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Making a lasagne from scratch

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tangerinemagic · 06/06/2025 17:14

Does anyone actually see the return of investment of time and money here?

I spent 2.5 hours making one (before it even went into the oven). The bechemel sauce took an hour. I don’t know where the time went but melting butter was fast and adding flour but stirring in all that milk and keeping the thickness too forever and I still ran out for the top layer which was devastating (it’s a one layer lasagne). Grating 50g Parmesan to go in is a work out, that’s before the 75g of cheddar to go on the top of it all. I did have kids with me but I wouldn’t ever bother doing it again.

I grew up eating dolmio made lasagnes and that’s how I was taught but since knowing that’s not the right way and additives etc, I’ve just bought lasagne from the deli or restaurants if I go out. Shop bought Charlie Bingham is lovely.

2.5 hours is such a long time. Does anyone do this regularly? It’s like two meals. A bolognaise then a bechemel and that’s before the art of the quantities and building the darn thing.

AIBU to feel so frustrated by this and not want to ever bother again. (Not going back to dolmio either)

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Gemmawemma9 · 07/06/2025 00:14

Shop bought lasagna tastes like shit. Dolmio is sugary, sweet, artificial crap.
I don’t eat lasagna often because it takes an age to make but it’s a proper treat when I do. Totally worth the effort! I always make a massive one so there’s leftovers for the next day…more bang for your buck 😉

cherish123 · 07/06/2025 00:11

ZiggyZowie · 06/06/2025 21:22

Buy Co-op Lasagne 2 for £8,

Bung one in freezer, eat other with garlic bread and salad

Done.

OP doesn't want to eat shop-bought ones as they are full of additives.

cherish123 · 07/06/2025 00:09

I usually make the bolognese in advance. I don't bother slow cooking it anymore so that takes about 20 mins. The bechamel takes a few minutes. Then a few minutes to compile everything.

longtompot · 06/06/2025 23:59

All that takes 2.5 hours for me is how long I cook the ragu for before assembling the lasagne.
It can take a while for bechemel to thicken but if you heat the milk up first it is much quicker. It really should only take max 15 minutes to make.
When I first started to make lasagne I did find it stressful and used a lot of pans and utensils. But it really is, in essence, a ragu and a white sauce.

Masmavi · 06/06/2025 23:28

It’s up to you. But in the return on investment you should factor in the fact that your lasagne is so much healthier than readymade food. Not to mention should taste so much better. But if you want to skip the bechamel (which should take about 15 mins tbh), mix the meat sauce with cooked pasta shapes, in a casserole dish with some cheese on top - tasty and easier than all the layering.

Morningsleepin · 06/06/2025 22:44

I'm sure the bechamel takes me ten minutes. I usually make a bolognese sauce and have it with spaghetti and freeze the rest. Then when I was to make lasagne I just need the bechamel. No trouble

suburburban · 06/06/2025 22:21

Bechamel sauce doesn’t take long, bbc recipe works.

meat cooks for 45 mins

I’m making it tomorrow

MrsSunshine2b · 06/06/2025 21:56

blanketsnuggler · 06/06/2025 19:27

Lasagna is good for hiding vegetables in too if the kids are fussy. Just chop whatever you have in the fridge up super small and chuck them in the bolognaise.

You can tell my lasagna is not authentic, but I do make from scratch. I usually do a cheese (roux method) sauce though. Or sometimes a Dolmio white sauce jar. And I use dried pasta sheets from a box. Does that still count as making from scratch?? 🤔

You can grate a carrot into the mince too, they never notice! And it helps cut the calorie count if that's something you need to consider.

Bearbookagainandagain · 06/06/2025 21:50

I cooked lasagna often, but depending on the time I have I would prep the sauces the day before or throughout the day.
I also batch cook the bechamel and freeze it. It doesn't take that much time to make, but it all adds up.

ZiggyZowie · 06/06/2025 21:22

Buy Co-op Lasagne 2 for £8,

Bung one in freezer, eat other with garlic bread and salad

Done.

buffyandspikeandfaith · 06/06/2025 21:06

This is the one I use
veg I do in a mini chopper so no chopping
Grate nutmeg and Parmesan while the ragu is cooking and tear up the mozzarella so it’s all ready to assemble

https://www.dontgobaconmyheart.co.uk/best-lasagne-recipe/

Simply The BEST Homemade Lasagne | Don't Go Bacon My Heart

This Lasagne is made with an easy Homemade Bechamel Sauce, a rich and tender Beef Ragu and Cheese as far as the eye can see. What's not to love?

https://www.dontgobaconmyheart.co.uk/best-lasagne-recipe/

LoveNRoses · 06/06/2025 20:59

No need for it to take 2.5hrs. One day make a big pot of bolognaise (maybe 1kg of mince) and have spaghetti bolognaise. Refrigerate the rest.

on lasagne day-
Two days later reheat bolognaise in microwave for 10-15 mins and while it reheats make the bechamel and preheat oven. Use fresh egg pasta sheets (don’t cook in water) and layer up your lasagne finishing with bechamel and grate Parmesan over and bung in the oven for 20- 30 mins. You can have home-made lasagne in less than 1hr and only 20 mins prep time. While it’s cooking, wash up the dishes so you only have the oven dishes and plates/cutlery to put in the dishwasher after

rainbowunicorn · 06/06/2025 20:58

JLou08 · 06/06/2025 18:13

Dolmio is pretty good in terms of natural ingredients, there are probably just as many additives in the one you cook from scratch if using butter. Just stick with the dolmio.

Nonsense have you seen the ingredients in dolmio white sauce it is full of crap. Do you actually know what butter is? The only additive in butter would be salt.

Making a lasagne from scratch
buffyandspikeandfaith · 06/06/2025 20:57

It takes me a while but mostly how long the ragu cooks for. But I do enough for 8 portions and freeze as I live alone
its so nice to come home to just reheat it and add some salad and garlic bread!
but I find cooking therapeutic

RosesAndHellebores · 06/06/2025 20:52

I do it by degrees. A huge vat of bolognaise with 2.5kg of Mince. Does a family meal of bolognaise - well simmered and prepared.

The following day I make the white sauce. Probably not authentic but milk steeped with bay, garlic and peppercorns. 2 pints. With cheddar and a pack of grated parmesan added.

Layer the bol, sauce and dried pasta sheets into three rectangular dishes. Bake and freeze two. Each one serves six.

It's about 90 mins of labour, tops, for 24 meals.

soupyspoon · 06/06/2025 20:48

Charlize43 · 06/06/2025 19:36

If it makes you feel any better Thomas Keller has a recipe for French Onion Soup (in Bouchon) that takes 8hrs just to caramelise the onions... Only for those very serious about food.

Well I was going to say, not 8 hours exactly, but when I do a sauce like this I cook the onions down for a very long time, 40 mins to a hour. Thats before the rest of the ingredients like tomatoes and meat, then that would cook a long time.

I wouldnt use a roux or bechemel, I dont like it, I just use cream and cheese or mascarpone and more cheese and I also dont care if Italians dont use cheddar, I love it, they only dont use cheddar because they havent got cheddar, but they still use a hard cheese.

Topsyturvy78 · 06/06/2025 20:24

SlaveToMyFanny · 06/06/2025 20:16

I don't understand how people can pop a lasagne out in 30mins when the mince / bolognaise takes longer than this to cook?

Think they mean to prepare.

FurForksSake · 06/06/2025 20:23

I always make from scratch, I take quite a bit of time cooking the ragu, but that just blips away for as long as possible or I do it in the pressure cooker. It’s a Saturday dish for us, something I can fuss over and leave to cook for as long as I want.

i also leave it Twenty minutes to rest before I serve it so it slices more easily.

the next day I like it cold with salad cream.

OneFineDay13 · 06/06/2025 20:21

My sister said stamina is needed for making a lasagne 🤣 it is quite a lot of work I do mine in stages

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/06/2025 20:20

BMW6 · 06/06/2025 20:18

Please - how do you use 2 pans to make the bechemel????

One for the roux and one to warm milk and infuse with an onion and bay leaf.

BMW6 · 06/06/2025 20:18

MontysMum909 · 06/06/2025 17:37

Agree 100% bechamel alone turns me into a hot mess with two pans needed.

Please - how do you use 2 pans to make the bechemel????

dottiedodah · 06/06/2025 20:17

I cook 1 1/2 Ibs of mince slow cooker with 2 tins Tom's, 3/4pint of beef sock mushrooms. Don't use onions .have a little garlic as well. Cook 5 to 6 on medium. I cheat a little with a ready made fresh sauce 2 tubs.layer up , fresh cheddar no parmesan ! I had Cancer last year ,so bought one or 2 m and s .very good .

SlaveToMyFanny · 06/06/2025 20:16

I don't understand how people can pop a lasagne out in 30mins when the mince / bolognaise takes longer than this to cook?

MellowPinkDeer · 06/06/2025 20:15

I made one tonight. Wa absolutely lush.

CleverMintHedgehog · 06/06/2025 20:14

Yes, always home-made for me. Recipe is from my late Italian step-grandmother and doesn’t use Béchamel sauce. Or any white sauce. About an hour to make the ragout (or I make it in the slow cooker), then just assembling and in the oven. Using just the lasagne platters, ragout, mozzarella, Parmesan and ham.

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