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Cyclist gesticulating wildly at me

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FrankyGoesToBollywood · 02/06/2025 08:49

On the school run this morning which involves driving down a narrow winding lane which is always very busy at school run time. The lane is wide enough for two cars but it’s tight. There are three schools on this route and at school drop off and pick ups times it’s busy and congested. It’s 30mph. This morning I was driving along at about 25mph and a man dressed in serious looking cycling gear was cycling. I overtook him with quite a bit of space, definitely more than the 1.5m minimum, and as I was overtaking I could see a car coming towards me so nipped in in front of him- again definitely more than 1.5m from him. My windows were closed but I could then hear him shouting wildly “what the F was that!!” Over and over again and gesticulating. I didn’t indicate. I’m worried he will report me he was going wild, I genuinely thought I was driving quite considerately until I saw his reaction!

I’m now second guessing how close I was to him when I pulled in in front of him, and thinking he will report me and upload footage. If so how likely is it I will hear about it or be prosecuted?

OP posts:
MRSRUDEBOX · 02/06/2025 17:09

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 17:03

Ok I admit I find the majority of them a nuisance. For instance it annoys me when cyclists are on a busy dangerous road holding up traffic when there is a clear cycle path alongside.

Probably full of broken glass n dog sh1t.

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 17:03

MoominUnderWater · 02/06/2025 16:57

Honestly the anti cyclist feeling on mn never fails to amaze me.

cyclists are entitled to ride side by side, they are entitled to talk to each other and they can cycle in the middle of their side of the road too (and sometimes it’s safer to do so to prevent dangerous overtakes).

but all of this is irrelevant to the OPs situation as the cyclist in question was doing none of those things. So your post does nothing apart from demonstrating your general dislike of cyclists and your willingness to slag them off over imaginary transgressions.

Ok I admit I find the majority of them a nuisance. For instance it annoys me when cyclists are on a busy dangerous road holding up traffic when there is a clear cycle path alongside.

nomas · 02/06/2025 16:58

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 02/06/2025 16:43

Running on pavement (at speed), going through red lights, not stoppping at stop signs. Just some examples. Someone in my family was actually injured by a cyclist on the pavement - and they didn’t even stop!

How many people are killed by cars each year vs how many are killed cyclists?

I don’t even own a cycle but the posts here are crazy.

MoominUnderWater · 02/06/2025 16:57

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:53

Cycling in the middle of the road, Cycling alongside friends chatting, they think they rule the roads which will anger some road users (not me!!) And cause stress/accidents.

Honestly the anti cyclist feeling on mn never fails to amaze me.

cyclists are entitled to ride side by side, they are entitled to talk to each other and they can cycle in the middle of their side of the road too (and sometimes it’s safer to do so to prevent dangerous overtakes).

but all of this is irrelevant to the OPs situation as the cyclist in question was doing none of those things. So your post does nothing apart from demonstrating your general dislike of cyclists and your willingness to slag them off over imaginary transgressions.

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:53

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 02/06/2025 16:43

Running on pavement (at speed), going through red lights, not stoppping at stop signs. Just some examples. Someone in my family was actually injured by a cyclist on the pavement - and they didn’t even stop!

Cycling in the middle of the road, Cycling alongside friends chatting, they think they rule the roads which will anger some road users (not me!!) And cause stress/accidents.

MoominUnderWater · 02/06/2025 16:52

Chiseltip · 02/06/2025 15:08

Cyclists are so bloody selfish, they choose to play their little hobby on a public road, creating a nuisance and inconveniencing others, then they get all upset when someone overtakes them, behaving in a threatening and abusive manner. We need to start reporting Cyclists for their behaviour.

I don't know of any other hobby that’s played on public roads.

Don't worry OP, I doubt the little man child you passed will report anything.

Cycling should be banned on public roads.

Who says the cyclist in question was partaking in a “hobby”. At that time in the morning it’s far more likely it was simply transport. So it’s as silly as me saying that a car driver is doing their hobby of driving cars on a public road and we should ban that! 🤣🤣

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:51

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 16:42

😆 🤣 I wonder if Jezza's team are behind this one and the car ownership thread 🤔

😂

nomas · 02/06/2025 16:50

Cutting in when you’re just a couple of metres ahead of a cyclist is insanity.

He would have had to brake to avoid you crashing into him from behind.

Badly done, OP.

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:50

southerngirl10 · 02/06/2025 16:37

Cycling has become a protest against climate change. Wake up, have breakfast, put your helmet on and hope one those b*d cars or vans comes near enough to get them on camera. One less car off the road, done my bit for climate change.

Come within two metres of me when I'm cycling, I dare you!!

All hail King Jeremy!!

Edited

Yes i agree! And I stand by my original post 'entitled' possibly back down on moron!!!! It's all Boris's fault!!

southerngirl10 · 02/06/2025 16:44

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 16:42

😆 🤣 I wonder if Jezza's team are behind this one and the car ownership thread 🤔

I hope he wasn't the cyclist in question. Then again...

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 02/06/2025 16:43

spicemaiden · 02/06/2025 16:12

Can you give some examples of how cyclists put people at risk?

Running on pavement (at speed), going through red lights, not stoppping at stop signs. Just some examples. Someone in my family was actually injured by a cyclist on the pavement - and they didn’t even stop!

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 16:42

southerngirl10 · 02/06/2025 16:37

Cycling has become a protest against climate change. Wake up, have breakfast, put your helmet on and hope one those b*d cars or vans comes near enough to get them on camera. One less car off the road, done my bit for climate change.

Come within two metres of me when I'm cycling, I dare you!!

All hail King Jeremy!!

Edited

😆 🤣 I wonder if Jezza's team are behind this one and the car ownership thread 🤔

GRex · 02/06/2025 16:40

I’m now second guessing how close I was to him when I pulled in in front of him, and thinking he will report me and upload footage. If so how likely is it I will hear about it or be prosecuted?

What's a bit worrying here is your reaction. Your second guessing is about what might happen to you. Things to think about:

  1. What if it had been 1m instead of 1.5m so he went into the back of your car and was killed or severely maimed?
  2. What if the accident happened in front of all the kids?
  3. Why did you overtake at all when it was clearly unsafe to do so?
  4. What if a child had run into the road when your reactions are all over the place like this?
  5. What if he had had a kid riding a bike in front of his who you couldn't see until you started overtaking?
  6. What if the driver on the other side was going faster?

Which might lead to more constructive thoughts like these for the future:

  • Try to drive at 20mph or below, as recommended by most local authorities for school roads, given that you know the area is always congested and full of kids.
  • Do some deep breaths, calm down, and travel slower until you reach safe passing places, rather than execute dangerous manoeuvres.
southerngirl10 · 02/06/2025 16:37

Cycling has become a protest against climate change. Wake up, have breakfast, put your helmet on and hope one those b*d cars or vans comes near enough to get them on camera. One less car off the road, done my bit for climate change.

Come within two metres of me when I'm cycling, I dare you!!

All hail King Jeremy!!

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 16:30

Flashahah · 02/06/2025 15:47

Laid back… 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yes, I can understand your shock at seeing a trait you're unfamiliar with. You're definitely a cyclist.

Dinnerplease · 02/06/2025 16:27

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:18

😂😂😂

There are 18,000 cycle trips a day along Embankment in London. 'No-one' ha.

Blackdow · 02/06/2025 16:24

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:15

Just another wee point to raise on the anger thing, I really dont like the idea of a woman on her own with children being shouted at and aggressively sworn at.

Oh give over. Then maybe the woman on her own with children shouldn’t have put them in danger whilst almost taking out a cyclist.

The OP thought she was driving safely. She thought that she had given plenty space when nipping back in. It’s his reaction that has educated her. She needed to see how dangerous it was, and how much is scared the cyclist. Otherwise, she would still be thinking that it is safe to pull in front of a cyclist as king as you’re 1.5 meters ahead of them. There absolutely needed to be a reaction for the OP to learn here.

agestagerage · 02/06/2025 16:23

Chiseltip · 02/06/2025 15:16

Why should car drivers have to worry about cyclists, if cyclists had half a brain they wouldn't play their hobby on public roads.

perhaps car drives should be banned, the roads weren't built for cars

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:18

Chiseltip · 02/06/2025 15:18

90% of cyclists are lycra clad middle aged men pretending that they're in the Tour De France.

Almost nobody commutes by bike, and the guy in the OP's post wasn't commuting, he was just playing his little hobby.

😂😂😂

MyLimeGuide · 02/06/2025 16:15

Just another wee point to raise on the anger thing, I really dont like the idea of a woman on her own with children being shouted at and aggressively sworn at.

spicemaiden · 02/06/2025 16:12

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 02/06/2025 15:34

Of course not!
Sorry English is not my first language.
I was commenting that cyclists seem to express their annoyance at others (drivers, pedestrians) in a way that would make us think that they are themselves very respectful of the rules. Which is not the case.
I would even say that the only group (drivers/cyclists/pedestrians) I see disobeying the rules every single time I’m outside are the cyclists.

My point is that they seem to systematically and vocally complain about drivers and it seems that they just want make a point. Because of they were genuine about road safety, why would they themselves put others at risk so often?

Can you give some examples of how cyclists put people at risk?

Brefugee · 02/06/2025 16:10

Chiseltip · 02/06/2025 15:16

Why should car drivers have to worry about cyclists, if cyclists had half a brain they wouldn't play their hobby on public roads.

well i cycle to work. That's hardly a hobby.

faerietales · 02/06/2025 15:47

rosemarble · 02/06/2025 15:45

OK - Chiseltip is clearly being a GF

Yep, I would just ignore if I were you!

Flashahah · 02/06/2025 15:47

Dangermoo · 02/06/2025 15:02

Much easier to be laid back than behave like a dog with a bone. This is clearly a wind up thread anyway and you've taken the bait.

Laid back… 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

rosemarble · 02/06/2025 15:45

OK - Chiseltip is clearly being a GF

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