Partner just thinking he can bring his son to live with me

You weren't late; you just "had a feeling". Because you'd had sex during ovulation.

Seriously?

So the ex that you said this about:

I’m actually getting one because my ex has made my life a living hell, beat me to a pulp, beat me so bad I lost a baby and moved to a house opposite me and there’s pretty much f all I can do is it’s within his bail limitations and courts are full so waiting for a trial date could have me waiting a long time. Happy with those gory details or shall I expand further on how it’s affecting my mental health etc?

Oh my, I really feel for you.
planning & agreement to this situation with mutal understanding, respect & whilst you’re both in a good place, absolutely,
the fact you’ve just bagged your own safe haven, you work, your lovely dog & peaceful life, you guys weren’t in that place just yet & perhaps would happy living seperately for years to come. But to have your life upended with no consideration & effectively no place to retreat too, is massively mind blowing.
the son is going to have his own version of these type of chaotic emotions going on which of course will be magnified, plus not even the routine of school. Your BF is being a hugely selfish asshat. To you both. not only has he done this to his son, to you, your home, he’s shouting at the audacity he feels you apparently have to question why you could possibly be being quite so unreasonable.

maybe a walk out somewhere and give him a time line. Present to the council as homeless with the child , they’ll have emergency accommodation the same day or the child goes back to mum straight away & he goes to family/freind (not your responsibility) the ‘until he’s sorted something’ will eek out & you’ll feel obliged & resentful,

please put you first, they’re not your responsibility , you’ve done nothing wrong but are being taken advantage of x

Don't bother with any relationship you need sometime to be on your own. You don't know what love is. How long have they been in your life for and you love them. You need to love yourself and raise the bar. You deserve better than this.

If you won't re-home your awful bf and his son, think about rehoming your pet who no longer has a safe home.

He’s not going to be able to get his own place though is he. He doesn’t work (why?) so private landlords are not going to touch him.
why did he ‘lose’ his last place, and why do the other places keep falling through?
he needs to present himself as homeless to the council tomorrow. You don’t owe him a home.
if you don’t act now, this is your future sewn up, looking after a child and a man child financially, feeding them, paying for everything, childcare. Yep, he’s manipulated you into this and it’s up to you to get yourself out.

This man wants his son to stay with him do he doesn’t have to pay child support and can collect the benefits that his son is entitled to. He doesn’t actually intend to parent his child. He sees him as a source of income.

he sees the OP in the same way. She will provide a roof over his head, pay the bills and feed him.

OP the only way to resolve this is to break up with him. This is who he is. A user. You deserve better. You deserve that fresh start. Don’t let him take it away from you. Involve the police if need be.

She has an IDVA.

I don't think anyone can help you on here. Hopefully you will realise one day, I assume your trauma bonded to him, good luck

The man who beat you and caused you to lose your previous pregnancy?

Op you need to contact women's aid. You are still being abused. This is wrong

You'd done it. You got away, got your own place then let him in again. Not only did you let him in again, you're also trying for a baby.
What is wrong with you?

Surely that's a good thing? You will have your home to yourself again.

It sounds like it's for the best that you're not.

Even if the boy's mum isn't bothered that he's not been returned, you can bet his teacher and school will be. It's a huge safeguarding issue for a vulnerable child to be taken away from his home without notice to live in a different part of the country, and that's without the dad also being accused of domestic abuse by his partner, if he's the same person you've been trying to get away from. I'd expect the school to escalate it with social workers and even the police.

Problem solved.

It's the same partner...

She’s just posted and confirmed that she’s gone back to the same abusive partner. She’s back with the ex.

“Ok—bye.”

In a previous thread, OP refers to having an IDVA (independent domestic violence adviser) so I assume that she was previously in an abusive relationship. Unfortunately, she seems to have found another abusive partner.

I understand, although I’m glad you’re not pregnant and having to deal with that as well right now.

Please make sure your contraception is watertight if you stay with him, you might not be ready to end it now but when you are, every single one of us will help you. Our replies may seem harsh, but it’s only because we can see exactly what he is and how much better you deserve.

Lock the door and do not let him and his child back in, @Feelinglost10.

That is the only sensible thing for you to do.

How long ago did he break up with the child's mother? And how long have you guys been together?