When myself and my partner got together over 12 months ago, he told me he deleted his online dating accounts. ( I didn’t have any ).
7 months into our relationship I later learn that his accounts aren’t deleted. He only hid them as he was tied up with monthly subscriptions on both accounts.
I was very taken back as nothing about this was mentioned before. Why couldn’t he have mentioned before that he couldn’t delete anything until his contract has ended? I never asked or prompted him to “delete” them, he done it of his own back. When I asked about it he told me he didn’t think it would matter as no one could see his profile.
I understood it was out of his control and just asked him to be more transparent in the future.
Fast forward a few months and my question is this …
Both of his dating accounts have reached the end of their contract now. He’s no longer tied up in monthly subscriptions. They ended one month apart.
But he still hasn’t deleted his profiles on either account. To him because it’s hidden it’s irrelevant.
Am I being daft?
He says all the right lovely things but I’m a firm believer in actions speak louder than words.
Does anyone on here have any advice ?
Im not really sure how it’s making me feel?
He knew it upset me last time that he wasn’t transparent.
Has anyone been in something similar?
He told me he needed prompting to delete them. But I feel a 40 year old man shouldn’t need prompting over something he knew upset me before. He was still receiving emails with offers etc so he knew his account was still on there.