Family mocking partner’s speech - AIBU to be upset?

They have not apologised nor have accepted any responsibility for their actions.

I would go home asap and continue to support your partner fully. Your family members are toxic people and are not nice to be around. I would think twice about allowing them to also have a relationship with your child given their behaviour.

You family has behaved appallingly. I'd be making a stand now because if you let this go without them knowing-fully understanding- that you won't tolerate it, it will keep happening. A good friend has a stammer. It gets much worse when under pressure and being around that bunch of mocking wankers is pressure.

Your family are horrible. You and your partner should pack and leave. Enjoy some relaxing time together before baby comes. Your family aren't even sorry and they'll no doubt do it again. Have a think about what kind of influences you want in your baby's life. Will your child grow up listening to your family bully their father for his speech impediment? Or end up on the receiving end of their jokes for something they can't control?

I would take a big step back from them. If they take responsibility and offer a sincere apology I might reconsider. If they dig their heels in and continue with their behaviour I would cut them out.

Ugh, how disgusting, i'd be taking my partner home explaining i dont condone bullying!!

They're just horrible people.

They sound awful. My grandfather had a stammer. I would be appalled if anyone had teased him about it.

Leave early - it’s a sign to your family that you take it seriously and to your partner that you won’t accept their treatment of him.

That's awful OP, it communicates a huge lack of compassion and respect for your partner, and therefore indirectly a lack of respect for you. Your poor partner, he must have been mortified. I would leave early too.

Not the point of your post (which other women have already commented on), but I assume he often has migraines? They can affect people's speech like that, and symptoms like that can be seen a day before they happen. Your family shouldn't be mocking him either way.

If they don't think what they did is wrong, where do they draw the line?? Does that mean they'll think it's also fine to do it once your child is a bit older and can understand what's happening. For a child to witness their parent being humiliated is horrific.

Your partner shouldn't have to worry about things like that. I'd leave too and make it very clear how utterly unacceptable this was. I'm so sorry this has happened OP, you must be gutted.

Nasty to purposefully be cruel about speech impediment
A stressor with speech is the anticipatory dread knowing someone will be mean
Will your family take the piss of your child has a speech issue

Your family have behaved like a bunch of disgusting idiiots.
You need to take the lead here.
Unless you absolutely have to wait, I think you should leave now. Don't make a drama out of it. Get everything packed just quietly then without fuss just leave. On the way out just tell them you don't like the way they've behaved towards your partner and you're not putting up with iit. Don't get into a battle of words at this point. You've said what you think and you don't need to justify your point of view in this case.

In future, you may want to consider how much influence you want them to have on your child if they think this behaviour is acceptable.

I would have got my partner and gone home and left them to it
this is unacceptable and not nice in any way

Yeah it’s nasty behaviour on their part. And it’s your family, you need to take the lead here. I’d be telling them the piss taking stops now, it’s out of order he’s the father of your child and they need to be decent and make him feel welcome in the family. Next incident you’re off and there’ll be repercussions. And then follow through.

Show your partner your support, OP. He's too nice for your family - you have to take the lead and head off home when they behave like this. What did they mean about speaking in English? Is English your husband's first language?

Ask your family if they would joke about a blind person's inability to see, or the fact that a paraplegic is unable to walk, and point out that this is no different. Ask them whether if, say, they had cancer of the tongue and had to have part of it amputated, or if they had a stroke affecting communication, they would find it funny if people joked about their inability to speak.

If that doesn't lead them to apologise and pack this behaviour in, there is no hope for them.

Your family sound like a pack of utter pricks. I'd rip their fucking heads off first and wouldn't be seeing them again.

Gross. I’d leave. How vile.

as a side note, I often begin to muddle my words when a migraine is imminent. The two can be very connected

Not rude. Bullying.

Well done for making sure he knows you're on his side. Don't wait until tomorrow, go home now. You'll be able to have a lovely day together tomorrow then, go out somewhere nice, because you both deserve it after what sounds like a truly shit "holiday".

You aren’t mad in the head or hormonal. Thats gaslighting.
Your family have behaved in an appalling way towards your partner. I’d find it hard to get past that. I’d leave with him - they haven’t listen to your words, so show you won’t stand for it.

Honedtly your family were being vicious, and you need to stand your ground, if necessary going non-comm. bullies of any sirt are vile, frankly. Yes your OH would have noticed and been hurt by it. Deeply. But he’ll also notice how you react to it. Do you really want these peopld in your baby’s life??

Your family are rude, they are not little kids and if they were, they'd be corrected! Speak to them about it. I am so annoyed at them on behalf of you and your partner. Any one of them could develop a speech problem, you never know what is going to happen in life. Honestly! Words fail me.

Just go home op. To mock anyone like this is absolutely not ok.

What nasty bullies. I’d be going very low contact to be honest, that’s completely unacceptable. What if your baby ends up with a speech impediment, are they gonna bully a small child too?

YANBU. Your DH is not oversensitive, and it is not down to your hormones.

Your family were extremely nasty. People with disabilities of any sort, struggle enough without people taking the piss out of them.

They need to understand how they have made him feel, and apologise for their actions.