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Started a new job that I hate and have been offered an interview

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Happyfeet82 · 05/06/2025 18:10

I’m in a bit of a dilemma and could really use some advice. I recently started a new job after a period of unemployment. I knew from the start it wasn’t an ideal fit, but at the time I was quite desperate and felt I needed to accept something.

Now, just one week into this new role, I’ve been offered an interview for a much more suitable position. The problem is, I have no idea how to attend this interview without raising red flags. Taking a sick day this early feels wrong and I feel it won't reflect well but I also don’t want to miss out on what could be a much better opportunity.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do I attend an interview when I'm still onboarding in a new role which requires numerous meetings a day. Any advice appreciated!

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Justchillinhere · 05/06/2025 18:16

Oops sorry I forgot I have a dental appointment, mammogram, whatever you feel, I'll take the morning/afternoon off as I can't miss it

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 05/06/2025 18:14

Fake a medical appointment? Although my place of work would want proof of that. Emergency plumbing/electrical situation at home?!

You can't take annual leave after a week unless you pre warned them before starting!

hopeishere · 05/06/2025 18:12

Take annual leave. Even a half day. Say it was for something arranged ages ago.