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Disproportional parking fines

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NameChangeParkingProblem · 05/06/2025 13:36

Feeling frustrated and need to vent. I’ve received multiple parking fines that feel excessive, and honestly, I’m barely holding it together.

First, the Dartford Crossing, which is £1 each way. I drove over the bridge for a holiday trip with my children, and made a mental note to pay later. I hadn’t given it thought prior to the trip, as I didn’t realise it was chargeable over and above road tax. By the time we got to the camping site, I totally forgot about the road fine. There was no payment barrier as there is for the Birmingham bypass.

Another is from picking up a friend from the train station. She had used public transport and had luggage which she couldn’t bring all the way to the car park, even with my help (heavy and she hurt her leg on the journey). I left her at the station and drove to the taxi rank to be able to put her luggage in my car. Then got a parking fine of £170.

Two other ones from broken payment machines, both of which I called the phone number on the machine and left a message. I missed the 14 day response deadline for both, because I’m super busy working full time while being here for my children. I really honestly don’t have time to prepare a defence, on top of everything else. So both attracted a £80 fine each.

I accept that I didn’t follow the rules and that the fines are legitimate. However, it’s just exhausting to try to get about life, and the fines themselves are very high.

Am I being unreasonable that parking fines are not proportionate? If so, can someone in government please take note, as I’m sure that there are many more people dealing with this. My salary isn’t high enough to support this, so I now tell friends to get a taxi; I don’t go out as much, etc.

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minnienono · 05/06/2025 16:53

The dartford crossing has had tolls since it was built, had tolls when I was a kid, it’s been barrier free for 10 or more years, it’s never been acceptable to park in a taxi rank either. The reason fines are disproportionate is to be a deterrent, if it was only £10 if you are caught let’s face it, no one would ever pay for pay and display unless it was camera operated, you would hope the warden doesn’t come around

murasaki · 05/06/2025 16:50

You should have set up the Dartford app with your card in advance, then you wouldn't have had to think about it. I made DP do it in case he needed to use it for work as I knew he'd forget. Same with the cc and tunnels across the Thames. It's part of planning a journey.

ShiningforLeeBertie · 05/06/2025 16:49

Set up auto pay for the Dartford crossing, I was always forgetting until the last minute as I'm often in a work car which is paid for on account,but with auto pay it takes the money the next day so you don't need to worry about it

NameChangeParkingProblem · 05/06/2025 16:48

The trouble is, I was driving. But the time I’d stopped driving, I’d already forgotten.

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MorrisonsPlatter · 05/06/2025 16:46

The Dartford charge is £2.50 one way for a car, so you're clearly away with the fairies half the time.

JacquesHarlow · 05/06/2025 16:41

and made a mental note to pay later.

You've proven that mental notes don't work sadly. I'm sorry to hear of the fines you paid, but I use the Tyne Tunnel regularly, and I set a reminder on my iPhone before I drive, to pay the next day. Have never had a fine.

I know we should have a peage system like France where you can buy a token, stick it in your window, and you get charged for the roads which require it etc...

But until then, I'm afraid you will need concrete, real, set reminders - there isn't really any other way around it. They hope you'll forget and they kind of bank on it.

Dbank · 05/06/2025 16:29

I know it's a right pain, but you'll probably be more careful in future, which is ultimately the point of the fines, to get people to comply.

WallaceinAnderland · 05/06/2025 16:23

You need to be more aware of what you're doing. Broken machines is not your fault but you knew you were not allowed to park in the taxi space. FAFO.

RareGoalsVerge · 05/06/2025 16:23

They are supposed to be disproportionate. They need to be high enough that they are unaffordable so that people who can't manage to follow the rules leave their car at home and use other transport options instead.

LordEmsworth · 05/06/2025 16:20

The fines are meant to deter people from breaking the rules - theyre not a price you pay in return for being allowed to do something, they're not meant to be proportionate. If you are not deterred then arguably they're actually too low...

HoskinsChoice · 05/06/2025 16:12

They are but if you don't break the rules, you won't get the fines. Only you can prevent yourself from getting these fines.

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