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AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

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TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

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foxinbluesox · 11/06/2025 09:40

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 08:59

If you think that Brexit has been a complete shit show and that most of Farage's policies are half-baked at best, but you would still vote Reform in the next General Election, what would be the benefits for you of a Farage government?

I see him as an accomplished campaigning politician with no track record of successful delivery of his policies and I think that the policies he has spoken about would be a disaster, e.g. getting rid of the NHS. He spends a lot of time on self-promotion and very little time as a constituency MP.

I would be totally fascinated to see what happens if we get a Reform government if I didn't think that it would have a devastating impact on vulnerable people.

For me personally the benefit would be lower taxes. More generally, cutting the benefits bill, encouraging/forcing more people back into the workforce leading to increased economic productivity which like it or not is the best way of increasing wealth for the majority of the population (acknowledging yes some people would be worse off at least in the short term). The NHS is a joke and needs serious reform and I would not be against abolishing it in its current state. I’ve lived and worked in 7 different countries so I have quite a lot to compare to in terms of healthcare systems and in my opinion the NHS is right at the bottom of the barrel. I’m pro immigration but getting illegal immigration under control is absolutely necessary. I’m under no illusion that Reform could easily achieve any of that but at least the dial will start moving back in the right direction.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:35

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 09:31

On reform I think people just feel very lied to by the established parties and have developed a “fuck it, burn it all down” mindset. I’m not sure if they believe them or not but I think theres an air of “fuck it” about this whole thing

Yes, I agree with this but also, the electorate has had some control over Labour policy by supporting Reform. Without it's increasing popularity then we definitely wouldn't have seen a reversal of the wfa. Sometimes I wonder if people are just far more savvy than we give them credit for.

The WFA reversal was due to local elections so yeh it does impact policy. More than much else so far.

ScrubbedCauliflower · 11/06/2025 09:33

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 10/06/2025 22:29

YANBU OP. You’d need to be a conspiracy theorist to believe a word they say. Do people actually want an English Trump?

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Trouble is it could happen in the UK, just like Trump was elected in the US. (and let’s not forget it was twice). Part of the issue in the U.K. is that a lot of people just don’t vote at all. Reform voters are rallied and motivated to make sure they put their Xs on ballot papers. In the recent local elections Reform won in one constituency close to us with a grand total of 17 people overall voting there.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 09:31

On reform I think people just feel very lied to by the established parties and have developed a “fuck it, burn it all down” mindset. I’m not sure if they believe them or not but I think theres an air of “fuck it” about this whole thing

Yes, I agree with this but also, the electorate has had some control over Labour policy by supporting Reform. Without it's increasing popularity then we definitely wouldn't have seen a reversal of the wfa. Sometimes I wonder if people are just far more savvy than we give them credit for.

User37482 · 11/06/2025 09:25

TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:34

Yes I'm not mad on Labour but Kier is at least highly qualified and competent. The way he's handled Trump so far seems OK and the deal with th EU is progess. People will complain about the deal but that's the problem with Brexit - no one can agree on anything.

Nigel Farage is just a charlatan in the pockets of corporate American who'll sell us out to the highest bidder if he gets power. Why can't people see him for what he is? Do they honestly think a millionaire right winger represents the working man??

They are adding to the deficit at an alarming rate and unemployment has moved up after the NI tax rises. The UK is going to pay Mauritius to take the Chagos Islands (which they never owned) whilst chagosians have no right to return there.

I’m sorry but this is not competent at all, it’s a fucking mess.

On reform I think people just feel very lied to by the established parties and have developed a “fuck it, burn it all down” mindset. I’m not sure if they believe them or not but I think theres an air of “fuck it” about this whole thing.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 09:24

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:22

Try again 69% agree with her.

Do you find comprehension or numbers tricky?

Yes, the YABU percentage is 31% which is just about around the general voting intention for Reform in most polls from the council elections onwards.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:22

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 09:17

It's interesting that the YABU percentage is almost identical to the current voting intention for Reform. If the party is able to reflect this outcome among a cohort of predominantly woman, who so far have been less convinced about Farage, then they'll be flying at the Senedd l

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Try again 69% agree with her.

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 09:20

@thepariscrimefiles interestingly the intel I saw is that Reform have surged in areas with high child poverty (Financial Times, 9th June). To me that fits with the fact that they appeal to people who feel unrepresented and poor. Given that child poverty is expected to rise in the next 5 years, I can only think that this will increase Reform's appeal.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/06/2025 09:17

It's interesting that the YABU percentage is almost identical to the current voting intention for Reform. If the party is able to reflect this outcome among a cohort of predominantly woman, who so far have been less convinced about Farage, then they'll be flying at the Senedd l

frenchnoodle · 11/06/2025 09:13

I don't think people are "falling for" anything. This is the result you get when the public has such disillusion at the main parties they are desperate for anything else.

Traditional pathways haven't worked, it forces people to go to extremes.

It's a reflection of how so many are struggling with life. And it's not going to get better.

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 09:13

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 09:04

@askmenow can you tell me more about how you think Reform will do better? I'm genuinely interested and not being snarky. I want to understand what you think they bring to the table.

Reform supporters never answer this question. Their main drivers are being anti-immigration and 'stopping the boats', but their detailed immigration policies haven't been revealed. I think a lot of Reform voters would like to be able to shoot the immigrants arriving by boat, as if we were at war and these people are enemy combatants.

Apparently, the people who are the most anti-immigration and most distrustful of immigrants live in places with the lowest numbers of immigrants in the UK.

Brownthosebrownonionsbrown · 11/06/2025 09:12

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 08:59

If you think that Brexit has been a complete shit show and that most of Farage's policies are half-baked at best, but you would still vote Reform in the next General Election, what would be the benefits for you of a Farage government?

I see him as an accomplished campaigning politician with no track record of successful delivery of his policies and I think that the policies he has spoken about would be a disaster, e.g. getting rid of the NHS. He spends a lot of time on self-promotion and very little time as a constituency MP.

I would be totally fascinated to see what happens if we get a Reform government if I didn't think that it would have a devastating impact on vulnerable people.

If we got a reform government they would get nothing done. I am pretty sure that the establishment (civil service, BoE, HoL) would run rings around them and it would be like watching them walking through treacle for 5 years.

I think that, in part is why Brexit has been crapper than it needed to be - those negotiating it didn't really believe in it. And of course it was the BoE which brought down Truss. There is a lot of power outside of the house of commons which probably isn't a bad thing on balance

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:10

This is an example of a conversation j had the other week. Again, full disclosure, I am not aligned to ANY party

“I’m terrified Reform will get in!”
”why?”
”well it just feels wrong?”
”what feels wrong about it?”
”just like we are going backwards”
”in what way? What are you terrified is going to happen?”
”mumble mumble, Farage, mumble mumble”
”which of Reform’s policies are you worried about in particular?”
them - blank face

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:10

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:07

When I said pissed off earlier I meant this. Of course it’s linked to Labour and how they are perceived,

Do you think that poster was ever a Labour voter? Seriously? She was always as likely to vote Labour as you are, you’re both cut from the same cloth.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:10

xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:21

Labour are done in Wales but I think the vote will be split between Plaid and Reform. I honestly don’t see Labour or Conservatives doing well when we vote next and the First Minister knows it. They’ve had a good run of over 25 years so a change is well overdue.

It’ll be hard to say it’s only conservatives switching if Reform do well in Wales.

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:08

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:07

I think you’ll find a lot of people disagree with you. It’s fashionable, particularly among women ironically, to dismiss her as thick and gobby but anyone who’s seen her interviewed can see she’s a highly intelligent, straight talking, well informed politician.

Maybe - but once again, she is no leader or statesman.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:07

askmenow · 11/06/2025 09:02

Our Government are arseholes…. Mad Ed Silliband…mandates putting solar panels onto all hospitals n schools and conversely gives
£57 million to research into dimming the f…king sun!
Read the Kathryn Porter report on Net Zero. Unachievable in the timescale, extortionate costs heaped on bills,
The shower of shite we have atm are complete liars and corrupt charlatans.

And dont even start me on the fishermen debacle. Completely inept negotiators.
Go Reform!

When I said pissed off earlier I meant this. Of course it’s linked to Labour and how they are perceived,

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:07

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:03

I think we are going to have to disagree Rayner (thanks for pointing out my typo!) is never going to be admired as a leader or statesman. Yes, she has life experience but she is no deputy prime minister.

I think you’ll find a lot of people disagree with you. It’s fashionable, particularly among women ironically, to dismiss her as thick and gobby but anyone who’s seen her interviewed can see she’s a highly intelligent, straight talking, well informed politician.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:06

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:03

Would be interesting to see a list of their policies and your take on each of them - or anyone who’s a fan of Reform explaining them and why they’re good…

You can go and look at them yourself. It’s not difficult. I’m not listing them out here and my take on them. I was making a point that people don’t even bother to read them before tearing a party down.
You’ve also made the mistake of assuming I am a reform voter. I’m not. I even said so in my post.

What I am saying is READ each parties key policies and decide who to vote for that way. If Reform policies aren’t for you, don’t vote for them. It really is that simple.

sparrowflewdown · 11/06/2025 09:06

SummerEve · 11/06/2025 08:18

😂😂😂 oh where to start with this?

Why not have a try? Because we've already seen what happens when communities ignore red flags.
Laughing at people’s genuine concerns is exactly how past scandals — like the grooming cases — were allowed to fester. People raised the alarm, and they were mocked, dismissed, or accused of scaremongering.
I refuse to sit back and stay silent while young children in our town are being lured into certain shops or environments that don’t seem right. If something feels off, we should be able to speak up without being shut down.
If it turns out to be nothing — great. But if it's something more serious, and we ignored it? Then we’ll have another tragedy on our hands in a few years, asking how we let it happen again.
It’s about safeguarding, not judging. And it starts with taking local concerns seriously.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:05

askmenow · 11/06/2025 09:02

Our Government are arseholes…. Mad Ed Silliband…mandates putting solar panels onto all hospitals n schools and conversely gives
£57 million to research into dimming the f…king sun!
Read the Kathryn Porter report on Net Zero. Unachievable in the timescale, extortionate costs heaped on bills,
The shower of shite we have atm are complete liars and corrupt charlatans.

And dont even start me on the fishermen debacle. Completely inept negotiators.
Go Reform!

Laughable really. Talk about fishing and remember how Farage attended exactly 1 of the 42 fisheries committee meetings in the EU he was supposed to attend. He doesn’t care.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:04

Oh and don’t think for one minute that calling Reform voters stupid and racist will make any difference. If anything, you’re just going to end up encouraging people to vote reform by doing that

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 09:04

@askmenow can you tell me more about how you think Reform will do better? I'm genuinely interested and not being snarky. I want to understand what you think they bring to the table.

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:03

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:56

Rose tinted spectacles there I think. Those Labour politicians you revere were reviled in their time. Rayner could hold her own with any of them. In fact I imagine Mowlem would have been her greatest cheerleader.

I think we are going to have to disagree Rayner (thanks for pointing out my typo!) is never going to be admired as a leader or statesman. Yes, she has life experience but she is no deputy prime minister.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:03

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:01

This is a very good point. Hopefully they will give the other main parties a kick up the arse.

Most people I know who are vehemently against Reform haven’t even looked at any of their policies.
What else do we have to go on? All parties have a manifesto and they nearly all back track once they get in to power. So we either don’t vote, or vote for the policies we most align with.

I wish it wasn’t a popularity contest. I wish that, come election time, we were just given key policies and told “this is party A, this is party B” etc so we don’t actually know who we are voting for. Very few people put much thought in to it. You have so many voting Labour, for example, because “my family have always voted labour” almost like they’re supporting a football team.

Im a swing voter. When the next election comes round, I will vote for whichever party most aligns with my views on certain topics.

Would be interesting to see a list of their policies and your take on each of them - or anyone who’s a fan of Reform explaining them and why they’re good…