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Making a lasagne from scratch

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tangerinemagic · 06/06/2025 17:14

Does anyone actually see the return of investment of time and money here?

I spent 2.5 hours making one (before it even went into the oven). The bechemel sauce took an hour. I don’t know where the time went but melting butter was fast and adding flour but stirring in all that milk and keeping the thickness too forever and I still ran out for the top layer which was devastating (it’s a one layer lasagne). Grating 50g Parmesan to go in is a work out, that’s before the 75g of cheddar to go on the top of it all. I did have kids with me but I wouldn’t ever bother doing it again.

I grew up eating dolmio made lasagnes and that’s how I was taught but since knowing that’s not the right way and additives etc, I’ve just bought lasagne from the deli or restaurants if I go out. Shop bought Charlie Bingham is lovely.

2.5 hours is such a long time. Does anyone do this regularly? It’s like two meals. A bolognaise then a bechemel and that’s before the art of the quantities and building the darn thing.

AIBU to feel so frustrated by this and not want to ever bother again. (Not going back to dolmio either)

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Emmz1510 · 07/06/2025 18:22

You could always make the bolognese part and buy a bechamel sauce as a compromise? I always cook my bolognese long and slow anyway cos I think it tastes better but it doesn’t have to be done like that. And a bechamel shouldn’t take an hour.

BunnyLake · 07/06/2025 18:17

I stopped making my own lasagne a couple of year’s ago even though my kids liked them, I just lost interest in the rigmarole. I only have them in winter now and I buy it from M&S.

JillMW · 07/06/2025 18:11

TakingTheHorseToFrance · 06/06/2025 17:22

It takes me an age to do mine too. I infuse my milk with onion for the sauce. It's always fabulous and I make a massive batch of ragu when doing my lasange and use that for my meat layer. Then I can freeze portions of the ragu and lasange. I don't know if it's worth it but no way could I eat the jar sauces.

Similar for me, I do a big batch and freeze. My downfall is sometimes the labels fall off. One night we had baked tiramisu for tea as it looked remarkably like lasagne.

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 07/06/2025 18:11

Takes me a while but most of that is simmering. Also a lot of the time I cheat and make DH knock up a cheese sauce so really all I do is a bolognaise and some assembly then take all the credit 😁

suburburban · 07/06/2025 18:05

Mine’s bubbling in the oven

yes it is a bit faffy but definitely worth it

lilacmamacat · 07/06/2025 17:55

I never put white sauce between the layers, only on top. Waste of time, you can't taste it anyway.

murasaki · 07/06/2025 17:20

I put really finely chopped black pudding in my ragu, it may sound wrong but it's rich and lovely.

Jasmin71 · 07/06/2025 15:17

Make double the ragu.

Have half, as Bolognese that night.

Freeze the rest.

Make lasagne later in the week with the frozen portion. Then you only have one sauce to make on lasagne day.

DapperDame · 07/06/2025 15:02

All recipes take ages the first couple of times (or feel l I ke they do). You get better and quicker with practice. And the taste is so much better!

AntikytheraMech · 07/06/2025 14:47

Lavendersong · 06/06/2025 17:25

I make my lasagne from scratch.

The bechamel sauce takes 5-10 minutes with 1 pint warm milk and 50g butter 50 g flour with salt and nutmeg.
Meat sauce takes an hour then I leave it to cool.

i usually do 3 layers because I make it for DD

I was given a cookery book in 1989 by my sister. The cookery year. By readers digest.
The bechamel sauce is made by infusing milk with half and onion studded with cloves and a bay leaf or two.
Simmer for about 10 minutes.
The ragu is much better with white wine not red, include star anise and Henderson's or Worcestershire sauce. Add some full fat milk into the meat and it dissolves the tough gritty bits. Always use tinned tomatoes not chopped tomatoes.
Fry the tomato paste as that gives a lot of flavor. Be wary of stock cubes that may contain too much salt.
2 hours is not unreasonable. But you can make 10 portions and freeze the ones you don't use on the day.
No such thing as one layer lasagna lol.
And many people swear by plotting the pasta sheets but I find it a pain in the ass.
Hope that helps.

Poppy123xyz · 07/06/2025 14:26

Why no cheddar? try using italian cheeses like mozarella...

buffyandspikeandfaith · 07/06/2025 14:20

There’s a lasagne and a lasagne though
simmering for 10 mins isn’t giving you a delicious ragu - I’m not a snob but the longer it’s cooked, the nicer it is!

CorvusPurpureus · 07/06/2025 13:33

I was taught to add chicken liver (chopped fine it basically melts in) by a waiter in Naples Grin - he also insisted that you need a glug of milk in after browning the mince. Both do make it richer tbf.

However, I recently ended up with a large block of pate courtesy of Too Good To Go. None of us really like pate, so I've frozen it in stock cube portions & bung a couple in in lieu of liver. Saves a rather slippery gory chopping job, & tastes fab, so a useful hack!

caringcarer · 07/06/2025 13:33

ConstantCringing · 06/06/2025 17:18

I can knock up a lasagne in 30mins tbh. Don't think I could make it take 2.5hrs if I tried.

I was thinking the same. Betchemel sauce takes about 5-10 minutes and I grate some cheese into mine too. Mince cooks in about 8 minutes, drain then add a handful of herbs, squeeze of garlic puree, pinch of salt, and add 2 tins of chopped tomatoes. Stir about and simmer for 10 minutes then layer with lasagne sheets and the Betchemel sauce and sprinkle parmesan and cheddar on the top and serve with garlic bread. Last time I made it took me less than 40 mins from scratch to putting in the oven and I always make 1kg of mince so enough for second day too.

jeaux90 · 07/06/2025 13:28

Decent lasagna is a labour of love if you do it traditionally. Warm the milk leave a bay leaf in and make the filling properly with pork and beef with milk in etc. but it’s sooooo good.

Lovemedo345 · 07/06/2025 13:27

@tangerinemagic I hear you on the bechamel sauce! I have always always struggled with making the sauce and always found it takes me ages however I do it....but my mil showed me last week how she makes her white sauce just by putting cornflour and milk together in glass jug in microwave and heating for a minute, stirring with fork, sticking back in for a minute longer and so on till you get the consistency you want, it honestly Is a total game changer!!!

murasaki · 07/06/2025 13:12

mummytothree87 · 07/06/2025 13:11

Haggis, Venison and Wild Scottish Mushroom Lasagne

Haggis
Venison Mince
Crushed tomatoes or tinned is fine
Oyster Mushrooms, finely chopped (or shop bought)
Carrot, grated
Red onion, finely diced
Bramble Jelly
Tomato puree
Neeps, grated
Garlic, crushed
Dried mixed herbs
Fresh basil
Cream
Black Pepper
Whisky
Dijon mustard
Cream
Beef stock
Orkney Cheddar
Fresh Lasagne Sheets

  1. To make the tomato based venison sauce, add the onion, carrot, neeps, garlic, tomato puree, crushed tomatoes, Bramble Jelly, torn fresh basil and dried herbs to a pot, add a splash of water and seasoning, simmer for 30 minutes. Blend to desired consistency, taste, adjust seasoning.
  2. Brown the Venison Mince and mushrooms, add in the prepared sauce, reduce to thicken.
  3. To make the Whisky Sauce, add a knob of butter to a pan, a teaspoon of Dijon mustard, 3 tbsp of Whisky, double cream, a generous crack of fresh black pepper and a splash of beef stock. Bring up to heat and reduce to thicken, season to taste.
  4. Assemble the layers, alternating each layer (1 layer Whisky Sauce and Haggis then cheese, next layer Whisky Sauce and Venison Ragù then cheese, etc).
  5. Top with Scottish Cheddar and bake until golden.

That's the recipe I followed however I couldn't find Venison Mince so I used diced Venison and slow cooked it until it fell apart and it was great I found the recipe on Facebook.

Wow. I must hunt down some venison. Not literally, obviously!

mummytothree87 · 07/06/2025 13:11

Haggis, Venison and Wild Scottish Mushroom Lasagne

Haggis
Venison Mince
Crushed tomatoes or tinned is fine
Oyster Mushrooms, finely chopped (or shop bought)
Carrot, grated
Red onion, finely diced
Bramble Jelly
Tomato puree
Neeps, grated
Garlic, crushed
Dried mixed herbs
Fresh basil
Cream
Black Pepper
Whisky
Dijon mustard
Cream
Beef stock
Orkney Cheddar
Fresh Lasagne Sheets

  1. To make the tomato based venison sauce, add the onion, carrot, neeps, garlic, tomato puree, crushed tomatoes, Bramble Jelly, torn fresh basil and dried herbs to a pot, add a splash of water and seasoning, simmer for 30 minutes. Blend to desired consistency, taste, adjust seasoning.
  2. Brown the Venison Mince and mushrooms, add in the prepared sauce, reduce to thicken.
  3. To make the Whisky Sauce, add a knob of butter to a pan, a teaspoon of Dijon mustard, 3 tbsp of Whisky, double cream, a generous crack of fresh black pepper and a splash of beef stock. Bring up to heat and reduce to thicken, season to taste.
  4. Assemble the layers, alternating each layer (1 layer Whisky Sauce and Haggis then cheese, next layer Whisky Sauce and Venison Ragù then cheese, etc).
  5. Top with Scottish Cheddar and bake until golden.

That's the recipe I followed however I couldn't find Venison Mince so I used diced Venison and slow cooked it until it fell apart and it was great I found the recipe on Facebook.

murasaki · 07/06/2025 13:04

mummytothree87 · 07/06/2025 12:57

I made a venison and haggis lasagne the other week with a peppercorn sauce in place of the bechamel and that took about an hour and a half all in including sauces from scratch however I have been known to just use jars for if I need a really quick meal.

That sounds amazing.

Someone in here recommended a chicken Alfredo lasagna that I make quite a but that is also good.

Zippedydodah · 07/06/2025 13:03

tangerinemagic · 06/06/2025 19:09

That is the recipe I used. It came out as way too much ragu in the end. I also thought she said warm milk so was too scared to burn it, maybe needed to heat it first for longer. It was 750ml which took ages.

it does taste really good though, even if it is one layer as I ran out of bechemel and is a bit sloppy (too hungry to let it sit longer).

I won’t be defeated. My OP said I wouldn’t ever bother again but I will.

next time make the Ragu 2 days before. Make the bechemel a few hours before and let it cool down. Make it all totally cold and then cook, then let it cool down again.

As for DH he has apologised. Said it tasted amazing. I guess with kids things do reach boiling point. It’s a lot more stressful than being at work. Toddlers can say 15000 words a minute, usually the same thing over and over and over. It’s the definition of going insane :) both DCs in bed. Going for my second helping.

thanks for all your tips!! Can’t wait to try the next one. Will report back when I do. maybe will leave it a couple weeks.

I make the ragu in the slow cooker overnight, browning the mince beforehand. Make the béchamel in advance and use no cook lasagna sheets. Buy grated cheddar and Parmesan then just assemble sometime in the next couple of days.
Ragu is all the better for sitting for a couple of days in the fridge 😋

Nonbio46 · 07/06/2025 13:00

I haven’t read the whole thread but my helpful tip is for the béchamel ( cheese can be added for macaroni cheese). 500ml milk, 25g butter, 25g plain flour, salt and pepper. Mix in a bowl/ measuring jug ( it will be lumpy). Pop into the microwave for a minute at a time, taking it out and whisking around between each minute. Usually takes about 4 or 5 minutes in total. It will thicken up and voila, easy bechamel sauce. Sorry if this has already been mentioned. 🙂

mummytothree87 · 07/06/2025 12:57

I made a venison and haggis lasagne the other week with a peppercorn sauce in place of the bechamel and that took about an hour and a half all in including sauces from scratch however I have been known to just use jars for if I need a really quick meal.

FurForksSake · 07/06/2025 12:46

My ragu starts with carrots, onions and celery sticks. For a normal meal for four it would be 2 of each chopped into small dice (takes an age, but so worth it). These get cooked in a drizzle of oil for twenty minutes.

They then come out of the pot and the mince goes in. Either 500g of lean beef mince of a pork and beef combination. This gets browned and I add to it half a tube of tomato puree, 4 cloves of garlic, salt and pepper and dried herbs.

Once it has browned I add back in the vegetables, two tins of tomatoes, a beef stock pot and a red wine stock pot. I’ll add some extra water if it looks dry. I’ll then cook that down for up to two hours.

Stirring occasionally, but basically left alone. If when I want to use it, the sauce is to thin then I thinken with slaked cornflour.

Canshehavewaferthinham · 07/06/2025 12:41

'One Layered Lasagne' is my favourite insult for people misses point of thread

I will add, they shouldn't take that long OP. You've got some very good tips on here.

RosesAndHellebores · 07/06/2025 12:36

The joy of lasagne, and bolognaise, is that we all have use different ingredients and methods.

My bol for every kilo is:
1kg good quality Mince - browned in a hot pan with the fat drained
2 red onions
2 tins good quality plum toms (I find them richer than chopped)
A good squirt - just under half a tube of good quality puree
About 300ml of robust red wine
4 peeled garlic cloves - squashed in when they go soft
Three teaspoons dried oregano
Three bayleaves
Salt, black pepper
Simmer for about an hour - two if larger quantities used and if I make lasagne I always start with a much larger quantity.

Bechamel/cheese
1L semi skimmed
Brought to a simmer with 3 bayleaves, half an onion and 8 black peppercorns and left to cool - probs overnight
An inch of butter and a heaped tablespoon of flour
2 to three handfuls of grated mature cheddar
A vacuum pack of grated parmesan Shock
Salt and pepper to taste

Make a roux, add the milk gradually to get the right consistency, add the cheese and season to taste - it might not need salt depending on the saltiness of the cheese.

That would be enough for three layers of pasta sheets in a deep roasting tin. It would serve 8-10 - I'd freeze some for later in the week.

In reality if making lasagne it's usually when catering for many so I'd double the above and bake it in the turkey tin which takes four layers.

I do: meat, pasta, sauce - finishing with sauce and grated cheese (the ready grated 4 cheese packs are good for the topping).

There are no rights or wrongs if the end product is yummy.

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