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To ask why Mumsnet is obsessed with “having your colours done”?

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Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 14:10

One of those Mumsnet things that makes me feel like I’ve wondered into Hyacinth Bucket’s house:
what’s with the getting your colours done stuff? This is not 1982.

Helen Fielding was taking the piss out of it 20 years ago. Surely no one under 40 does this anymore? I feel, like savoury jelly, china ladies, and serving hatches, it belongs in a different era (“Another mini gherkin, Bridget?”).

Or am I wrong? Should every woman have her colours done? Are those of you that have seen the light (gone to John Lewis…is that where this happens?!) looking at women in the street and going tsk, she is clearly a jewel autumn or whateverthefuck?

I am baffled, please enlighten me.

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senua · 09/06/2025 15:25

I've never had my colours done, I know I suit reds (which is good as I like red)
I can tell that you have never had your colours done! I tried to google how many shades of red there are: of course nobody knows but plenty of sites say more than 100.
Do they all suit you?Smile

CantStopMoving · 09/06/2025 15:25

Fluffyholeysocks · 09/06/2025 14:47

Obsessed? I've never heard of 'getting your colours done'?
So yes you are wrong! Maybe you're on the wrong site?

Me either but now I’m intrigued! 😄

PeopleWillAlwaysNeedPlates · 09/06/2025 15:24

You don’t need to spend money on getting it done. It’s very easy to work out for yourself and there are lots of explanations on SM. I’m a light spring because I’m neutral / cool but I don’t stick slavishly to it - I wear gold jewellery rather than silver and I still wear black, although I might not if I’m feeling tired or under the weather as it will make me look drained. I wear very little colour and I do look better in grey or navy.

BrotherViolence · 09/06/2025 15:22

It's really just part of figuring out what suits you (which isn't always obvious to the individual themselves, hence the professional consultants). I probably wouldn't go to get mine done or get too obsessed with which specific subtype I supposedly am, but I'm definitely cool toned and prefer a high contrast but not super bright look, and have felt better about myself since buying clothes that conform to that. It's popular on Tiktok, along with Kibbe, so not an old person thing.

Floofle · 09/06/2025 15:10

I've had mine done.
I wouldn't have paid for it myself tbh but my auntie did it for me, my sister and cousin and it was quite fun to go together and do it.

It was quite informative actually, I'm not particularly fashionable but I think I manage to look fairly well dressed by knowing what suits me. I'm a warm, soft autumn, so jewel / earthy tones look good.

There were some surprises, like mustard yellow, which I'd never worn much of but actually look really good in! Dark green, purple and maroon look great on me which is good as I wear a lot of them anyway.

I was told never to wear black but instead wear aubergine, which I thought was hilarious as I play/sing in lots of ensemble concerts etc and the uniform is always black... can just imagine saying "oh no sorry I can't wear black like everyone else, I'll have to wear aubergine!" 😂

LadyGreySpillsTheTea · 09/06/2025 15:10

I’ve seen multiple threads on the theme over the years, but almost always on the Style and Beauty board (unsurprisingly). Those who’ve had it done tend to have the zeal of religious converts, which is always worrying.
I wouldn’t spend any money in it because it will either confirm the colours I like and buy already (in which case it’s nice to know but improves nothing) or suggest colours I utterly despise like peach or chocolate brown (and then I wouldn’t change what I have already but would feel less confident about wearing my clothes). So it’s pointless either way.

Cattenberg · 09/06/2025 15:08

teksquad · 09/06/2025 15:00

i remember my mum and her friends doing this 40 years ago. Ive never had it done because I know ill be a season that means I should wear warm colours, which I hate and not the black and cool colours which I much prefer. I'd have loved to have been an ice cool tall Scandinavian pale skinned blue-eye blond, instead of a short, squat, olive skinned brunette with warm brown eyes.

If I remember rightly, olive skin looks golden, but actually has a blue undertone. You might well be a Winter who suits cool, strong colours.

Carole Jackson also wrote that there are far more Winters than any other seasonal type and they come from a wide variety of ethnic backgrounds. I found her Colour me Beautiful book very interesting.

Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 15:05

Catsandcannedbeans · 09/06/2025 15:04

@Wiltingasparagusfern if I could go back in time I’d have just taken her out for a nice meal. The only time it’s actually made me rage was when we were shopping for her dress for my wedding, I contemplated pulling the fire alarm so we could leave.

Nightmare. This is why I think it’s a cult. A fairly benevolent one but a cult nonetheless

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mikado1 · 09/06/2025 15:05

PomeloOud · 09/06/2025 15:00

I really don’t get it. If I was told I was a ‘spring’ or whatever, there’s no way I’d start wearing blue, yellow or green if that’s what ‘spring’ entails.

My friend had it done (it was SO expensive) and she sticks slavishly to a (frankly alarming) colour palette.

Nothing could persuade me into anything other than black, grey or white. I don’t care what colours someone holds up against my face and tells me to wear. Not interested.

Even if you looked much better in the other colours? 🤔
Maybe black etc suit you anyway, you probably know. I just look grey and pasty in grey and cream. I love white but have to up my make up and bronzer to wear it so probably not my colour but I won't be changing it!

twilightcafe · 09/06/2025 15:05

Some people know innately what colours suit them.

Others don't.

Anyway, Chat GPT will do it for free. Load a photo of your face in daylight. Ask it what colour season you are, and... 🎰🪄🎩

Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 15:04

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 09/06/2025 15:02

Do you read a lot in style and beauty? Maybe it's all in there?

Yeah I think you’re probably right. I wasn’t suggesting that it’s site-wide, like acolytes appearing on threads where someone has just found out her husband is cheating and responding with “Maybe it’s because you’re an autumn but you’re wearing only spring.”

Not that I’d put anything past this place

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Catsandcannedbeans · 09/06/2025 15:04

@Wiltingasparagusfern if I could go back in time I’d have just taken her out for a nice meal. The only time it’s actually made me rage was when we were shopping for her dress for my wedding, I contemplated pulling the fire alarm so we could leave.

Newmeagain · 09/06/2025 15:04

Ok, so yes, it was really big in the 1980s (I was a young teen but remember my mum having it done),

But - the principles are valid. Some colours do suit some people a lot more. I don’t stick to it completely - e.g. I am a spring but I do wear black even though it’s not supposed to be one of my colour. However, I find it really helpful to know what suits me. E.g. khaki looks ok on me but teal looks terrible.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 09/06/2025 15:02

Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 14:55

Oh maybe it’s that!
To the people who say they’ve never come across it on Mumsnet, I am SHOCKED! We are clearly reading different threads 😌

Do you read a lot in style and beauty? Maybe it's all in there?

Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 15:02

Butchyrestingface · 09/06/2025 14:57

I've been on MN for about 15 years, and likewise, yours is the first thread I've ever seen dedicated to the topic. Am struggling to recall ever even seeing any posts on the subject.

Your OP fairly drips with contempt towards anyone who might consider having it done so I'll need to book me an appointment at JL as soon as poss.

You say drip with contempt, I say: gentle piss-taking. But do by all means get your colours done - that’ll show me! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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ladyofshertonabbas · 09/06/2025 15:01

Chuckling at this, got AI to do my colours on the back of several Mumsnet posts talking about it. AI basically told me to wear really dreary colours ie dress like Lynn from Alan Partridge. Will be ignoring.

It's just that sometimes when seeing people in colours which supposedly do/ don't suit them, it really seems to make a difference.

PomeloOud · 09/06/2025 15:00

I really don’t get it. If I was told I was a ‘spring’ or whatever, there’s no way I’d start wearing blue, yellow or green if that’s what ‘spring’ entails.

My friend had it done (it was SO expensive) and she sticks slavishly to a (frankly alarming) colour palette.

Nothing could persuade me into anything other than black, grey or white. I don’t care what colours someone holds up against my face and tells me to wear. Not interested.

teksquad · 09/06/2025 15:00

i remember my mum and her friends doing this 40 years ago. Ive never had it done because I know ill be a season that means I should wear warm colours, which I hate and not the black and cool colours which I much prefer. I'd have loved to have been an ice cool tall Scandinavian pale skinned blue-eye blond, instead of a short, squat, olive skinned brunette with warm brown eyes.

PeopleWillAlwaysNeedPlates · 09/06/2025 14:58

I haven’t seen it on MN for years but it is ALL over TikTok and Insta. It does make a difference if you have an idea of the colours which particularly suit you.

Butchyrestingface · 09/06/2025 14:57

I've been on MN for about 15 years, and likewise, yours is the first thread I've ever seen dedicated to the topic. Am struggling to recall ever even seeing any posts on the subject.

Your OP fairly drips with contempt towards anyone who might consider having it done so I'll need to book me an appointment at JL as soon as poss.

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 09/06/2025 14:57

I find the "I'm jewel, autumn" and the like comments quite pretentious. It usually comes with a "have you tried a personal shopper from John Lewis" comment.

I've never had my colours done, I know I suit reds (which is good as I like red) but haven't a clue if black suits me or what bloody season that is.

SomethingDifferentBloomed · 09/06/2025 14:56

I’m under 40 and while I’ve not “had my colours done” I’ve definitely seen it on social media as a bit of a trend at the moment, and honestly the concept makes sense to me. I’m pretty confident I’m a spring and those colours suit me the best. I think once you pay more attention to colours you can spot what does and doesn’t suit people, but I’m not going around being like oh she’s an autumn.

Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 14:56

Catsandcannedbeans · 09/06/2025 14:51

Honestly I think it’s just a middle class thing? I think it’s probably BS, but my mum has always been keen on having it done so when I got my first grown up pay cheque we went out and got our colours done together. I will say it was a fun day out and it was nice to see my mum happy but she is now militant about it. I hate going shopping with her now because she’s the fucking colour police. I had to draw a line with her when we were picking clothes for DD and she was like “no she’s an autumn she can’t wear that”… 🙄

This made me laugh so much, I’m sorry. It does sound frustrating but it’s also piss funny 🤣

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Wiltingasparagusfern · 09/06/2025 14:55

GiddyDog · 09/06/2025 14:52

I think it's had a bit of a resurgence on social media, there's little communities on tiktok.

Oh maybe it’s that!
To the people who say they’ve never come across it on Mumsnet, I am SHOCKED! We are clearly reading different threads 😌

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CarmellaSopranosKitchen · 09/06/2025 14:55

In don't know - but we've all seen some friends look great in some colours and awful in others. I have a friend who wears a lot of black. I think she thinks she looks elegant - but really it makes her look ill. She looks so much nicer in bright colours.
Why is it annoying you so much? Have you been asked to pay £££ to have yours done?