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Do you miss snogging males?

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Boredeoboredbored · 08/06/2025 20:40

Remember being 14/15 or so onwards and just sooo much kissing, so much fancying of different boys, feeling excited if you’d see them that night and if you’d get to go with them 😂
I don’t think I’ve kissed like that since my mid twenties maybe…40’s now.

If you are this age and date again, do you kiss like this? I really have no idea

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Blobbitymacblob · 08/06/2025 22:19

I was a little bit sad for a while at the idea of never kissing another man again after getting together with dh, but I haven’t ever fancied anyone else since I met him so it was sort of academic really.

Love kissing him though. I’ve found that we kiss more passionately during those times that we’re going through a bit of a sex drought. Otherwise it’s just a peck on the lips.

Doitrightnow · 08/06/2025 22:08

No. All the kisses I had as a teenager were sloppy and gross, and the guys were usually idiots who made me feel crap afterwards.

Koazy · 08/06/2025 21:49

We still kiss with tongues every day. Been married 25 years.

CaptainJason · 08/06/2025 21:43

I’ve not snogged my husband in years! Still head over heels for him, I’m just not a very tactile person (although I suppose with two under two, nobody is!)

Stinkbomb · 08/06/2025 21:41

Yep me and DH do very often - love kissing him, we are mid forties but admittedly we only got married 2 years ago

Tagyoureit · 08/06/2025 21:40

God lord, I'm 45 and still kiss my DH, 54, like we're teenagers.
We've been together 8 years, married for 3, and we're still like silly teenagers, pats on the bum, silly flash of boob whenever I think I can get away with it, in the house, never out and about 🤣

namechangeGOT · 08/06/2025 21:37

We kiss properly and passionately almost every day! He’s 48 and I’m 40! Been married 19 years! Why would it stop?!

Didimum · 08/06/2025 21:34

Boredeoboredbored · 08/06/2025 20:50

But kiss properly every day? In what situation

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In the kitchen, on the sofa, in bed – whenever we want to really, as long as the kids aren’t there.

Hgfvbd · 08/06/2025 21:20

PPs and @Boredeoboredbored back in your teenage years were you ever a lad's first snog? As in his first kiss was with you.

whynotmereally · 08/06/2025 20:53

I miss those first love lust feelings. When it was all consuming and passionate and romantic . I love dh In a much more significant way now but it different to those early days

isitmeamithedrama · 08/06/2025 20:53

DP and I are 51 and 42 and still “snog” a lot at least one proper smooch when we see each other which is every other day or whenever we’re together.

CrazyCatMam · 08/06/2025 20:52

Na, once I found things that were better than kissing, there was no looking back for me!

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Boredeoboredbored · 08/06/2025 20:50

Didimum · 08/06/2025 20:48

DH and I still kiss a lot. Every day. 40yrs old. Two kids.

But kiss properly every day? In what situation

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Didimum · 08/06/2025 20:48

DH and I still kiss a lot. Every day. 40yrs old. Two kids.

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Boredeoboredbored · 08/06/2025 20:46

socks1107 · 08/06/2025 20:45

I still kiss my dh like that. I love kissing and luckily so does he 😀.
we dated in our 30s me and him his 40s so yes it is definitely still a thing!

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That’s amazing…that you still have that connection

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socks1107 · 08/06/2025 20:45

I still kiss my dh like that. I love kissing and luckily so does he 😀.
we dated in our 30s me and him his 40s so yes it is definitely still a thing!

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