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To think a dishwasher will change our lives?

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Question285 · 10/06/2025 09:25

Never had a dishwasher before and never thought I needed one. But now, with two small DC, I think it would make a world of difference. DH, who does most of the washing up, disagrees.

So, does anyone have any input? Does having a dishwasher make life better? Is it worth the investment? Will it be so life changing that even my reluctant DH will be persuaded? 😄

Also, any brand suggestions? Is it better to spend more for a top brand? I’ve narrowed it down to two models, a Hisense and an AEG. It’s about £250 difference between them.

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Question285 · 10/06/2025 10:15

Any thoughts on Hisense? With DH not fully on board I’d rather not spend extra, but also want a decent dishwasher that won’t break after a year and hear ‘I told you so’

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Swiftie1878 · 10/06/2025 10:13

It’s THE most life changing thing I’ve ever invested in!
Go for it.
If you can afford a Bosch, they are the best make we’ve had.

Question285 · 10/06/2025 10:11

Thanks everyone, I wasn’t expecting so many replies. It seems the consensus is to get one asap 😄

I think we would have to get more bowls and cutlery (my DH’s main argument is that we don’t have enough stuff to fill a dishwasher).

But I absolutely want it because of time saving (there’s always something else that needs to be done instead of spending 20-30 minutes washing up). But more importantly, I hate the drying rack next to the sink with a passion. It’s always full of dishes, gets grimy (and I’m the one who usually ends up cleaning it) and looks a mess. I fantasise about getting rid of it.

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Elle771 · 10/06/2025 10:11

I'm a bit meh about them... we had one then didn't and now have one again (house moves!)...

I find emptying it all annoying (why is tupperware never dry?!) and having small DC there still seems to be plenty of things we can't whack in there so end up washing some things by hand anyway...

It's handy for quickly making kitchen surfaces clear I guess!

Definitely wouldn't be bothered if we didn't have one again tbh... now the tumble dryer on other hand is definitely my best ever appliance

Womanofcustard · 10/06/2025 10:10

I have never had one of my own. Small kitchen but double sink and nice view out the kitchen window, always use rubber gloves. I would probably want one if I didn’t have the nice view and double sink.

TheKeatingFive · 10/06/2025 10:10

We love ours so much we got two. I do not want to go back to a world of washing dishes 🫠

Drew79 · 10/06/2025 10:06

Do it. They're not even expensive - I've bought cheaper end models with good reviews and they've been great and lasted.
So satisfying to hide dishes away after a meal and just put it on when it's full.
I'd have two if I could!

GasPanic · 10/06/2025 10:05

CasperGutman · 10/06/2025 09:49

The cost of running it isn't really an issue. You were paying for hot water and washing-up liquid anyway. Energy and tablets for the dishwasher won't cost significantly more, and depending on the amount of hot water used in washing up, a modern dishwasher on an eco cycle may very well be more energy efficient.

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My guess is it costs something like 50p-£1 more per cycle to run a dishwasher than wash up by hand once you take into account stuff like cleaning, salt and detergent tabs. Plus electrically heated water for me is very expensive compared to gas.

It's probably very cheap when the time used for washing up by hand is priced in at minimum wage labour for the same job though.

Again, it's mostly about how you value your time against the (relatively small) amount of money you save.

Ellbee83 · 10/06/2025 10:05

To add, my mum kept house with three children and a less-than-domesticated husband for years and years, finally getting a dishwasher about 10 years ago, long after we'd all left home... Will happily tell you it's one of the best things ever invented!

softlyfallsthesnow · 10/06/2025 10:03

It's like having a small miracle in your kitchen. Switch on, leave, open and in front of your eyes it's all clean! What's not to like?
When we had our kitchen virtually demolished, our builder somehow managed to keep the dishwasher plumbed in for us in all the chaos. I was pathetically grateful.

Word of warning - your DH may quickly turn into 'the only person in the house who knows how to stack it properly'. That's fine - leave him to it. I do!

JellyAnd · 10/06/2025 10:02

CasperGutman · 10/06/2025 09:47

We also like our dishwashers (so much, we have two!) but disagree about the cutlery tray. Our cutlery drawer is a distance away from the dishwasher so we like being able to carry the basket over to the drawer. Plus we occasionally find things like serving platters and stemmed glasses are too tall to fit in the dishwasher as it is and a cutlery tray would reduce the height further.

We have one with a tray and one with a basket and I definitely rate the basket for easy of emptying. Plus it means the top rack can fit larger items such as tall wine glasses that don’t fit in when it’s the middle rack.

Ellbee83 · 10/06/2025 10:02

Another vote for it being an absolute game changer!
I live alone, I don't particularly dislike washing up by hand but it's astonishing how even with just one person, dirty dishes somehow multiply and daily washing up to keep the kitchen in a reasonable state is a bit of a drudge.

I had a new kitchen fitted three years ago and treated myself to a dishwasher (IKEA, slimline, no issues at all so far) - Would hate to be without it. Makes it so much easier to keep things clean & tidy.

If you can, would suggest having multiples of the dishes/cutlery/bowls etc. that you use most often, so you're not having to dig around in the dishwasher to retrieve and wash your favourite spatula (everyone has a favourite spatula, right? Right...?)
Also, if you can get a model that safely fits taller (wine) glasses (my only gripe) and make sure it has automatic door release on completion of the cycle.

And... Accept that no one else will be able to stack it to your standards. Just accept and let it go.
😉

JellyAnd · 10/06/2025 10:00

Get the dishwasher, you won’t regret it! We have 2 and I don’t think I could go even go back to 1 now.

Beachhutgirl · 10/06/2025 09:59

Yes, definitely worth it. It's great not to have to wash up after a meal, but the best bit for me is that the odd mugs, plates etc that I use through the day just disappear into it, no bother, and no sitting about in the kitchen waiting to be washed

FluffykinsTheFerociousFeralFelineFury · 10/06/2025 09:57

I wouldn't be without mine. I have no desire to put my hands into a bowl of dirty dishes and floating food scraps, even wearing gloves. Don't bother getting a three-tier model with a cutlery tray though, it's an expensive gimmick.

BuddhaAtSea · 10/06/2025 09:57

If I were you, OP, I’d go ahead and have one installed without any hesitation.
I have a Bosch series 6. It’s just me and DP (but doesn’t live here), and yet I wouldn’t be without one. I put it on every other day.

RealEagle · 10/06/2025 09:56

You will not regret it ,

Springadorable · 10/06/2025 09:55

I had a similar thread. I didn't want a dishwasher as I thought that you still had to rinse anything and they made glasses smell funny. We got one that actually worked (unlike my childhood one) and I then voted that I was being unreasonable on my own thread. It's brilliant.

babybabytime · 10/06/2025 09:55

Completely life changing!
we have fortunately always had a dishwasher but had a period of 9 months a few years ago where due to drainage issues we had to hand wash dishes - the sheer relief and extra time when we were able to use the dishwasher again was immense!

RickiRaccoon · 10/06/2025 09:55

We haven't had one with two small kids and have never missed one. I mostly like the thinking time while washing the dishes. The only thing that really appeals to me is the cleaner look of not having dishes and dish rack on the bench all the time. I would get one if we redid the kitchen for that alone.

MermaidMummy06 · 10/06/2025 09:54

We had to wash by hand for three weeks last year as ours broke & had to wait for the new one to arrive.

I almost cried with happiness when it was installed. The time saving & hiding dirty dishes not worth a sink full ... priceless.

BeachRide · 10/06/2025 09:53

Yes. Get one yesterday. Get two.

Sidebeforeself · 10/06/2025 09:53

I love mine. I even chat to it .. same with my washing machine and microwave..They all sing a little tune when they are finished and I reply “ Thanks! I’m on my way!”

Yes, I’m slightly bonkers

GoatGoatGoat · 10/06/2025 09:51

It's one of the few things I own that I would replace immediately if it broke. Saves so much time and faff.

BIossomtoes · 10/06/2025 09:50

CasperGutman · 10/06/2025 09:49

The cost of running it isn't really an issue. You were paying for hot water and washing-up liquid anyway. Energy and tablets for the dishwasher won't cost significantly more, and depending on the amount of hot water used in washing up, a modern dishwasher on an eco cycle may very well be more energy efficient.

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This. A dishwasher uses less water than washing by hand. The cost of electricity is minimal.

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