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To think a dishwasher will change our lives?

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Question285 · 10/06/2025 09:25

Never had a dishwasher before and never thought I needed one. But now, with two small DC, I think it would make a world of difference. DH, who does most of the washing up, disagrees.

So, does anyone have any input? Does having a dishwasher make life better? Is it worth the investment? Will it be so life changing that even my reluctant DH will be persuaded? 😄

Also, any brand suggestions? Is it better to spend more for a top brand? I’ve narrowed it down to two models, a Hisense and an AEG. It’s about £250 difference between them.

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Flossflower · 10/06/2025 21:46

Yes a dishwasher will change your life!
I am currently on a touring holiday and have stayed in a few self catering houses/apartments. The last one didn’t have a dishwasher. For 5 days we had to hand wash dishes. We both agreed that we would never ever book somewhere again that didn’t have a dishwasher.

BashfulClam · 10/06/2025 21:44

i love mine. Everything that he’s washed gets chucked in. There are just two of us but after dinner I had three pans, a pan from lunchtime, several plates from throughout the day, mugs, cutlery. All hidden and off my mind, after dinner I just turn it on, wipe down the worktops and it’s all done. It’s my most hated chore and I was forced to wash dishes as a kid, I hated it.

NMoy22 · 10/06/2025 21:34

ImaniMumsnet · 10/06/2025 20:26

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VenusClapTrap · 10/06/2025 21:09

LittleBitofBread · 10/06/2025 13:27

The possibility of an electrical fault and a fire has been given as a reason for not letting these things run overnight or when you’re out of the house.

Admittedly I am mindful of this. When I say ‘overnight’, they’re not generally running when I’m asleep. The dishwasher goes on after dinner, around 8/8.30, takes 3 hours, so it’s usually finishing as I’m nodding off.

I set the washing machine to start at 6.30am which is around the time I’m waking up. So it’s actually running while I’m getting dressed, turfing kids out of bed and getting on with breakfast.

The car is the exception - it starts charging at midnight. The charger is on the garage though, which is some distance from the house, so in the unlikely event that went up in flames it wouldn’t reach us.

I’m more worried about lightning strikes, as this house is the highest point in the village after the church spire. But we do have a lightning conductor.

ImaniMumsnet · 10/06/2025 20:26

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DancingDangerously · 10/06/2025 20:18

@NMoy22 I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this. It'd be best to start your own thread in the correct topic so I'll report your comment and ask MNHQ to move it for you. 💐

NMoy22 · 10/06/2025 20:11

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Talk5 · 10/06/2025 19:50

We had the same chats.
Bought one...never looked back! So much easier with 4 people in the house than washing up by hand. Also time saver when rushing around after 2 kiddos.

happydayzahead · 10/06/2025 19:43

I always wanted one in our old house but we didn't have the right plumbing and the landlord wouldn't let us change it. But when we moved, there was already a dishwasher here and I love it!!! So much easier.

Sharptonguedwoman · 10/06/2025 19:35

Question285 · 10/06/2025 09:25

Never had a dishwasher before and never thought I needed one. But now, with two small DC, I think it would make a world of difference. DH, who does most of the washing up, disagrees.

So, does anyone have any input? Does having a dishwasher make life better? Is it worth the investment? Will it be so life changing that even my reluctant DH will be persuaded? 😄

Also, any brand suggestions? Is it better to spend more for a top brand? I’ve narrowed it down to two models, a Hisense and an AEG. It’s about £250 difference between them.

Each to their own but wouldn't choose to live without mine. All sorts go through it, oven shelves, the works. Love my dishwasher and it's better at washing up than I am.

OneAzureRobin · 10/06/2025 19:26

Whichever model you choose make sure you join @ExtremeDishwasherLoading

sueelleker · 10/06/2025 19:24

sheldonRockz · 10/06/2025 17:40

I haven’t got a dishwasher, I really want one and imagine it would be life changing. Currently researching how I can fit one on my small kitchen, including how hard is it to change pipes around and move the water meter…..😁

Why would you need to move the water meter? I've got my washing machine and dishwasher next to each other; on the same wall as my sink. The water comes to all of them, and they all drain through the same pipes.

Batmannequin · 10/06/2025 18:44

Go for it, it changed our lives. Lived for years without one and when we moved house 18 months ago, it actually had space for one. First thing I bought and never regretted it. I despise washing dishes and every now and then as I'm stacking the dishwasher I think to myself "god, I'm so glad I've got one."

coxesorangepippin · 10/06/2025 18:20

Yup

That and a tumble dryer

Daddyoffive · 10/06/2025 17:58

Life-changing, that's a big one, life enhancing, for sure.
We wouldn't be without ours.

Alliod40 · 10/06/2025 17:58

Have one in my kitchen 14 years used it once and thought what a faff,I've brought up 4 children and never felt the need,I cater for massive family events still wouldn't use it,ridiculous waste of money

nightmarepickle2025 · 10/06/2025 17:49

do it don’t let him be a martyr!

sheldonRockz · 10/06/2025 17:40

I haven’t got a dishwasher, I really want one and imagine it would be life changing. Currently researching how I can fit one on my small kitchen, including how hard is it to change pipes around and move the water meter…..😁

Wingingitbestican · 10/06/2025 17:39

I never thought I needed a dishwasher. DH bought one as a surprise one day . Now wouldn’t be without it - game changer. Add to that - boiling water tap , also game changer

ButteredRadishes · 10/06/2025 17:32

Stopitbella · 10/06/2025 14:15

It’s not waiting around, it’s just a split job to me. Put it in and then get it all out to put away later.

I’ve just made me and dd lunch. When we finished, I washed up two plates, a chopping board, a knife, quickly dried them with a towel and put back in the cupboard. Took minutes.

If I had a dish washer, it wouldn’t be filed until the evening then I’d have a whole heap of stuff to put away. I prefer to do things quickly as I go.

Aha whole heap of stuff... LOL

You'd have 6 plates/bowls which would take the exact same amount of time to put away as doing it 3 times. In fact quicker.

I put 4 plates away at any one time from dishwasher.

You'd be fine

Redpeach · 10/06/2025 17:30

If i was redoing our kitchen I'd get a double dish washer

Evaka · 10/06/2025 17:29

Omg get on now!!! Just bought our first flat which came with a dinky little half dishwasher and I'm beside myself. Everything is properly clean and no more minging pile up next to the sink every few hours.

YourRealAquaOP · 10/06/2025 17:27

I always said I wouldn't get one but now I wouldn't do without it.Make sure you always use good quality tablets dishwasher salt and rinse cheaper ones are rubbish and don't do the job properly so are false economy.Weve got a Beko.

OriginalUsername2 · 10/06/2025 17:22

Another vote for life changing.

You can wash all your fridge compartments in there too.

cookiemon666 · 10/06/2025 17:21

Would never be without one