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Would you get a loan for an amazing holiday?

116 replies

Florally · 09/06/2025 22:28

Just that really.

A friend of mine is getting a loan to do her ‘bucket list trip’ and go on safari and to South Africa and it sounds incredible.

My DH would never let us do that, save instead of borrow as a mantra.

But, I think if it were just my decision, I would. If you can afford the repayments without impacting anything instead of saving for years… I don’t see the harm.

Would you? (And as a bonus, where would it be? 🤩)

OP posts:
LameBorzoi · 10/06/2025 09:46

TwoTuesday · 10/06/2025 09:32

I don't think the OPs husband should be dictating what she spends her disposable income on.

But she doesn't have that disposable income. It's money that she does not have.

TwoTuesday · 10/06/2025 09:32

I don't think the OPs husband should be dictating what she spends her disposable income on.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 10/06/2025 09:22

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 09/06/2025 22:31

No. Imagine doing that and then you lose your job or find our your whole roof needs replaced and you can't afford the repayments or borrow anything else. Stupid.

Or imagine saving and saving and then your parent gets seriously ill, or you do...

Suddenly your bucket list trip won't happen..

I'm in this position myself...

TwoTuesday · 10/06/2025 09:20

I use a zero % credit card for holidays which is pretty much the same thing, and (try to) pay it off before I go on the next one.
Some people have big car payments, I would rather have an old car and use credit for hols instead.

mylovedoesitgood · 10/06/2025 09:17

LadyDanburysHat · 10/06/2025 08:39

I agree with this. I drive my car daily and still can't wait for the car loan payments to be finished.

Holidays feel like distant memories so quickly, and the thought of still paying for it later is just awful.

Distant memories, sure, but sometimes wonderful ones to cherish forever. Some of the best times of my life have been whilst I’ve been on holidays.

ExpectoOff · 10/06/2025 09:16

For me it would depend on the amount of the loan, the length of the repayments and how much per month.

I’m quite partial to putting stuff on a credit card to spread out the payments. If I want to do something then I do it. I don’t wait around to save, I might not be here in a few years when I can afford it in one chunk. But I’m very sensible with it and always pay it off and over pay. I don’t do it for everything either. Currently have no debt.

Mercurial123 · 10/06/2025 09:03

TotHappy · 10/06/2025 08:40

I went on holiday about 12 years ago to Istanbul, on a credit card. Still paying it off (we bounce the money around different interest free cards but of course pay transfer fees when we do). No regrets! We had kids a couple of years after and would never be able to go with them till they're much older. I'd always wanted to go, it was amazing, and I wouldn't like to go now because the political situation has worsened so much.

That's insane. Istanbul isn't expensive. It's still fine to visit for tourists.

iliketheradio · 10/06/2025 08:58

I don’t think I would unless like a PP said, for medical reasons I had to go sooner rather than later.

I'm off on belated honeymoon this summer - we could’ve taken out a loan but decided to save instead.

Spirallingdownwards · 10/06/2025 08:47

TotHappy · 10/06/2025 08:40

I went on holiday about 12 years ago to Istanbul, on a credit card. Still paying it off (we bounce the money around different interest free cards but of course pay transfer fees when we do). No regrets! We had kids a couple of years after and would never be able to go with them till they're much older. I'd always wanted to go, it was amazing, and I wouldn't like to go now because the political situation has worsened so much.

12 years ago and still paying it off! Glad you had a nice holiday but you could probably have had at least 6 more bearing in mind you haven't paid it off in 12 years and therefore the amount of transfer fees you must have accrued and paid.

Spirallingdownwards · 10/06/2025 08:45

No

And I would worry that my friend has been diagnosed with something terminal and that it was a family decision to do this knowing they could use life assurance to clear the loan but make sure her dream came true before she passed!

Timeforyetanothernamechange · 10/06/2025 08:44

Nope. Holiday would be over and you'd still be paying it off months later. Then what if you decide you fancy another holiday but can't save for it because you're still paying off the last? Agree with PP, if you can afford the repayments you can afford to save, just need to wait a little longer to get there but for a bucket list destination, it would be worth it.

mylovedoesitgood · 10/06/2025 08:43

If my job was relatively secure, then yes. Life is short and the grim truth is that none of us are guaranteed tomorrow. I think best to use a zero % credit card rather than a loan to pay for it, however. And be really frugal when you come back from holiday to pay off the debt asap.

TotHappy · 10/06/2025 08:40

I went on holiday about 12 years ago to Istanbul, on a credit card. Still paying it off (we bounce the money around different interest free cards but of course pay transfer fees when we do). No regrets! We had kids a couple of years after and would never be able to go with them till they're much older. I'd always wanted to go, it was amazing, and I wouldn't like to go now because the political situation has worsened so much.

Mercurial123 · 10/06/2025 08:39

Middleagedstriker · 09/06/2025 22:39

Go with friends! Sod a boring DH.

You think being financially sensible is "boring"? Says a lot about you. Are you one of these YOLO people always in debt?

Isobel201 · 10/06/2025 08:39

ScoliMum · 09/06/2025 22:33

I’ve put many holidays on credit cards in order to spread the payments out - I don’t think that this is uncommon. A loan specifically for a holiday is absolutely bonkers though

This, my mum put our major holiday this year on her credit card, I paid my share towards it, and its now fully paid off.
It also aids in getting your money back if a company (Thomas cook was a prime example) folds under whilst you're still waiting for your holiday.

LadyDanburysHat · 10/06/2025 08:39

declutteringmymind · 09/06/2025 22:35

No. I’ve just posted about my car loan and how much I hate it. I’d hate to be paying off a holiday that I’d already been on but I wouldn’t judge you. Just bear in mind you might regret it if you run into some financial bad luck, or have to say no to something else, or lose out on your dream house or something because you already spent the money. I’d start saving and looking for a good deal.

I agree with this. I drive my car daily and still can't wait for the car loan payments to be finished.

Holidays feel like distant memories so quickly, and the thought of still paying for it later is just awful.

legyeleven · 10/06/2025 08:37

It’s just not a good idea. If there is a bucket list holiday you want then save for it. If you make it a priority you will save for it but be protected in case of emergency. Little choices will add up (take away tonight or £20 in holiday fund for example)

OrangeCrushes · 10/06/2025 08:36

I would never ever, ever, ever do this.

caringcarer · 10/06/2025 08:35

Not a chance. Unemployment is going up, businesses are not recruiting as many people. Very few jobs are 100 percent certain. Any of us could lose our jobs at any time. Save up and go.

Firefly100 · 10/06/2025 08:33

Annascaul · 09/06/2025 22:58

If you can afford the repayments you can afford to save.

This

GetOffTheCounter · 10/06/2025 08:32

I am fiscally risk averse so probably not. Plus I always get post-holiday blues so I'd hate to be paying off a holiday I have already done rather than saving for the next one.

In the case of illness making it a 'now' decision then I would do it.

I am a saver though. 3 years ago I took on temporary seasonal work in order to pay for an amazing holiday (additional 12 hours a week, mainly evenings and weekends) and it was so successful ** I have done it ever since. I'm more comfortable with that.

** mind you, it has occurred to me more than once that if we gave up weekly pub/eating out trips we could have saved similar without having to work extra but hey ho

coolmum123 · 10/06/2025 08:30

Nope for me. I would only borrow for necessities. Holidays are luxuries and you can save towards them.

Gundogday · 10/06/2025 08:26

If you have to save for years to afford it, then it will also take years to pay off the loan, so in that case , no.

Maybe if it were short term, for example a year, then maybe I would consider it.

Zebralie · 10/06/2025 08:22

If you can’t afford the holiday, no!

Bubblesgun · 10/06/2025 08:22

IberianBird · 10/06/2025 02:08

Yes. Imagine waiting to save the money and then dying before you got to take the trip. Life is for living, creating memories. You've only got one. Make the most of it.

Whilst I absolutely agree that life is for living (and trust me we do. I soend all my money on experiences for us as a family and for the teens), i fundamentally believe that getting into debts for a holiday is veeeeery bad planning and quite stupid actually.
if you do, please let us know when you can retire and live financially secure however tgat means for you.