I’ve been a bit of an idiot I think - but feel a bit upset at how this has played out.
In the early days when DP and I were together, we’d swap stories about drunken escapades when we were younger - holiday flings, silly behaviour etc. On one occasion he told me a story to which I replied to say my friend ‘R’ had done similar.
I’ve never repeated any of his tales, they were told in private, and he’d never relayed any of mine…until the weekend.
We were out with R and her husband, for dinner and drinks. I got a message when arriving home from R to say she didn’t appreciate me telling my DP about X story (in far stronger terms than that).
Basically, when we were all very young on a girls holiday she had gone off with a couple of blokes from a group we met. When we were out, she apparently brushed past DP’s leg and made a joke of it as you do. DP said something like ‘I know you have form for introducing someone else but I am sure you’d draw the line at your mates man’ and laughed.
DP says it was my fault for telling me in the first place and that he assumed it was common knowledge.
Am I right in feeling like DP should have known to keep his mouth shut?!