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To think that free breakfast at school is a bad idea due to the quality?

637 replies

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

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mugglewump · 07/06/2025 23:10

I don't know where you get your evidence that a school breakfast is worse quality than most kids get at home. As a supply teacher, I see loads of breakfast clubs' food and it is usually buttered bagels or brown toast, cornflakes or similar (none of the high sugar varieties), fruit and yoghurts. Only water to drink because of the budget, but water is the best thing you can give them. Left-over bagels are given out at break-time and they are very popular.

DragonRunor · 07/06/2025 23:10

But it isn’t just about the money! Porridge with banana or in-season fruit is cheap, but they won’t serve it in schools cos lots of the kids won’t eat it - or someone thinks they won’t.

Annony331 · 07/06/2025 23:07

All our schools have a salad bar and serve healthy food at lunch time.
The rules about what can be served are very strict.

We are not providing any breakfast in some schools but the ones where we do have a waiting list because the kids enjoy the food.

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:06

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 23:05

There are a few comments on this thread that suggest families who neglect their children to the extent of not having food should have children removed,

I’m the safeguarding lead at an urban secondary school- the threshold for removal is so unbelievably high that most people not working within the system wouldn’t believe it. I can’t even get outside agency support for children who are being neglected at this level, never mind the SS input needed to move to legal proceedings.

Schools are the only agency who cannot, and do not, step away from supporting children and families.

I can’t actually remember the last time I had a conversation about curriculum, or my teaching practice- all my time is soaked up trying to keep children in school and safe.

A breakfast club is part of that.

We really don’t have the resources to be teaching children to make their own yogurt, either. <laughs, in a way anyone who works in safeguarding will understand>

Yes, yes and yes again

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:06

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

Completely agree!

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:05

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

Feel superior do we ? Hoist those judgy pants up a bit higher

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 23:05

There are a few comments on this thread that suggest families who neglect their children to the extent of not having food should have children removed,

I’m the safeguarding lead at an urban secondary school- the threshold for removal is so unbelievably high that most people not working within the system wouldn’t believe it. I can’t even get outside agency support for children who are being neglected at this level, never mind the SS input needed to move to legal proceedings.

Schools are the only agency who cannot, and do not, step away from supporting children and families.

I can’t actually remember the last time I had a conversation about curriculum, or my teaching practice- all my time is soaked up trying to keep children in school and safe.

A breakfast club is part of that.

We really don’t have the resources to be teaching children to make their own yogurt, either. <laughs, in a way anyone who works in safeguarding will understand>

LostMySocks · 07/06/2025 23:04

Nurseryquestions86 · 07/06/2025 21:36

Our breakfast club offer toast, crumpets, bagels, Weetabix and cornflakes oh and fruit. Not the end of the world.

So does ours but the session costs about £6 from 7.30 to the start of school which is significantly more than the breakfast club funding from the government

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:04

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 07/06/2025 23:01

Sure Start was supposed to try to break the cycle of dysfunctional families and generations repeating the same poor choices. Austerity impacted it severely.
Some schools have community rooms with washer and dryer so parents can wash clothes at school. They use PEF monies or pupil premium if it's still called that down south.
Bluntly, we have a very broken society and austerity measures took away proper intervention which actually did some good, and all that's left is a series of sticking plasters. They hold something together for a while but it doesn't solve the underlying societal problems.

I totally agree with you. It’s shit. The country is shit and so broken, it can’t be fixed.

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Dramatic · 07/06/2025 22:04

Some kids won't eat the posh stuff, my daughter eats some form of chocolate cereal for breakfast every morning. She won't touch porridge, Weetabix etc. Plenty of kids are the same and it makes sense for schools to provide foods kids are likely to eat

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:03

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:02

There’s money to give breakfasts to kids that don’t need it though?
money for the speaker to go on jaunts wherever
money for mp expenses fir dinners and drinks out etc.

there’s s lot of money, it’s just not being well spent, or being spent on votes and headlines.

So why are they not even fully funding the dinner that they put on years ago? That could do with getting sorted first. Schools shouldn't have to cut classroom support to feed kids who can afford it because the government withdrew funding a year after it was introduced.

Gardenbumblebee · 07/06/2025 23:03

A cheap and cheerful breakfast is better than no breakfast.

But I agree that school dinners are absolute shite. My dc's school serve very strange dishes such as chickpea and sweet potato roast, hot dog jambalaya or roasted vegetable and cranberry slice. I appreciate the effort they make to include some vegetables but how many children will eat that? Even if those dishes were nice, the mass produced versions shipped out to schools are most certainly not. Why can't they just have some grilled chicken, veg and roast potatoes? Because money 😕

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:02

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/06/2025 21:23

There’s no money that’s why!

There’s money to give breakfasts to kids that don’t need it though?
money for the speaker to go on jaunts wherever
money for mp expenses fir dinners and drinks out etc.

there’s s lot of money, it’s just not being well spent, or being spent on votes and headlines.

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 07/06/2025 23:01

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 22:49

You are probably right, but isn’t this what we should be concentrating on, helping parents who have possibly been born in to the case system themselves and parents in general that need support?
breaking the cycle, not a sticking plaster which gets headlines and buys votes.

Sure Start was supposed to try to break the cycle of dysfunctional families and generations repeating the same poor choices. Austerity impacted it severely.
Some schools have community rooms with washer and dryer so parents can wash clothes at school. They use PEF monies or pupil premium if it's still called that down south.
Bluntly, we have a very broken society and austerity measures took away proper intervention which actually did some good, and all that's left is a series of sticking plasters. They hold something together for a while but it doesn't solve the underlying societal problems.

Holidaysrhere · 07/06/2025 23:00

Beepbird · 07/06/2025 22:51

Isn’t the point of OP’s post that why, as a society, do we think it’s acceptable that children from less privileged backgrounds are deemed ok to eat an unhealthy UPF laden breakfast? And should we not be aiming to give every child a nutritious, non crap breakfast? Or is it ok for poor kids to eat crap on the state?

Absolutely agree with you. Healthy choices when young correlates with healthy living later in life.
There is far too much UPF in the British diet

Annony331 · 07/06/2025 23:00

There are strict guidelines about what can be served in school.

Governors bear responsibility to ensure all meals are healthy.

All our schools provide good healthy food and the cost is never covered by the income.

we are not providing breakfast at some schools because it takes us further into a deficit budget.

if you think your child is being served rubbish you need to challenge the school.

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:00

Holidaysrhere · 07/06/2025 22:58

Like in Continental Europe it would be best if they have on offer home made whole grain bread, cheeses, hard boiled eggs, jam, fruit and porridge. That is not that expensive.

Should the teachers fund this or should the school cut staff to fund it?

Holidaysrhere · 07/06/2025 22:58

Like in Continental Europe it would be best if they have on offer home made whole grain bread, cheeses, hard boiled eggs, jam, fruit and porridge. That is not that expensive.

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 22:57

It’s very easy to pontificate on mn ‘they should do xyz’, not so easy when it’s real life

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 22:56

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 22:52

support for the parents, better support and pay fir foster parents, more social workers, more support for schools.
not shit breakfasts offered to a lot of people that don’t need it to get votes and headlines. It’s just more poor use of funds that could be better spent elsewhere.

You think that’s not already happening ?

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 22:53

EcoCustard · 07/06/2025 22:49

@feelingbleh i feel that’s the issue. It is on the parents and many can’t be arsed, have other priorities and that’s many of the well heeled families. I know a few kids in genuine dire need, but society says as long as they’re fed it doesn’t matter if it’s lacking nutrients & substance. It’s wrong. Same as the attitude to lunch, meals & school nutrition in the secondary schools, no salad bars here it’s UPF shite, leading to poor focus etc, longer term health issues, etc which is a government & societal problem.

This.

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 07/06/2025 22:52

@ThisDandyWriter the children are actually making it into school. Yes, possibly unfed, dirty clothes, not washed. It may well be older sibling getting the younger ones up and out the door. But they're pitching up at school so there is some functionality in the home, however minimal.
There are too many children in the care of local authorities for the number of foster carers that we have, so lowering the threshold of what is considered negligence would add to a long-standing problem. Simply put, where would these children go?

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 22:52

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 22:46

So how do you tackle that ?

support for the parents, better support and pay fir foster parents, more social workers, more support for schools.
not shit breakfasts offered to a lot of people that don’t need it to get votes and headlines. It’s just more poor use of funds that could be better spent elsewhere.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 07/06/2025 22:52

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 21:28

Holy fuck.

Try coming to a school serving a community in the bottom 10% for deprivation.

Then come back and talk about UPFs.

This. It's better for a well nourished child to eat upf than for a neglected child to not eat anything

Beepbird · 07/06/2025 22:51

Isn’t the point of OP’s post that why, as a society, do we think it’s acceptable that children from less privileged backgrounds are deemed ok to eat an unhealthy UPF laden breakfast? And should we not be aiming to give every child a nutritious, non crap breakfast? Or is it ok for poor kids to eat crap on the state?