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Grown man at cinema on his own

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Littlebluecreature · 02/06/2025 14:03

Watching Lilo & Stitch..is this odd?

Here with Dd, only one other family here…and this guy, munching on snacks..watching Lilo & Stitch

Is it just me 😂

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 02/06/2025 18:42

Maybe he lost a child and is gong to the movie for comfort?
Maybe he was denied kids movies/cartoons as a child and is making up for it?
Maybe he works in animation and was studying the film?
Maybe he worked on that film?
Maybe he was having a bad day and wanted cheering up?
There are a host of possibilities.

2025mj · 02/06/2025 18:41

WiddlinDiddlin · 02/06/2025 14:06

Theres no rules that say you have to watch animated films with a child...

Maybe he really likes animated films.

Maybe he has a cinema pass/membership that means he can watch as many as he likes each month, I have a few friends who have that and they'll often go and watch something daft by themselves just to get out of the house.

It's not even animated

katepilar · 02/06/2025 18:38

Of course it is a bit odd, just not necessarily meaning its bad.

Autie · 02/06/2025 18:35

HRTQueen · 02/06/2025 17:31

I do not think the time matters

its that children are there and they are not being watched by those trying to monitor them

And then a man with ill intent can just stand up in a cinema, unnoticed, walk over to a child and sit next to them, also unnoticed, because the parent is so into the film they wouldn't notice any of these things? I mean come on. Surely you know how ridiculous that is.

Coffeeismyfriend1 · 02/06/2025 18:33

Disney appeals to all ages. DH and I did Orlando for our honey moon at ages 31 & 33. We stayed in a Disney hotel and watched many of the live shows at Disney! Animated films appeal to all ages.

To be honest, unless it was an INSET day (which it may be for some) or kids have 2 weeks for half term (unusual but not unheard of) most kids aged over 5 would be at school today anyway, hence why it was so quiet.

butteredhorseradish · 02/06/2025 18:27

Oh and I went to see Willy Wonka on my own. I must be a weirdo too.

butteredhorseradish · 02/06/2025 18:26

God, I hope no one judged my late Dad for going to see Bob the Cat on his own, not long before he died. (Before Dad died, not Bob the Cat)
Dad had a wonderful trip out to the cinema, bought a load of snacks he wasn't supposed to be eating and cried his eyes out during the film.

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 18:17

GasPanic · 02/06/2025 18:08

Also you don't have to fight off anyone nicking your sweets and ice cream.

Those things are as expensive as gold dust.

😆 🤣 😂 very true!

BatchCookBabe · 02/06/2025 18:13

I agree @Wehadfireinoureyes I love a bit of Disney. (And I'm in my mid-late 50s.) I hate the snobbery and the judgement and the mockery and derision towards adults who like Disney. It really tells me everything I need to know about these people though.

Caramilky · 02/06/2025 18:12

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 02/06/2025 17:39

I wouldn't make a habit of watching Peppa Pig on my own, but I have to admit, I was a bit sad once my DS grew too old to be interested anymore, as I found it enjoyable too.

The news of Peppa's expected new sibling was all across adult-targeted media, including Mumsnet. Would little ones even be all that bothered about all the excited anticipation? Little kids aren't usually all that engaged in the prospect of new babies until they're actually born and physically here.

Grown adults with children, I haven’t seen any grown adults without children being excited about it personally and even then I’d wait till it came out online rather than looking odd booking a cinema ticket to be sat surrounded by screeching toddlers but maybe that’s just me

HRTQueen · 02/06/2025 18:11

Annascaul · 02/06/2025 18:08

Why? The kids will be accompanied by an adult and sitting down in the dark 🙄

I explained in previous posts

BatchCookBabe · 02/06/2025 18:10

Littlebluecreature · 02/06/2025 14:14

Ok wasn’t trying to be awful at all, wasn’t judging him, feel bad now.
I love going to the cinema on my own, it was just the kids thing, that’s all

I bet you judge adults who play video games too. Even though the vast majority of people who play them are adults. 🙄

Wehadfireinoureyes · 02/06/2025 18:08

This thread makes me really sad. So much judgement on what others may enjoy. I know it’s very cool on MN to hate Disney, based on the many, many threads stating that people would rather stick forks in their eyes than step foot in a Disney theme park, but believe it or not, Disney is marketed as family entertainment. This doesn’t just mean kids, but films for all the family.

To anyone who states that Disney simply make ‘kiddy movies’, I’d say try watching Toy Story, Inside Out, Turning Red, Soul…all, on the surface, ‘kiddy movies’, but as an adult watching them, the messages, themes, and emotions can’t even begin to be properly understood or appreciated by young kids. The creators of these films very much put these things in for adults. Hell, some of them even contain an adult joke or two! Kids get the bright colours, fun characters and interesting story, but there is a hell of a lot of depth in these films that are very much designed for the adults to appreciate, as it would go over most kids heads. Even the super popular with the kids films like Frozen, Moana and yes, Lilo and Stitch, have messages in that adults can appreciate much more than children.

All of this is, in a sense, completely irrelevant, as a man can absolutely go to the cinema on his own and see anything he wants, but I don’t even think it’s necessary for posters to be making comments like ‘maybe he’s ND’, ‘maybe he has nostalgic reasons for seeing it’, ‘maybe he’s lost a child’ etc etc. While any of these could be true, many ‘kids films’, Disney in particular, contain more than enough depth to be perfectly entertaining for adults too, without them needing a ‘special reason’ to see them. That’s why there are so many ‘Disney adults’…they have appeal to all ages, for all sorts of reasons.

GasPanic · 02/06/2025 18:08

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 17:57

Don't let ignorant people put you off. I find solo cinema going is great. Nobody takes any notice of you. The poor bloke minding his own, business watching the film, probably didn't even notice the nosey OP watching him.

Also you don't have to fight off anyone nicking your sweets and ice cream.

Those things are as expensive as gold dust.

Annascaul · 02/06/2025 18:08

HRTQueen · 02/06/2025 18:04

No of course my suspicions will not always be correct (and neither will I know if they are or not)

Cinema with a Disney film on is exactly the place where some would like to be

or like i said before it could be a man who just enjoys watching films that are aimed at young children

Edited

Why? The kids will be accompanied by an adult and sitting down in the dark 🙄

Iheartmysmart · 02/06/2025 18:08

I’m in my late fifties and bloody love a kids film, not Peppa Pig though! I probably go to the cinema at least once a week on my own to see something. Off to see Lilo and Stitch later and am looking forward to the new How to Train Your Dragon.

I remember my grandad being a huge Disney fan and would always try and persuade one of us grandkids to go to the cinema with him as he was worried people would think badly of him if he went alone.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 02/06/2025 18:06

OonaStubbs · 02/06/2025 18:00

I would find it unusual if a grown man was watching something like Peppa Pig on his own. A childrens film with no adult appeal.

Just a grown man? Or a grown woman too?

viques · 02/06/2025 18:05

OonaStubbs · 02/06/2025 18:00

I would find it unusual if a grown man was watching something like Peppa Pig on his own. A childrens film with no adult appeal.

How do you know it had no appeal to him? He might , for example, be a student of film and interested to compare the two versions, or he might be a person with a learning difficulty who enjoys watching films on a big screen in a cinema but finds it hard to follow adult dialogues or story lines.

HRTQueen · 02/06/2025 18:04

SouthLondonMum22 · 02/06/2025 17:56

I can understand why working with sex offenders will automatically make your mind go there but it doesn't mean that it will always be the correct assumption either.

Especially when talking about something like a cinema involving Disney, not hanging round a school or something where adults without children simply don't need to be.

No of course my suspicions will not always be correct (and neither will I know if they are or not)

Cinema with a Disney film on is exactly the place where some would like to be

or like i said before it could be a man who just enjoys watching films that are aimed at young children

Pigtailsandall · 02/06/2025 18:03

Lol surely this is a troll thread? I live in London amd there's just as many single viewers as families or couples at most screenings

DH and I love movies but since our dc was born nearly 6 years ago we've never once been together. We go separately all the time though, and often see the same film and then talk about it. I usually go after the adverts and I'm the first person out, so it's hardly a social occasion.

I feel like this is an odd parallel universe. Did you see The Lobster one time too many, OP?

OonaStubbs · 02/06/2025 18:00

I would find it unusual if a grown man was watching something like Peppa Pig on his own. A childrens film with no adult appeal.

CoffeeAndCakeBringMeJoy · 02/06/2025 18:00

I lived in another country for a while in my early 20s, and regularly went to the cinema alone, as watching films in another language was a good way to support me in learning the language of that country. This man could be learning English and using cinema trips as a way to while away a couple of hours whilst out and about, and also try to boost his language skills.

Pollyanna87 · 02/06/2025 17:59

Just leave him be. Some people really, really love films and like to see everything.

Lavenderflower · 02/06/2025 17:57

No there nothing wrong with this.

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 17:57

Whiskyfromsmallglasses · 02/06/2025 15:47

People like you are the reason I haven't plucked up the courage yet to go to the cinema on my own. Seperated from my husband of 23 years and finding my way on my own is tough. There is loads I want to try on my own but don't due to fear of judgement

Don't let ignorant people put you off. I find solo cinema going is great. Nobody takes any notice of you. The poor bloke minding his own, business watching the film, probably didn't even notice the nosey OP watching him.