them in to sell drugs? As fast as the shops are closed another opens.

I am very worried so I will vote reform. We will have more riots if the Government don't step in now.

TBH if I feel like going into these shops and shouting at them it won't be long before a bunch of angry dads go in and start getting physical.

😂😂😂 oh where to start with this?

xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:18

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 08:12

It’s ironic that Reform and Farage can “promise” anything they want, often things which are in reality undeliverable - and their fans take it as face value that it will be done. Brexit was also like that.

Labour “promised” things too, some of which they delivered, some which haven’t happened yet, and some which had to be put on ice or reversed due to reality. And get treated like the devil’s dogshit. In reality they’re delivering more manifesto promises than the Tories ever did and more promises are being achieved than literally every single upside which was promised about Brexit.

Labour manifesto progress is attached.

Labour chop and change their policies by the day depending on who they are trying to please. Obviously this week it’s the pensioners although I suppose that wouldn’t be in your chart anyway because they never mentioned scrapping the WFP in their manifesto or targeting the disabled.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:18

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:17

Moving to Reform is much higher now Labour are in power. Plus we’ll see what Wales does.

Yes because the Tory party has imploded and Reform is the only right wing alternative.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:17

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:15

I think you’ll find most new Reform coverts are erstwhile Tory voters.

Moving to Reform is much higher now Labour are in power. Plus we’ll see what Wales does.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:15

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:11

Of course the current gov is a factor 🤷‍♀️

People are moving to Reform based on them and also how they perceive Labour.

I think you’ll find most new Reform coverts are erstwhile Tory voters.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 08:12

It’s ironic that Reform and Farage can “promise” anything they want, often things which are in reality undeliverable - and their fans take it as face value that it will be done. Brexit was also like that.

Labour “promised” things too, some of which they delivered, some which haven’t happened yet, and some which had to be put on ice or reversed due to reality. And get treated like the devil’s dogshit. In reality they’re delivering more manifesto promises than the Tories ever did and more promises are being achieved than literally every single upside which was promised about Brexit.

Labour manifesto progress is attached.

AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?
Fearfulsaints · 11/06/2025 08:11

I suppose under any system there are winners and losers, and maybe they feel under reform they will move to winner. Maybe they don't care others will be worse off.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:11

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:07

This isn’t about the current government. It’s about Reform.

Of course the current gov is a factor 🤷‍♀️

People are moving to Reform based on them and also how they perceive Labour.

xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:11

sparrowflewdown · 11/06/2025 07:46

We do have a problem. We have a lot of illegal/legal migrants setting up shops rapidly in our town they are multiplying by the day. I am very worried they are selling vapes(a lot illegal) and Monster etc to 12 year olds - I know because my DS has told me and I am reporting it to the police. The police take ages to sort it out if at all. Maybe they want to lure them in to sell drugs? As fast as the shops are closed another opens.

I am very worried so I will vote reform. We will have more riots if the Government don't step in now.

TBH if I feel like going into these shops and shouting at them it won't be long before a bunch of angry dads go in and start getting physical.

Same here. We have just learned that we are to have our 15th barber shop in our small town that has less than 6000 people. It’s blatant money laundering and the majority are run by Albanian men but if you question it then you get called racist. It’s worrying when you go through our town in the evening and see all the teenagers hanging around these establishments and I agree it’s only a matter of time before the public will take it into their own hands due to authorities turning a blind eye to the going’s on. As someone else mentioned on this thread unfortunately Reform are the only ones addressing these issues so it’s no surprise that people are swaying towards them.

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 08:11

The Labour Party and Conservative Party both became too inward looking and too London centric. Neither party was appealing to the electorate and when you take voters for granted, it's obvious the environment was right for Reform to come along and take votes. For all his faults, Farage is a good speaker, he is streets ahead of the likes of Rayner and other front benchers.
I agree with others that he is a 'disruptor'. If it pushes the Labour Party and Conservative Party into actually listening to the electorate and getting better quality MPs into Parliament, it can only be a good thing. It's not that Reform are good - it's that the established parties are so poor atm.

Biskieboo · 11/06/2025 08:10

AaaahBlandsHatch · 10/06/2025 23:04

I've heard this point hundreds of times since 2016, and honestly, fuck that. I'm not a politician, I couldn't give two shits about trying to persuade people. If someone said the earth was flat I'd call them stupid and sneer at them, not listen respectfully and say both sides have got good points.

And in any case, even if you do carefully lay out the points, not a single one of these idiots ever say "you know what, some of that makes sense!" They just call you a traitor or a snowflake and launch into the remainers' tears memes.

They decided what to do and how to vote (because they're morons) without any reference to others' views - the idea that sneering elitists drove them to it by saying mean things on the internet is just a way to give themselves cover and avoid responsibility. I've never fallen for it and I'm not gonna start now.

Edited

Very well said - the idea that you can't call somebody that's done/is proposing to do something stupid stupid, but must instead pander to their views because then they'll somehow do something unstupid, always seemed mad to me. There was plenty of reasoned analysis prior to the Brexit referendum as to why it wouldn't be a good idea, and there's quite a bit of reasoned analysis now as to why what Reform are proposing would be a bad idea (think Liz Truss +). But stupid people don't want to get into all that boring real world consequence and practicalities stuff, they like a nice simple 'common sense' solution being peddled by somebody who'd be 'a good laugh down the pub'. Muppets.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:07

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:03

Labour are reacting this way I agree.

This isn’t about the current government. It’s about Reform.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 08:03

TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:37

I agree with this. I think the main parties are complacent but the problem is they try and emulate rather than challenge Reform, allowing Reform to set the agenda which isn't good.

Labour are reacting this way I agree.

FlightCommanderPRJohnson · 11/06/2025 07:58

They thought Brexit would make everything all right. It didn't, it made things worse, so now they are latching onto Reform as the new magic solution.