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I have an abscess on my leg - antibiotics not working - what to do?

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skinissue · 08/06/2025 22:40

I am at my wits end and would be very grateful for any help or advice.

I have a skin abscess at the top of my inner thigh measuring about 2.5 inches and it is very red, hot, angry, and most of all - painful.

Had this about 8 days and I am on a 7 day course of Flucloxaxillin - 1,000mg (4 tablets per day) so strong dose.

In short, it has not cleared up at all and is still pretty much the same size, redness, and swelling. It is perhaps around 10% less painful, but there is no 'head' or any part of it that looks as though pus will emerge, but a small part of the top of it looks as though it might be starting to yellow slightly and perhaps scab over.

It is so so painful as every time I walk it rubs against my other leg and sitting / standing / turning over in bed / bending / using the loo are all agony.

Questions:

  • Do I need an incision and drainage?
  • Are these procedures typically successful and what is the approximate recovery period?
  • Should I go to my local A&E to get this done? Want to avoid my GP for personal reasons that I don't have the post length to get into right now.

Thank you in advance!

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ARealitycheck · 09/06/2025 01:44

I feel your pain op. I have had a skin absess (back of the neck) only once and probably one of the most painful things I have ever had. Being drained (two big syringe fulls of greenish gunk) alongside antibiotics was the thing that worked.

researchers3 · 09/06/2025 01:36

CatEyeGlasses · 09/06/2025 01:09

@skinissue @mynameiscalypso Given the locations you’ve both described I would urge you both to look into Hidradenitis Suppurativa if either of your accesses are reoccurring (which I sincerely hope is not the case) if there is even a possibility you have it, be prepared to advocate for yourself as it’s so commonly mistaken for other conditions and diagnosis can take a long time. However if that does turn out to be the case for either of you it’s so helpful to know to then be able to ensure you’re getting the correct treatment that the accesses will actually respond to!

I thought possibly HS too.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 09/06/2025 01:29

My advice (based on experience) take a hot shower. Get a cloth and use extra hot water (step out of the stream while you do this) then get the hot cloth and tuck it in between your leg and other bits and sort of hold it there. Obviously this shouldn’t be hot enough to burn you but just under that temperature. Cool off the water and take the rest of your shower repeatedly heating up the cloth as much as necessary. Aim for at least 10 min.

Then during the day take a few sitz baths (hot shallow baths) for between 10-20 min each time. One day of this should open it up. Big warning is that it’s most painful right before it opens.

If the bath or shower isn’t practical for whatever reason you can just hang out by the sink for hot water and hot compress it for 10-15 minutes several times during the day.

Long story but I usually get one of these a year and I had a 3 month run where I got 6 and they were all 5x as big. Think Brazil/walnut size (4-5cm).

TooSquaretobehip · 09/06/2025 01:19

That's an overreaction. If a doctor lances it, he squeezes it, too. It needs to be squeezed regardless. It doesn't make a difference who does the squeezing. You're not doing anything a doctor wouldn't do. As long as you use gloves, antiseptic cream and sterilise the pin, and make sure you get the sac out (pretty easy to grab onto once the pus is gone out, I've done it myself and no reoccurance), it's fine. Most people are able to do this themselves with no issues or complications.

CatEyeGlasses · 09/06/2025 01:09

@skinissue @mynameiscalypso Given the locations you’ve both described I would urge you both to look into Hidradenitis Suppurativa if either of your accesses are reoccurring (which I sincerely hope is not the case) if there is even a possibility you have it, be prepared to advocate for yourself as it’s so commonly mistaken for other conditions and diagnosis can take a long time. However if that does turn out to be the case for either of you it’s so helpful to know to then be able to ensure you’re getting the correct treatment that the accesses will actually respond to!

DeSoleil · 09/06/2025 01:07

Epsom salts in a hot bath will draw gunk to the surface.

Andoutcomethewolves · 09/06/2025 01:06

OP I really don't want to come across as a drama queen but go to A&E, or at least back to the GP. I had a similar abscess and it turned out to be sepsis - I nearly died and was in hospital for two weeks. It was progressive so just got worse and worse until I collapsed and my DH called an ambulance. Apparently if I'd left it another day I'd be dead. My local pharmacy (who btw are generally very good) also prescribed antibiotics when I first went to show them it (mine was on my calf). Not gonna work with something like sepsis!

I'm obviously not saying that's what you've got but it really is worth having it properly checked.

LunaTheCat · 09/06/2025 00:53

“If there’s pus about let it out”
It needs incision and drainage if soft and fluctuating.
Go back to GP.

skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:53

Nat6999 · 09/06/2025 00:47

Tonight, warm compressed as hot as you can bear & then sudocrem under a dressing, chances are it will either bring it to a head or burst it by morning. You will still need to see a doctor, but at least the pressure should release & make it less painful. If you have any Epsom Salts, make a paste with boiled water, put some on a dressing & cover overnight, it will draw the infection out.

Thank you. Will try this!

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Nat6999 · 09/06/2025 00:47

Tonight, warm compressed as hot as you can bear & then sudocrem under a dressing, chances are it will either bring it to a head or burst it by morning. You will still need to see a doctor, but at least the pressure should release & make it less painful. If you have any Epsom Salts, make a paste with boiled water, put some on a dressing & cover overnight, it will draw the infection out.

skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:46

TooSquaretobehip · 09/06/2025 00:33

Why haven't you popped it? Antibiotics won't do a thing if the boil is in place - I speak from personal experience.

Because popping it is terrible advice - that is more likely to spread the infection and I will not be able to get all of the tissue / pus out of it without squeezing it out and that can push the pus (infected fluid) down further into the body causing it to spread elsewhere.

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TooSquaretobehip · 09/06/2025 00:33

Why haven't you popped it? Antibiotics won't do a thing if the boil is in place - I speak from personal experience.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 09/06/2025 00:33

I’ve just finished a 4 week course of antibiotics for a groin abscess. It was Flucloxicillin 500 mg.

It calmed down in week one, but it took 4 weeks for it to go fully.

SummerbodyIwish · 09/06/2025 00:28

My DS had an abscess in the inner thigh. He was given co amoxiclav (I think) for 7days. It cleared it up

Mercier1 · 09/06/2025 00:21

Not a medic but had recurrent issues with abscesses. They nearly always need draining if antibiotics aren’t kicking in. Never let the sun set on pus my doc said. See GP on the morning and get a referral to hospital. Also ask for swabs. Good luck.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 09/06/2025 00:19

skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:03

How long did it take to heal? I'm glad it hasn't returned

Once it was drained it started healing pretty much straight away. I guess it was about 2 weeks until it was totally closed, but it felt better instantly.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 09/06/2025 00:18

You should try seeing if you can get it to naturally drain yourself first? I had an abscess which was red, angry and painful, the GP wanted to give me antibiotics, but I declined them. Once I knew what it was from her diagnosis, I went home, boiled the kettle, poured some water into a bowl, added a few drops of tea tree oil, stuck a facecloth/flannel in, then when still hot but not too hot to handle, wrung it out and placed it on top of it and held it in place until it went cold.

When I removed the cloth, it had opened and drained itself. Instant pain relief. I did this a couple more times the next day and it was gone before I knew it.

Now, I'm just suggesting you try it now for some relief. Obviously, if it doesn't work, go to a walk-in centre or your GP to get it drained tomorrow.

ETA: If you don't have tea-tree oil, put some salt in the water, or even just plain hot boiled water.

doglosttooth · 09/06/2025 00:18

Back to GP ,Flucoxacillin 500mgs four times a day should have sorted out the abscess by now!! You probably need a E&D .

skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:15

LostWirhoutYourLove · 09/06/2025 00:09

I’ve not read the whole thread as it’s late.
However, looks up castor oil for your leg ulcer(s), there seems to be a lot of positivity for dealing with what you’re suffering with.
Good luck 🤞

Thank you!! I will do this now

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skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:15

chunkybear · 09/06/2025 00:08

Keep taking the meds
Make an appointment urgently tomorrow with GP
Have they done a swab to see if it's resistant to any antibiotics?
Do t mess around d, after 2 days you should be seeing some improvement so it needs professional guidance, even if that's that it's ok ... but doesn't sound it to me

Does it have to have liquid on the surface (pus) or similar to be able to swab? because it is dry and not yet an open wound

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LostWirhoutYourLove · 09/06/2025 00:09

I’ve not read the whole thread as it’s late.
However, looks up castor oil for your leg ulcer(s), there seems to be a lot of positivity for dealing with what you’re suffering with.
Good luck 🤞

chunkybear · 09/06/2025 00:08

Keep taking the meds
Make an appointment urgently tomorrow with GP
Have they done a swab to see if it's resistant to any antibiotics?
Do t mess around d, after 2 days you should be seeing some improvement so it needs professional guidance, even if that's that it's ok ... but doesn't sound it to me

skinissue · 09/06/2025 00:03

Slightyamusedandsilly · 09/06/2025 00:01

I had an abscess under my arm a few years ago (overseas at the time) where a cyst that I'd had for years got infected.

I was given antibiotics which did nothing. Went back after 4 days because it was just getting bigger. They gave me LA, drained it and were shocked at how big it was (I'd told them this, but I guess they didn't listen). It was silver packed. Can't remember if they stitched it closed or not.

Cyst is still there. Hasn't ever happened again.

How long did it take to heal? I'm glad it hasn't returned

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 09/06/2025 00:01

I had an abscess under my arm a few years ago (overseas at the time) where a cyst that I'd had for years got infected.

I was given antibiotics which did nothing. Went back after 4 days because it was just getting bigger. They gave me LA, drained it and were shocked at how big it was (I'd told them this, but I guess they didn't listen). It was silver packed. Can't remember if they stitched it closed or not.

Cyst is still there. Hasn't ever happened again.

skinissue · 08/06/2025 23:54

Offcom · 08/06/2025 23:43

I had a course of flucloxaxillin this year, first antibiotics for at least a decade. It didn’t seem to be doing much for ages, by day five I thought I’d have to get another course, and then suddenly it really was really working, and seemed to keep improving after the seven days was up. Wasn’t an abscess though.

Okay so there's still hope then! I'll hold onto this for now

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