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AIBU- pulling someone up on snarky comments.

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Guttyyyyyyyyy · 02/06/2025 07:57

So I work and DH is retired. We have a dog. I work 4 days a week . On the days I work DH walks the dog in the morning and I walk it in the evening. My days off we swap it around.
There is a group of dog walkers that meet in the morning. One man thinks its hilarious to ask if Ive enjoyed my sleep in/ lazy day/ sending DH out while I relax ect.
every single time I see him. 2 years of me just ignoring him / saying I work ect.
I work in a unit that deals with palliative care. Yesterday was a bloody hard day.
So this morning he said it must be nice to laze about on a Sunday and send DH out so I let him have it with both barrels - told him ( in rough terms) what my day consisted of. That I was up and out by 6am. Long drive. The realities of my job.
He was silent. Got home and his wife has watsapped to say Ive upset him !@@.
AIBU to think he deserves it.

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Original poster
Guttyyyyyyyyy · 02/06/2025 08:05

Guavafish1 · 02/06/2025 08:03

I think you over reacted

Why do you think that? Genuine question, not being argumentative.

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Barrenfieldoffucks · 02/06/2025 08:05

I would just answer "I agree, thank you ❤️"

babystarsandmoon · 02/06/2025 08:05

Guttyyyyyyyyy · 02/06/2025 08:03

Thank you. I was slightly worried that my menopausal rage had taken over. DH agrees with you all . She has just put a message on the watsapp group #Be Kind.
Oh the irony 🙄

In that case I’d shame them back in the group.

TheSlantedOwl · 02/06/2025 08:05

He deserved it.

Say he’s been upsetting you for two years.

DontTouchRoach · 02/06/2025 08:04

Oh, he absolutely deserved it and his wife can fuck off.

Original poster
Guttyyyyyyyyy · 02/06/2025 08:03

Thank you. I was slightly worried that my menopausal rage had taken over. DH agrees with you all . She has just put a message on the watsapp group #Be Kind.
Oh the irony 🙄

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babystarsandmoon · 02/06/2025 08:03

He 100% deserved it and I would be telling them that in my reply. Tell her you’ve had to listen to his shit for god knows how long and he needs to keep his weedy little sexist mouth shut.

BluebellCrocus · 02/06/2025 08:03

He deserved it

Guavafish1 · 02/06/2025 08:03

I think you over reacted

K0OLA1D · 02/06/2025 08:01

He deserved it and I'd tell his wife the same

EnterFunnyNameHere · 02/06/2025 08:00

He deserved it. Feel free to message back the wife and say he's been upsetting you for the last 2 years going on and on about it even when you've been politely trying to shut him down each time!

Agix · 02/06/2025 07:59

He deserved it.

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