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To think council housing is really unfair??

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Helpmechooseausername · 05/06/2025 18:12

I totally get that some people need to be housed by the council, but AIBU to think that the system is abused - but it seems to be his the system works?

I know of two families who have lived in their council houses for years and raised their children there. They needed help when they first moved in, and so were quite fairly given council houses. But, now the kids have grown up and moved on. The parents both have got jobs, nice cars, holidays, go out for meals, etc., etc.. They can continue living in their council houses for the rest of their lives.

It seems massively unfair. Is it really not means tested?? Surely the houses should be given to other people who need them? How can it be right that they aren't told to move back into the private property market?

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

And yes, I'll admit that I'm jealous! I can't afford to do any nice things for my kids and I, despite working hard, and it seems to be because I chose to own my own home and get a mortgage instead of getting a council house!

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feelingbleh · 05/06/2025 19:16

I think its so hard because there isn't enough council houses so if they where only given why needed it would free homes up for people struggling but on the other hand to throw someone out of their home seems harsh. I do think when people are in a situation to support themselves the rent should go up to market rate. I know a family living in a council house 3 adults working full time, reasonably paid jobs and their rent is £350 a month, private rent in the same area for same sort of home is about £800/900.

pinkfoxcubs · 05/06/2025 19:16

In our area there are no longer secure tenancies only starter ones that are reviewed every 5 years I think. We were lucky to get one of the last secure lifetime tenancies with succession rights and I’m very grateful for it

Digdongdoo · 05/06/2025 19:15

5128gap · 05/06/2025 19:14

Not so. I see council tenants as a group of people with a specific set of rights under housing legislation that I don't wish to see removed to reduce a problem that could be solved by other means. I don't want them to have more rights than everyone else, I want everyone else to have the same rights as them.

That's a nice idea, but wouldn't be possible in any of our lifetimes. A more realistic solution will have to involve some level of shared compromise.

Andoutcomethewolves · 05/06/2025 19:15

Poopeepoopee · 05/06/2025 19:11

Council rents aren't miniscule, it's the private landlords that are ripping people off.

Yes this. Our housing association flat rent is less than a shitty ROOM in Bristol. I don't think we're underpaying, I think other people are being ripped off!

MarryMeTomHardy · 05/06/2025 19:14

I see it as a multi-faceted issue, but one thing that is clear is that in my area council rent is very far removed from private rent.
£1500 private rent for a 3 bed semi, I personally know a family, both work, 5 bed semi for <£600 a month...

arcticpandas · 05/06/2025 19:14

Blackbookofsmiles1 · 05/06/2025 18:29

Yes council tenants pay rent if they work, but let’s not pretend; the rent is minuscule compared to what rents are for others not so privileged to be a council tenant.

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Yes. One of my mum friends tells us she pays 200/month for a new built 3 room appt w her 2 girls and dp (who she did not declare or she wouldn't have gotten it). She lives very close to me. In our residence we got a family of four, both working ft in min wage jobs who rents a tiny 2 room appt for 1000/month. So yes, it does seem unfair.

LindorDoubleChoc · 05/06/2025 19:14

Yanbu OP, it is a deeply flawed system but the biggest flaw in the system is obviously the selling off. I believe it is at the root of most of our housing problems in the UK now, the generations below the Boomers (of which I am one) have been right royally screwed over.

Maggie Maggie Maggie, Out Out Out!

5128gap · 05/06/2025 19:14

yakkity · 05/06/2025 18:59

You seem to think council tenants should be entities to more than everyone else. More security. Less pressure to move. More rights.

even if they have risen to the point of being very comfortably off.

it’s weird.

Not so. I see council tenants as a group of people with a specific set of rights under housing legislation that I don't wish to see removed to reduce a problem that could be solved by other means. I don't want them to have more rights than everyone else, I want everyone else to have the same rights as them.

UndermyShoeJoe · 05/06/2025 19:13

Digdongdoo · 05/06/2025 19:10

I don't think that's true. Council flats are abundant almost everywhere. That people would prefer a house their entire life shouldn't factor into it.

I think it’s because most council flats are dire.

Stack em and rack em with maybe a gravel washing line area. Big rooms but nothing at all outside not even a one seat balcony or small grassed area.

More decent flats / apartments would encourage moves I think.

Covid has definitely also helped put people off having near zero outside space.

amylou8 · 05/06/2025 19:13

My partner has a council house. He got it when he came out of an abusive relationship as a single parent to a young child.
She's now in her 20s and long flown. He has a good job and earns a good salary. He still has the house.
It's his home and in his position I wouldn't give it up either, but morally, no he shouldn't have it anymore.

misssunshine4040 · 05/06/2025 19:13

I can’t afford to save a deposit to buy and have to privately rent which costs me a fortune.
I have been told it’s a year wait on the council list.
I work full time as a single parent and would love secure housing for me and my son.
I know people who have so much disposable income because they have very low rent bills and security.
It feels unfair

JohnnyLuLus · 05/06/2025 19:13

Property in this country is prohibitively priced, either to buy or rent privately. I don't know how people on minimum wage or thereabouts afford to live.
I don't begrudge people council housing, I just think we need more of it.

purpleygrey · 05/06/2025 19:13

They need to stop selling them off.
The rent needs to be inline with the area. Not ridiculously cheap. People would then move and free them up for people who need them.

LakieLady · 05/06/2025 19:12

Coffeeishot · 05/06/2025 18:29

Yes this, the street my parents live in, most of the council built houses are now privately owned, my dad didn't want to but their houses because he didn't agree with RTB.

My dad was exactly the same. They could have bought their house outright when my DF retired, but they didn't.

My DF wanted their house to go to someone who needed it, not someone who could afford it. And it did.

Andoutcomethewolves · 05/06/2025 19:12

It's meant to be a home for life. I get the annoyance when a single person is living in a 3/4/5 bed house as all their kids have moved out. But means tested? No. My DH has a HA one bed, he got it after many months of being homeless (literally, in a tent, no fault of his, his previous landlord evicted him as he wanted to sell and he couldn't find anything in this overpriced housing market that he could afford on NMW/zero hour contracts).

Technically we could afford to move out now but this is his safety net and I'd never ask him to give that up.

MaggieBsBoat · 05/06/2025 19:12

My sister and her husband have a council house they’ve had for nearly twenty years. Joint income of 75k. Rent of less than 250 a month for a 3 bedroom house. They’ve said they have to stay there so their kids will get the house when they die. The kids are grown up and so it’s them rattling around in a big, and objectively nice house with a garden at a time when that house could have kids in it. A family in need. My sister just laughs.

Poopeepoopee · 05/06/2025 19:11

Blackbookofsmiles1 · 05/06/2025 18:29

Yes council tenants pay rent if they work, but let’s not pretend; the rent is minuscule compared to what rents are for others not so privileged to be a council tenant.

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Council rents aren't miniscule, it's the private landlords that are ripping people off.

RareGoalsVerge · 05/06/2025 19:11

quocket · 05/06/2025 18:35

That’s what happens to private renters?

Which is why social housing is more ethical and appropriate for everyone who has reason not to take a mortgage.

ChampagneLassie · 05/06/2025 19:11

I completely agree, I know three people who live in council housing. One runs a successful business earns £100k+, flys business class, another both adults work FT and they run a successful business from home as a sideline and are racking it in, a third has a property overseas which she didn’t declare and is looking at private prep schools for her son. I’m guessing they’re not the norm, but I think it’s scandalous that there is no means testing once you’ve got it, set for life.

Branleuse · 05/06/2025 19:11

The council house i grew up in is now an HMO for students.

I dont understand why you would want older people to leave their homes and move into private rented. It would likely cost the country a lot more in housing benefit, so it would be pointless as well as cruel

MsBette · 05/06/2025 19:11

I’ve just sold my parents in law, council House. They bought it for 11.5K, and we’ve just sold it for 234k.

i think it’s fucking brilliant.

Gilead · 05/06/2025 19:11

we need teachers and police and nurses. Either we pay them a decent wage, or it goes with the job they get affordable housing
There are a significant number of HAs and LAs that already do this.

Digdongdoo · 05/06/2025 19:10

lifeonmars100 · 05/06/2025 19:09

thing is there are no one bed houses and very few council have one bed flats.

I don't think that's true. Council flats are abundant almost everywhere. That people would prefer a house their entire life shouldn't factor into it.

itsmeits · 05/06/2025 19:10

MyCyanReader · 05/06/2025 18:53

If private rentals had limits on the rent, you wouldn't have so many people requiring social housing as they'd be able to afford private rentals.

It would also allow people not to have to spend so much of their income on rent, and then be able to afford their own property.

I don't understand what you're saying about needing a housing management system and your customers with UC, ESA PIP etc... I didn't realise someone on £90k could claim UC or ESA.

Housing management system is what councils/housing associations use. Knows who's in each house, what they pay/owe, what the target rent/service charge will be if someone new moves it.

I completely agree private rents should be regulated also. Many of the people coming to be housed is due to private landlord attitudes of well my mortgage has gone up £400 so your rent is going up to cover it.

UC, ESA on £90k no, PIP yes - its not means tested.

Whippetlovely · 05/06/2025 19:10

TheBigFatMermaid · 05/06/2025 18:51

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

I must be doing it wrong because I pay full rent and have always done so. Please tell me where I get to "just come in and take without paying or queuing"!

Council (or housing association) houses aren't free! Those entitled to housing benefit, or uc with housing element get that whether they are in council,HA OR private rental!

Those who are not entitled pay rent in council, HA or private!

You may be paying full rent but your full rent will be a damn sight cheaper than someone else paying private rent. I think the system is totally unfair, why should someone in a council house pay hundreds less than someone in private and they could have the same income coming in. I dont blame you or any other council tenants but the system is flawed.
My sister has been living in a council house, shes been getting cheap rent for years and now she's bought the council house for nearly half the market value! I believe they are changing the scheme very soon as she just got in with getting such a large discount. It does take the piss when others are struggling to pay 1600 rents and no hope of getting a council property or mortgage while paying such high rates. I don't know what the answer is. I know landlords where tenants piss off and don't pay rent for months and they are thousands owed so I dont think it's the case of greedy landlords. Over inflated property prices perhaps.

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