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Why are people put heating on before putting on a hoodie/jumper

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stoow · 07/06/2025 06:55

Seen photos and posts with people saying that they have put on their heating on. Some photos have people wearing short sleeves! Just put on a hoodie, jumper or cardi! That costs nothing. Heating - varies depending on how big the home is, type of heating, efficiency etc.

I have not had my heating on since around Easter. My energy account is about £80 in credit.

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HeadlinesEnough · 07/06/2025 09:56

Agix · 07/06/2025 08:08

I'm sure there's plenty of reasons someone may put the heating on before putting on more clothes.

For putting on more layers to work, you need to be able to generate enough heat (and efficiently) from your own body to be able warm yourself up (heat getting trapped in the layers) . Some people don't generate enough heat for this to happen. Men, or chubby or fat people, etc this might work well for.

Younger women, very slim people, people with health conditions etc putting on more layers may not work at all to warm them up. When I was very skinny and unwell from anorexia, putting on layers or even wrapping myself in a blanket made no noticeable change to how warm I felt. If the environment was cold I'd be cold, because I was not generating much heat for layers to do anything.

Some people may not have this problem, but may have sensory issues with putting on more clothes, and want to be warm AND comfortable in their own homes. Not warm but uncomfortable.

Edited

Yes, I am at the thin end of the spectrum and suspect it is part of why I feel the cold so much.

HeadlinesEnough · 07/06/2025 09:54

tammienorrie · 07/06/2025 09:40

I'm not sure why it being June should outweigh the actual weather.

It's the weirdest attitude. Heating determined by the calendar rather than the actual temperature.

I'm sure that if there was an unseasonably warm day in November/February then the same people would be saying to turn the heating off/down because it was too warm to use. But when it's unseasonably cold in June/August then the heating can't go on?

It's the weirdest attitude. Heating determined by the calendar rather than the actual temperature.

Exactly!

FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 09:54

FiveBarGate · 07/06/2025 09:53

Same and we are pretty far north. Not that I have heating to put on as such as we don't have any gas.

We've still got windows open. Our forecast is for a high of 11 today and night time down to 5 but it doesn't feel that way in June.

My kids slept out in the tent yesterday quite happily.

😂brilliant! I think you win this thread!

FiveBarGate · 07/06/2025 09:53

Summertimealready · 07/06/2025 07:21

So where on earth are these people who are putting their heating on? Is it in the UK?
I'm in Scotland and the weather hasn't been great recently but its nowhere near cold enough to put heating on.
Even in winter my thermostat is set so the heating doesn't come on until the temperature goes below 13°.
Putting warm clothing on is the normal reaction to cooler weather surely?

Same and we are pretty far north. Not that I have heating to put on as such as we don't have any gas.

We've still got windows open. Our forecast is for a high of 11 today and night time down to 5 but it doesn't feel that way in June.

My kids slept out in the tent yesterday quite happily.

HeadlinesEnough · 07/06/2025 09:52

Summertimealready · 07/06/2025 07:36

It is actually genuine interest as to where the weather is cold enough to warrant heating being on in June actually.

And also I suppose it is the feeling people like to rub other's nose in the fact they are wealthy enough to use their heating on a whim where as for quite a lot of us heating is a luxury that can only be used sparingly and as a last resort.

You didn’t say anything about not being able to afford heating. This feels like disingenuous backtracking.

You said:
So where on earth are these people who are putting their heating on? Is it in the UK?
I'm in Scotland and the weather hasn't been great recently but its nowhere near cold enough to put heating on

Your faux shock that you can’t believe people in the UK are cold enough to be putting heating on is bit cringeworthy. It’s obviously we’re not in a heatwave. Clearly cost wasn’t an issue in your initial slightly judgy post.

mickandrorty · 07/06/2025 09:52

Because that's what heating is for! We lived for years with crap storage heaters having absolutely miserable cold winters. Never again, if i feel cold the heating goes on. my energy is £417 in credit!

DoAWheelie · 07/06/2025 09:51
  1. Because the house gets damp and needs the heating on when it's cold and wet to stop the mould from getting out of control.
  2. Because I have sensory issues and don't tolerate wearing stuff covering my legs and arms without wanting to scratch my skin off. I have poor healing so small scratches can become ulcers quite easily so I do need to avoid scratching. I live in shorts and t-shirt year round.
  3. No longer applicable but my late OH had Pulmonary Fibrosis and breathing in cold air would cause a coughing fit that would last until it went away so we needed to maintain a consistent warm temperature year round or he'd choke to death. He couldn't even tolerate standing in front of the fridge. Years of living like that majorly changed the way my body tolerates the cold (i.e it just doesn't).
  4. The cats whinge and get clingy when it's cold and after a while I get touched out and turn it on to get them to go cuddle the radiator to get a break. They also start to fight when together for more than a couple of hours in my lap and that's a risk for wounds on my legs again that will ulcerate. A tiny scratch can take 2 months to heal.
  5. I have asthma and I'm more likely to get asthma attacks when it's cold and damp
FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 09:47

That was a bit rigid of your dad, @Chicheguevara . No logic to just using the calendar as opposed to the actual air temperature.

LondonFox · 07/06/2025 09:47

Bcs I like to fuck and don't want to feel frozen hands on me under 689 layers of clothes. Also, it helps if I am not wrapped up as a bear ready for hybernation.

Noshadelamp · 07/06/2025 09:47

A hoodie or jumper doesn't heat up the cold air.
Breathing cold air for people with airway or lung problems is difficult, painful and triggers inflammation and further issues.

Wellifyouresurebetterbegryffindor · 07/06/2025 09:47

Ahh we haven't had a competitive cold tolerance thread for a bit. Anyone can feel cold when their body tells them they feel cold.

I'm another one who doesn't go by months. Sometimes it's freezing in June. My lovely thermostat does that for me. I pay the bill so none of anyone else's concern what I wear or what temperature it is set at.

AliasGrape · 07/06/2025 09:45

Ours is currently on because we’ve been away for just over a week, it’s cold and wet here and I have about 6 loads of washing to do and then get dry. Did the towels and swimwear when we got back last night (DC swimming lessons this morning so needed them sorting) left overnight and still soaking wet this morning so heating on in the hopes of getting them out of the way and the next load on the airer.

DH isn’t happy about it mind!

We dont have a dryer but times like this I really want one.

LividVermiciousKnid · 07/06/2025 09:41

My rooms are on individual thermostats and set to come on currently at 16.

I don’t want damp and I have a small child.

This “not putting the heating on until November” bollocks baffles my brain. Houses and locations and circumstances are different. Why would you choose to be cold to save a quid, unless you are really on the bones of your arse financially and most people here aren't, they’re just stubborn.

tammienorrie · 07/06/2025 09:40

I'm not sure why it being June should outweigh the actual weather.

It's the weirdest attitude. Heating determined by the calendar rather than the actual temperature.

I'm sure that if there was an unseasonably warm day in November/February then the same people would be saying to turn the heating off/down because it was too warm to use. But when it's unseasonably cold in June/August then the heating can't go on?

Chicheguevara · 07/06/2025 09:39

Heating in June? Blimey.
My Dad always said that heating doesn’t work until 21st November and stops working on the 21st March. He also said that jumpers are available and that some people had more money than sense. We didn’t have double glazing, growing up, either.

Currently have a hoodie over my tee shirt. It’s a bit cool here today. Ditto yesterday evening.

I don’t necessarily agree with the March cut off thing in my own home. As an (alleged) adult, I make my own decisions but never heating in June.

justasking111 · 07/06/2025 09:37

FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 07:26

@Reallyyyyyy , yes I think it's the damp that's the problem. It's been hammering with rain where we are.

This. Wet Wales I'm frozen this morning. No heating but the log burner will be lit this afternoon. Last evening, fully dressed with damart fleece dressing gown, rug over knees and sheepskin slippers. DH went to bed early because he was cold he said.

Marmite27 · 07/06/2025 09:35

Ours is set at 18. It came on this morning when I left the back door open for a bit. I was outside in just a tshirt, and am usually the one moaning they’re cold, so it was a surprise when it was on when I came back in.

FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 09:33

I don't get it, @tammienorrie . Why do people think they're morally superior if they like being cold? Odd.

MsTamborineMan · 07/06/2025 09:32

KickHimInTheCrotch · 07/06/2025 09:27

Where are you all that it's that cold? I'm in the south West and sat here with the back door wide open. No way would my heating go on in June.

It's 10 degrees and raining right now where I am (east anglia)

No heating on at the minute but it was also 10 degrees and raining in January and I had the heating on, I'm not sure why it being June should outweigh the actual weather.

RampantIvy · 07/06/2025 09:32

13 degrees and rain here in Pennine South Yorkshire @KickHimInTheCrotch

tammienorrie · 07/06/2025 09:31

I am in Scotland and this past week it has been cold! 8-11c in the morning, yes it gets warmer through the day but it has been chilly. I was staying overnight in another house (also in Scotland) this week, a 200 year old stone cottage and it was BALTIC. I was wrapped up in several layers AND a hoodie blanket. In June. Unfortunately the person I was staying with is one of those sanctimonious "Oh we don't ever use heating between Easter and Halloween" types.

This attitude that you are somehow superior because you don't heat your house above 13c or some other random figure is extremely odd.

FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 09:30

Some people don't realise that the UK weather is quite varied. If you look at the national weather forecast, there's often as much as a 10-15°c difference between various locations.

FleurDeFleur · 07/06/2025 09:29

KickHimInTheCrotch · 07/06/2025 09:27

Where are you all that it's that cold? I'm in the south West and sat here with the back door wide open. No way would my heating go on in June.

Someone has just said it's 11°c in Aberdeen.
The UK can be quite varied.
I'm in the Peak District and it's hammering with rain and 13°c.

AmusedOpalShaker · 07/06/2025 09:27

I don’t tolerate much solid food and due to this am chronically anaemic. I am always bloody freezing, even on the hottest of days!

I pay my bills and if I want to put my heating on, I shall!

Incredibly judgy.

MasterBeth · 07/06/2025 09:27

stoow · 07/06/2025 06:55

Seen photos and posts with people saying that they have put on their heating on. Some photos have people wearing short sleeves! Just put on a hoodie, jumper or cardi! That costs nothing. Heating - varies depending on how big the home is, type of heating, efficiency etc.

I have not had my heating on since around Easter. My energy account is about £80 in credit.

Because they want to and it's none of your fucking business what they do in their own homes.

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