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To think that free breakfast at school is a bad idea due to the quality?

637 replies

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

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feelingbleh · 08/06/2025 08:14

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

My kids know about chocolate cereal as I eat it what do you want me to do give them a carrot why I sit their with a bowl of coco pops. That would be mean.

amberisola · 08/06/2025 08:01

I get it and I have the same reservations. People.seem.to think "healthy" options include ultra processed fake bread and cereal and the only alternative would be a salad.

Unfortunately of course the schools can't serve anything else since in the UK it's nearly impossible to buy proper food without shite in it. If you want something plain and simple (and actually healthy) you have to pay £££, if you can even find it. It's backwards.

The food and drug companies obviously know this and will be thrilled to have half the population on mounjaro in a few years time!

hopspot · 08/06/2025 07:55

The breakfast club at our school doesn’t have cooking facilities. It has a toaster and that’s it. Staffing levels and facilities needed to produce continuous hot porridge over an hour period is much greater than that popping bread in the toaster or pouring cereal so with the paltry funding from the government you can see why schools opt for this option.

Rhayra · 08/06/2025 07:53

RaininSummer · 07/06/2025 21:33

I agree with you if it's going to be white bread with jam or cheap spread or cheap nutrition free cereal. If it is a decent bread with healthy toppings or porridge or fruit then great.

Cereal may be processed but it's not the end of the world it's fortified with loads of vitamins like iron and vitamin d which a lot of people don't realise they're deficient in.

Personally I think the free breakfast and free lunches should just be for families with low incomes making it free for everyone is just a waste of money. At the moment the income limit is only 7k it should be raised to something like 25k but families on 100k getting free lunch in reception to year 2? What a waste of money that could be spent improving the food

ThisDandyWriter · 08/06/2025 07:52

U53rn8m3ch8ng3 · 08/06/2025 07:27

But what if the option is white bread with jam OR a child goes without breakfast?
I'd sure as hell pick one of these so called poor quality turn your nose up at breakfasts than a child going hungry.

It shouldn’t be a choice we have to make.

white bread and jam is shocking nutrition wise, it shouldn’t be an option.

ThisDandyWriter · 08/06/2025 07:50

TheCurious0range · 08/06/2025 00:13

DS usually has porridge or overnight oats at home, with nut butter, fruit and Greek yogurt, occasionally poached eggs but there's not often enough time mid week. He's only been to breakfast club once as we don't usually need it (both work locally and not in an early start industry), he had shredded wheat with milk, a banana and some grapes, maybe not ticking all of the boxes his at home breakfast would but reasonable. It's also only £3.50 and starts at 7:45. His school has about 35% pupil premium students. If a family was struggling and got it for free, I think it's a sufficient breakfast.

I totally agree, that would be a great breakfast.

ThisDandyWriter · 08/06/2025 07:45

JimmyGrimble · 07/06/2025 23:47

I work in a deprived area in the NW. nutritional standards and salad bar with water or milk to drink has been the norm for many many years. Food waste is enormous though as our children tend to reject vegetables and anything ‘healthy’ as they’re not used to it. Breakfast club offers whole meal toast with various toppings, low sugar cereal and milk or water. We also offer break time toast or fruit. I’ve been working in deprived communities for 25 years and seen children removed by SS twice and certainly never for just neglect. They don’t get involved unless it’s literally life or death. I’m laughing my arse off here at the thought of any of our kids eating avocado on toast.

Literally no one has suggested avo on toast for breakfast at breakfast club. No one.

i posted that’s what i feed my own children as one of their breakfasts.

but I think you kniw that.

Kirbert2 · 08/06/2025 07:40

Natsku · 08/06/2025 07:25

One thing I'd want to know about the free breakfast in the UK, is will they provide breakfast for children with dietary needs? Are they going to be providing gluten free bread and cereal?

They would have to.

Though my son would be cheap because his dietary needs means he must eat the evil white bread and not the wholemeal bread!

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 07:31

One thing that’s not been mentioned though is that the supermarkets are really good. We’ve got a donation trolley at the end of the checkout for the local schools breakfast club and Tesco’s match the donations.

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 07:29

Natsku · 08/06/2025 07:25

One thing I'd want to know about the free breakfast in the UK, is will they provide breakfast for children with dietary needs? Are they going to be providing gluten free bread and cereal?

They will probably have to, although That that’s just gonna divert funds so that everybody gets less overall

U53rn8m3ch8ng3 · 08/06/2025 07:27

RaininSummer · 07/06/2025 21:33

I agree with you if it's going to be white bread with jam or cheap spread or cheap nutrition free cereal. If it is a decent bread with healthy toppings or porridge or fruit then great.

But what if the option is white bread with jam OR a child goes without breakfast?
I'd sure as hell pick one of these so called poor quality turn your nose up at breakfasts than a child going hungry.

Natsku · 08/06/2025 07:25

One thing I'd want to know about the free breakfast in the UK, is will they provide breakfast for children with dietary needs? Are they going to be providing gluten free bread and cereal?

Natsku · 08/06/2025 07:24

A bad breakfast is better than no breakfast of course but it would be good if it was decent food, but decent food costs money and children moan if they're not used to it. But with time they would get used to it but is the will there to keep going despite complaints?

I'm in Finland, my DS has been going to breakfast club this school year and its always porridge (different type each day so oat one day, barley another, four grain, wheat, rice, so some variety but always healthy except perhaps the rice porridge), bread (not cheap white bread but wholegrain sliced bread or rye bread) with cheese or ham to put on it plus some kind of vegetable like cucumber or lettuce or tomato slices. Its the same breakfast they have at nursery so they all get used to it. Similar deal with lunch (which is free for everyone and everyone eats it - no packed lunches), fairly healthy meals, no burgers or chips or pizza ever though there is UPF foods sometimes like fish balls, salad and vegetables and decent bread/crispbread. In preschool they have the rule that they all have to taste everything even if they don't like it so they get used to all the flavours.

Katypp · 08/06/2025 07:21

CaptainFuture · 08/06/2025 06:47

This.
These parents who are saying that, why?
In Scottlland and you don't work, you can have a huge amounts of benefits due to gateway benefits,
CB, UC, housing benefit, Scottish child payments, and then in the holidays, extra money because not getting the free school meals.

Exactly.
I can accept there are useless parents, feckless parents and parents who don't prioritise the time, organisation or money to have food in the house.
But I cannot and will not accept that any UK family, working or not, does not gave the money to buy a loaf of bread or box of cereal, sorry.
That's not privilege, it's common sense.
I have no idea why people are so keen to push the narrative tbh.

dottiedodah · 08/06/2025 07:16

Surely this is down to costs though.food had increased hugely. Obviously it would be best if every child had wholemeal toast ,and the better cereals.this is a start at least. Many children may struggle to eat at home,maybe poverty or just lack of time .most parents working.eithret way porridge is very cheap,filling and nutritious.

HedgeWitchOfTheWest · 08/06/2025 06:54

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:36

Every school I’ve ever worked in has a salad bar and fresh fruit.

Not where I work.

Chips, pizza (massive, greasy slice), hash brown in a bun, pasty, bacon bap, donuts, big chocolate cookie. Some white bread/baguette sandwiches with ham/cheese/chicken & mayo.

Same every day. No actual meals. No salad. No veg.

It’s been that way for 10+ years. Like Jamie Oliver never happened.

The OP has a point. Children on FSM deserve better.

CaptainFuture · 08/06/2025 06:47

Katypp · 08/06/2025 00:19

I can afford bread at 75p and jam at £1?
Listen to yourself and think. Are you really saying parents can't afford £1.75? Just think about it - really?
And wtf have Reform got to do with anything??

This.
These parents who are saying that, why?
In Scottlland and you don't work, you can have a huge amounts of benefits due to gateway benefits,
CB, UC, housing benefit, Scottish child payments, and then in the holidays, extra money because not getting the free school meals.

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 06:46

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:44

The schools in my village do processed cereals or toast with jam and marg.

I agree with you, they are teaching kids that highly processed nutritionally void foods are the breakfast of choice.

Fruit and yoghurt would be better. School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.

Do you not remember Jamie Oliver’s dinner?
The problem is, they won’t eat anything else other than cereals or toast with jam and Marge
We need to get back to Sure start where we’re teaching people to wean with porridge and baby rice with fruit added to it instead of a Greg sausage roll from the minute they can hold it

JMSA · 08/06/2025 06:41

Princessfluffy · 07/06/2025 21:59

I agree OP schools should not be lining up their pupils for obesity, diabetes and cardiac issues in later life.

Right, so for once can the responsibility not be put on their feckless parents?

IwasDueANameChange · 08/06/2025 06:37

Panda89
See this is why i would never send my DC. Rice krispies might be low "sugar" but nutritionally they are a poor breakfast. They are just air, you need to eat a massive bowl for a growing child to get enough calories.

IwasDueANameChange · 08/06/2025 06:30

Generally my view of the food offered in many British state schools is that its terrible. Cheap crap, small portions.

My son had school dinners for one year and in that time his weight relative to his height fell. He was constantly hungry. My friend is on the governors and admitted she'd seen the food and it was pretty awful, but that the school had no choice, it was the only supplier covering local schools with no kitchens and they had a statutory obligation to provide infant school free lunches.

I read the government guidance on whats supposed to be in these lunches from a nutritional point of view and couldn't see how they were possibly meeting it from the recipe info on the providers website.

I can't see how breakfasts will be any better. The problem is so much of any budget the government provide for it will go on paying staff to make/serve/transport it, plus admin of planning menus, logistics etc, fuck all money is provided for the actual food.

It would be cheaper/better to provide food vouchers to parents for standard bundles of milk, oats, eggs, fruit, yoghurt etc but that wouldn't solve the issue of chaotic homes who can't manage to feed their DC well even when there is plenty of food available.

exLtEveDallas · 08/06/2025 06:27

A couple of years ago we started offering a free breakfast club for children on FSM, funded by us with no Govt help. We didn't make a big thing of it, and only told the parents of those children. Other parents who need it for childcare still pay. It's only a small TA run service for 30 mins before school starts.

We provide the basics - toast and cereal with a variety of spreads, and cereal choices. There is always milk and fruit available too. Sometimes we have crumpets, and sometimes (ready made) pancakes.

We had barely any takers and we were told that if we wanted to do this it should be in school time, (meaning the children would miss the first 30 mins in class) rather than them having to come to school early. The children also moaned about the bread (we tried wholemeal, then the 50/50 stuff before reverting to plain white) and the plain cereal, wanting chocolate versions.

I'd rather the Govt upped the funding for lunches so our provider can give a decent sized plate and better quality meals - that's where our problem is, lots of children qualify but few take up as the kids don't like what is on offer, or they bring snacks (crisps/pastries) to top up because the meals are so small.

MonTuesWeds · 08/06/2025 06:20

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 22:35

If children are hungry and that’s what they are offered, they will.

or whole meal bread, weetabix , etc….lots of cheap and healthier cereals.

I stand by my point am that we are enabling poor parenting and neglect.

if kids are going to school unfed, unclothed and dirty, why the hell are they still with their parents?

Unfortunately they're still better with their parents. The level of neglect has to be quite serious before the outcomes are better away from their biological family.

MonTuesWeds · 08/06/2025 06:17

"Would it not be better if they spent more money on wholesome things like oranges and wholemeal bread or if they even, like the writer of the letter to the New Statesman, saved on fuel and ate their carrots raw? Yes, it would, but the point is that no ordinary human being is ever going to do such a thing. The ordinary human being would sooner starve than live on brown bread and raw carrots. And the peculiar evil is this, that the less money you have, the less inclined you feel to spend it on wholesome food. A millionaire may enjoy breakfasting off orange juice and Ryvita biscuits; an unemployed man doesn't. Here the tendency of which I spoke at the end of the last chapter comes into play. When you are unemployed, which is to say when you are underfed, harassed, bored, and miserable, you don't want to eat dull wholesome food. You want something a little bit 'tasty'. There is always some cheaply pleasant thing to tempt you." (George Orwell, Road to Wigan Pier)

Panda89 · 08/06/2025 05:53

DDs school are piloting the government funded free breakfast club. She loves to go because her friends also go, and the school make it fun with games/music etc. She tells me she has rice crispies most days.
I do wonder if attending will include her into a statistic of ‘unfed children’ which is absolutely not the case, we have no issue providing breakfast at home.