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Does this reply sound OTT? Dating

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Wellisayohyeah · 09/06/2025 20:26

Someone I'm dating, he messaged me about 7:30pm last night, and I didn't reply until 9am today, I got in late last night and just fell straight asleep.
We normally text every few hours, we send about 2 or 3 texts a day.

Anyway I messaged saying 'sorry for replying late, I just fell asleep last night' he replied saying 'aw it's ok, just as long as you're alright 🥰'.

Does that sound a bit OTT from him or is it just me overthinking it?

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ExtraOnions · 09/06/2025 20:28

He Appropriately responded to your apology.

Why do you think it’s a problem ?

Pinkelephant66 · 09/06/2025 20:28

In what way do you think it’s OTT?

Dangermoo · 09/06/2025 20:28

Nothing wrong with it.

Biscuit12 · 09/06/2025 20:28

No, I think it’s nice

justanotherboymum · 09/06/2025 20:28

I wouldn’t overthink it, sounds like a sweet reply to me

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 09/06/2025 20:28

It sounds like you're very much overthinking it to me.

Wellisayohyeah · 09/06/2025 20:27

Don't know why it says 'dating' in the title 🤦‍♀️

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