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Making a lasagne from scratch

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tangerinemagic · 06/06/2025 17:14

Does anyone actually see the return of investment of time and money here?

I spent 2.5 hours making one (before it even went into the oven). The bechemel sauce took an hour. I don’t know where the time went but melting butter was fast and adding flour but stirring in all that milk and keeping the thickness too forever and I still ran out for the top layer which was devastating (it’s a one layer lasagne). Grating 50g Parmesan to go in is a work out, that’s before the 75g of cheddar to go on the top of it all. I did have kids with me but I wouldn’t ever bother doing it again.

I grew up eating dolmio made lasagnes and that’s how I was taught but since knowing that’s not the right way and additives etc, I’ve just bought lasagne from the deli or restaurants if I go out. Shop bought Charlie Bingham is lovely.

2.5 hours is such a long time. Does anyone do this regularly? It’s like two meals. A bolognaise then a bechemel and that’s before the art of the quantities and building the darn thing.

AIBU to feel so frustrated by this and not want to ever bother again. (Not going back to dolmio either)

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sussexman · 06/06/2025 18:16

TheBewleySisters · 06/06/2025 18:08

I just asked my DH, who is the cook in our household, and he makes the most fantastic lasagne from scratch. He says a good ragu takes about two hours to cook, and the béchamel is ten to fifteen minutes, and then maybe 20 to 30 minutes in the oven. HOWEVER, he very often makes the ragu the day before, saving time on the day of cooking, plus leaving it overnight develops the flavour.

Sounds about right to me, I (we) would typically make twice as much ragu as required for the lasagne, and then you can have another meal for the same effort, plus a bit of reheating the next day - we'd often do another pasta or rice.

Wolfpa · 06/06/2025 18:15

When I do a lasagna properly it can take me most of the day but it is not labour intensive and I normally have some bits prepared in the freezer. Last time I did one it took.

2 hrs to make the stock (Probably 5 mins of actual work the rest was just boiling away in the pan)
2 hrs for the ragu ( probably 15 mins of actual cooking)
20 mins for the béchamel
5 mins to assemble.

like previous posters I will make much more than I need and either freeze whole other additional lasagnas or just the ragu for future use.

you should try again, you will find it goes so much smoother the second time.

Gioia1 · 06/06/2025 18:15

Lasagne takes time. La besciamella no. 15 minutes.
The ragù is minimum of 2 hours cooking time.
And il soffritto is a must.

Bonjovispyjamas · 06/06/2025 18:13

I regularly make Lasagne from scratch. It can be time consuming, but is worth the effort. Shouldn't take an hour to make a bechamel sauce though. I know you probably don't feel like making it again, but you'll get better each time you make it. Sorry, but shop bought doesn't even come close.

TheKeatingFive · 06/06/2025 18:13

JLou08 · 06/06/2025 18:13

Dolmio is pretty good in terms of natural ingredients, there are probably just as many additives in the one you cook from scratch if using butter. Just stick with the dolmio.

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JLou08 · 06/06/2025 18:13

Dolmio is pretty good in terms of natural ingredients, there are probably just as many additives in the one you cook from scratch if using butter. Just stick with the dolmio.

WaltzingWaters · 06/06/2025 18:11

It is something I very rarely make for that reason. But blimey, 2 1/2 hrs seems extreme. A bechamel is really quick to make. If I do make one I’ll do a big batch of bolognese one day, then use the rest to put in lasagne the next, so it’s only the bechamel and putting it together I need to do.

UndermyShoeJoe · 06/06/2025 18:10

I give up making lasagna mines always too wet somehow. Maybe too much white sauce.

PickAChew · 06/06/2025 18:09

It is labour intensive. I used to make 2 at a time and freeze one.

Sorry your DH was such a dick, @tangerinemagic - egg and (oven) chips for him from now on.

feelingbleh · 06/06/2025 18:09

I use jars

ChocolateCinderToffee · 06/06/2025 18:09

Hugh Fearnley Whittingstall published his mum's recipe. It takes seven hours.

I can put together a lasagne in two hours and that includes cooking the meat sauce for 90 minutes. Bechamel takes me 15 minutes.

Waterweight · 06/06/2025 18:08

I do it & my mum/grandma did it about once a week max so I do think it's worth the effort

TheBewleySisters · 06/06/2025 18:08

I just asked my DH, who is the cook in our household, and he makes the most fantastic lasagne from scratch. He says a good ragu takes about two hours to cook, and the béchamel is ten to fifteen minutes, and then maybe 20 to 30 minutes in the oven. HOWEVER, he very often makes the ragu the day before, saving time on the day of cooking, plus leaving it overnight develops the flavour.

ZiggyPlaysGuitarrr · 06/06/2025 18:08

I hear you. I'm a really slow cook and a lasagne takes me a similar amount of time. I do it rarely as we do all love it properly homemade but I need to have a completely free afternoon. I've also never mastered the art of a non lumpy bechamel so I've given up trying now - just bung it all in the pan together, heat it up, give it a whizz with the stick blendet and then heat some more.

PiggyPigalle · 06/06/2025 18:08

I only ever use cornflour for sauces.
It doesn't need cooking to remove the floury taste and just behaves so much better than flour.
Also, it remains the consistency it's made at. If you reheat or keep something hot, with flour sauce it gets even thicker.
Cornflour is also gluten free, if having guests.

jjeoreo · 06/06/2025 18:06

tangerinemagic · 06/06/2025 17:14

Does anyone actually see the return of investment of time and money here?

I spent 2.5 hours making one (before it even went into the oven). The bechemel sauce took an hour. I don’t know where the time went but melting butter was fast and adding flour but stirring in all that milk and keeping the thickness too forever and I still ran out for the top layer which was devastating (it’s a one layer lasagne). Grating 50g Parmesan to go in is a work out, that’s before the 75g of cheddar to go on the top of it all. I did have kids with me but I wouldn’t ever bother doing it again.

I grew up eating dolmio made lasagnes and that’s how I was taught but since knowing that’s not the right way and additives etc, I’ve just bought lasagne from the deli or restaurants if I go out. Shop bought Charlie Bingham is lovely.

2.5 hours is such a long time. Does anyone do this regularly? It’s like two meals. A bolognaise then a bechemel and that’s before the art of the quantities and building the darn thing.

AIBU to feel so frustrated by this and not want to ever bother again. (Not going back to dolmio either)

Agreed, it's delicious, but not enough for me to make it at home. I like the cooking but the cleaning is too tedious. Plus my kids don't really like it.

Ophy83 · 06/06/2025 18:06

I love making nigella's lasagne of love! (with a few twists like some anchovies added to the ragu). It takes a while but it is all very easy steps - I put an audiobook on and it's really relaxing. And the kids can taste instantly that I've made that specific recipe, it's their favourite. It is absolutely enormous so the payoff is there is always plenty left over for another day when we are too busy to cook

NewsdeskJC · 06/06/2025 18:06

Make bog sauce.
Make white sauce. The key is to microwave the milk first to get it warm. Do not bother starting off with fridge cold milk.
Assemble 2 layers lasagne sheets/bog sauce. Top with all the white sauce and cheese_ I use emmental and a sprinkle of parmesan on the top.
In the oven for 40 mins. Leave to stand for 10 before serving.

OrangePineapple25 · 06/06/2025 18:05

Imisscoffee2021 · 06/06/2025 18:04

Lasagne is my go to simple easy meal that lasts a few days in portions! Maybe because its a vegetarian lasagne so meat takes longer, I use the usual veg and quorn mince. Yeah it takes time to cook but in terms of actual labour it's not much, as alot of it is oven time. I usually do other bits round the kitchen while stirring the sauce pot once it's all in.

Bechamel takes minutes, I do it after I've built the rest of the lasagne, though I use pre bought lasagne sheets. Then oven and voila, food for days!

Yes I make a huge one that feeds us for 2-3 evenings.

YourHeartyHam · 06/06/2025 18:04

Oh OP you are a hero for making lasagne from scratch while looking after two very young children on your own! I agree it's a massive faff.
I hope you enjoy eating it at least.

Buy Charlie Bigham's next time, it's expensive but worth it.

Garibald · 06/06/2025 18:04

I am compelled to advise many PPs that there is no letter i in the word bolognese.

Pootles34 · 06/06/2025 18:04

If I'm making Bolognese it takes so long I do an enormous batch. Part of the leftovers gets frozen for a lasagne, so then the lasagne isn't too onerous.

Imisscoffee2021 · 06/06/2025 18:04

Lasagne is my go to simple easy meal that lasts a few days in portions! Maybe because its a vegetarian lasagne so meat takes longer, I use the usual veg and quorn mince. Yeah it takes time to cook but in terms of actual labour it's not much, as alot of it is oven time. I usually do other bits round the kitchen while stirring the sauce pot once it's all in.

Bechamel takes minutes, I do it after I've built the rest of the lasagne, though I use pre bought lasagne sheets. Then oven and voila, food for days!

OrangePineapple25 · 06/06/2025 18:04

I always do the bolognese the morning of or night before in a slow cooker, ready made white sauce. Half and half here. I do prefer my own bolognese.

i do enough for 2x lasagne though and freeze the remainder.

That said - I often whip up a white/cheese sauce for cauliflower cheese and agree with PP it’s 20 mins max.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 06/06/2025 18:03

I make a large batch - 500g beef mince, do pork, cartons of chicken livers & cubed pancetta etc.
Takes about 30 minutes to sweat onions & brown meat, add the rest then leave for 2-3 hours with occasional forays into the kitchen to top up wine stir.
Freeze in portions. Lasagne sheets are covered with boiling water for 5 minutes, bechamel takes 10, than assemble.

It really doesn't take that long.