I'm worried even though on paper it's a short term loan to enable him to buy a house now until the current one is sold.
She's worried but she also trusts him.
They have been together for 6 years and to be fair he's a nice guy, he's got two adult DC and mum has two as well. They share one DC my brother
She lives in his house now but it's quite small he wants to buy a slightly larger house for family to visit and he will be a grandfather soon
They live quite rurally so harder for family to visit.
I'm concerned because he won't marry her he said it's too complicated with his adult children and also work shares and a family trust,he won't put her on the deeds.
He's never shared a Will even but has said brother will be looked after .
Mums put up with this because she's still got her divorce money ring fenced in case of problems which is about 250. That's her fail safe and she's been comfortable with her situation living in a nicer house than she could afford with that money for her should something happen
Technically he would be borrowing this money only on a short loan but she's worried as am I,what if something random happens to him in that time?
How could she get it back and what if it gets lost in complicated trusts?