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To ask for some support? DP disappeared and worried about an accident

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Ubadl · 09/06/2025 07:47

DP does a weekly 4-5 hour drive each Friday and Sunday as he’s currently on a placement several hours away. He stayed a bit late last night as he wanted to chat to DS as he went to bed and then he set off at 9pm.

His battery had died before he left and he said he may not be able to charge in the car because of a dodgy connection. However he has work at 8am and is usually absolutely obsessed with being on time for work and I’ve not heard a thing. He always messages when he’s at hotel.

ive been googling accidents and having dark thoughts and just looking for a hand hold. Surely by now he’d have battery?!

OP posts:
GRex · 09/06/2025 07:49

Is there anyone physically near him who you can call, e.g. flat concierge?

Send him an email asking him to call. Try to take deep breaths, it's unusual for him but he was tired, he may have just slept in.