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Angry about lenient sentence for murder of elderly man in park

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Thomasina79 · 05/06/2025 18:38

7 years for the boy and three for the girl. This country is pathetic sometimes. A man lost his life while innocently walking his dog. Too sad

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sprinklesandshines · 12/06/2025 11:11

OonaStubbs · 12/06/2025 07:38

Surely people can just as easily be mistaken for killers if their anonymity is not lifted? Probably more easily in fact.

with this case we never knew what these killers looked like to begin with or who they were. So members of the public would not know what sort of appearance they were looking for. They can’t go round attacking every single person that looks the same age as them on release.

with Venables and Thompson people had a clear idea of what they looked like thanks to the photos. So people wandered round specifically looking for a white man who was older but had the features of the boys. Leading to loads of people getting falsely accused and a suicide

notedbiscuits · 12/06/2025 08:52

sprinklesandshines · 08/06/2025 13:25

There are so many reasons why they can’t do this, not just funding but most people probably including yourself not wanting to live next to prisons/ worried about safety.

Yeah - NIMBYs

OonaStubbs · 12/06/2025 07:38

Surely people can just as easily be mistaken for killers if their anonymity is not lifted? Probably more easily in fact.

sprinklesandshines · 12/06/2025 00:10

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 23:04

You're guessing wrong.

Well that is a relief, and that is why it’s generally a bad idea to out the identity of children/teens.

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 23:04

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 23:02

Ive outlined why this is a bad idea already but it also means people will be misidentified as them - someone killed themselves not long ago because people wrongly thought they were venebles. The man wasn’t Venables, had done nobody any harm and is now dead. But I’m guessing you support that

You're guessing wrong.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 23:02

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 21:55

Agree with that.

Ive outlined why this is a bad idea already but it also means people will be misidentified as them - someone killed themselves not long ago because people wrongly thought they were venebles. The man wasn’t Venables, had done nobody any harm and is now dead. But I’m guessing you support that

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 23:00

karoba · 11/06/2025 21:47

I think their anonymity should be lifted as well in the way it was for the killers of James Bulger.

This is pointless as both will be given new identities on the state if this is the case and innocent people related to them may be attacked when they are nothing to do with their scummy family member

doing this does nothing other than open up for these kids to be attacked then guess what whoever attacks them will be put inside

OonaStubbs · 11/06/2025 22:58

Something definitely needs to be done about crime in this country because it is getting out of control.

Dangermoo · 11/06/2025 21:55

karoba · 11/06/2025 21:47

I think their anonymity should be lifted as well in the way it was for the killers of James Bulger.

Agree with that.

karoba · 11/06/2025 21:47

I think their anonymity should be lifted as well in the way it was for the killers of James Bulger.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 21:28

kinkytoes · 11/06/2025 21:26

Clearly medicinal use for an individual not a criminal offence. You are patronising me and sound pretty naive yourself.

Cannabis causes mental health problems and in young people can lead to impaired brain function for life (I have family affected so I know this). If someone is growing and selling it (a dealer) then there should be a decent punishment for it.

You said generically “cannabis ruins lives” after I mentioned growth and possession in my list. Nowhere did I say dealing which is the lowest, so you evidently didn’t read my previous answers properly.

Greenfitflop · 11/06/2025 21:28

Just awful.
That poor lovely man.
A very upsetting case.

kinkytoes · 11/06/2025 21:26

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:53

I think that statement about cannabis really depends on what it is being used for. I’m aware it’s illegal however someone growing/ using it for themselves IMO shouldn’t be jailed. Someone pushing it on young children yes.

You yourself seem incredibly naive. You also can’t say people should go to prison for everything illegal then moan that the prisons should be full.

Clearly medicinal use for an individual not a criminal offence. You are patronising me and sound pretty naive yourself.

Cannabis causes mental health problems and in young people can lead to impaired brain function for life (I have family affected so I know this). If someone is growing and selling it (a dealer) then there should be a decent punishment for it.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 20:07

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 20:00

Same as the police, medical, fire brigade- all are tough jobs. Unemployed people need training options.

Absolutely but it has to be their choice in a job like this

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 20:00

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:54

My point still stands RE training. Not everyone is unemployed because they don’t wish to work at all however a job like being a prison guard is very mentally draining and can cause PTSD to people who are already victims.

Same as the police, medical, fire brigade- all are tough jobs. Unemployed people need training options.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:59

@kinkytoesepilepsy runs in my family. an extended family member uses it and finds it stops his seizures that result in status epilepticus. He has not yet been approved for medical marijuana as it’s a long wait. Should he go to jail?

I have epilepsy too personally it doesn’t stop my seizures but if it did I would gladly use it

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:54

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 19:36

Force ? I said to train people who are unemployed for the job.

My point still stands RE training. Not everyone is unemployed because they don’t wish to work at all however a job like being a prison guard is very mentally draining and can cause PTSD to people who are already victims.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:53

kinkytoes · 11/06/2025 19:36

These are not heavy punishments 🙄

And cannabis ruins lives.

All I can think is you have a fairly charmed life!

I think that statement about cannabis really depends on what it is being used for. I’m aware it’s illegal however someone growing/ using it for themselves IMO shouldn’t be jailed. Someone pushing it on young children yes.

You yourself seem incredibly naive. You also can’t say people should go to prison for everything illegal then moan that the prisons should be full.

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 19:36

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:19

Because you cannot force someone to work as a prison guard when they are terrified/ may be an ex victim themselves

Force ? I said to train people who are unemployed for the job.

kinkytoes · 11/06/2025 19:36

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:23

Tag, curfew, supervision order, community service.

in response to your last post if there isn’t enough room in jails to house everyone, and if there aren’t the funds nor people wanting jails built near them, not enough land for sale then there is a limit of options.

Stuff like cannabis growth and possession for example jail seems a bit extreme. Ditto people like that woman Lucy Connolly who tweeted that incredibly inappropriate tweet re Southport. Should’ve had a device ban annd curfew but that’s it imo. Another crime that I feel jail is unnecessary for is using counterfeit money. All these people should be punished but I feel aren’t a huge danger to society if properly managed with other types of punishment.

maybe you could privately fund a prison if you’ve got the spare cash. Would you mind if it was built in your road near your children or would that be different?

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These are not heavy punishments 🙄

And cannabis ruins lives.

All I can think is you have a fairly charmed life!

Whatevernext9 · 11/06/2025 19:26

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 15:25

You do realise people tend to own the land in the middle of nowhere it’s not a free for all. Prisons also don’t tend to be built rurally anymore as families/ visitors can struggle with access.

All new prisons have been built fairly rurally - too expensive to be anywhere else. No-one in power cares about families/visitor access, but it also has a knock on effect on staffing as everyone needs to have a car to get to work.

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:23

kinkytoes · 11/06/2025 18:54

What would you choose as a 'heavy punishment' that isn't jail? 🤔

Tag, curfew, supervision order, community service.

in response to your last post if there isn’t enough room in jails to house everyone, and if there aren’t the funds nor people wanting jails built near them, not enough land for sale then there is a limit of options.

Stuff like cannabis growth and possession for example jail seems a bit extreme. Ditto people like that woman Lucy Connolly who tweeted that incredibly inappropriate tweet re Southport. Should’ve had a device ban annd curfew but that’s it imo. Another crime that I feel jail is unnecessary for is using counterfeit money. All these people should be punished but I feel aren’t a huge danger to society if properly managed with other types of punishment.

maybe you could privately fund a prison if you’ve got the spare cash. Would you mind if it was built in your road near your children or would that be different?

Whatevernext9 · 11/06/2025 19:23

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 05/06/2025 19:20

No, of course not - that’s not what I said.

I’m asking why if their (younger) ages are used as a reason to see them as vulnerable, and therefore less culpable, why isn’t the victim’s age (elderly) also taken into account and used as an aggravating factor, given he was frail and unable to properly defend himself.

The victim’s age was taken as an aggravating factor, both in itself and in considering the culpability - both determine the sentence. I was also quite surprised at the girl’s sentence. I can’t think of a precedent. The boy’s was in line with similar cases.

https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/The-King-v-D1-and-D2.pdf

The King -v- D1 and D2

https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/The-King-v-D1-and-D2.pdf

sprinklesandshines · 11/06/2025 19:19

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 19:13

Why not train up unemployed people for the job? Or do you just want volunteers?

Because you cannot force someone to work as a prison guard when they are terrified/ may be an ex victim themselves

ButterCrackers · 11/06/2025 19:13

samarrange · 11/06/2025 19:03

I notice that the people who advocate for "lock 'em up on a deserted island and throw away the key" never seem to be volunteering to work as an officer in said prisons. Sometimes I think prison officers — who have, I think, the hardest job in the world — find themselves tainted by association with their charges.

But of course, what those people usually mean is "I wish this murderer/rapist could just be executed, to save us all a lot of hassle". And when you ask them about miscarriages of justice, hands are waved vigorously, because nobody thinks that they might be Peter Sullivan one day.

Why not train up unemployed people for the job? Or do you just want volunteers?