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I was evicted from a WhatsApp group with grown women!

68 replies

THEP0PE · 31/05/2025 19:56

I feel like a bloody child. Big group of women, 15 of us. Met online but had met a few of the women IRL. Can’t think of anything I’ve done to offend anyone. We chatted every day then out of the blue, three of us just got chucked out. No conversation, no explanation. I really valued their friendship too.

OP posts:
JemimaPiddlepot · 31/05/2025 20:39

Ask why.

Tophoncho · 31/05/2025 20:37

There are known issues with WhatsApp groups. But best to ask the group admin

ButteredRadish · 31/05/2025 20:31

What are you expecting us to say, op? We don’t know why

smellyhouseelf · 31/05/2025 20:30

My daughter was accused of removing people from a group on WhatsApp. Her phone was switched off in my room when it happened and she was away at her grandparents. We never figured out how it happened but it caused a drama at the time.

MyRootinTootinBaby · 31/05/2025 20:25

If you genuinely haven’t done or said anything to upset them, then ask. What if they’re thinking you’ve just exited?

MzHz · 31/05/2025 20:22

Caterpillarmama · 31/05/2025 20:18

Ask.

and set up your own WhatsApp group. Invite anyone from the other group you want to be in yours.

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Caterpillarmama · 31/05/2025 20:18

Ask.

and set up your own WhatsApp group. Invite anyone from the other group you want to be in yours.

KrisAkabusi · 31/05/2025 20:15

Why are you asking us instead of someone in the group?

BallerinaRadio · 31/05/2025 20:11

Use your words and ask them?

Koazy · 31/05/2025 20:09

Ask one of them

Springtime43 · 31/05/2025 20:08

We don’t have the answers OP, but other members of the group will!

LivingDeadGirlUK · 31/05/2025 20:06

Have you asked why?

Tagyoureit · 31/05/2025 20:05

How do you know it was just 3 of you chucked out?

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 31/05/2025 20:04

My first guess would be that one person has been spreading lies. I’ve seen it before. I don’t know what these people get out of it, but they turn friends against each other.

Mulledjuice · 31/05/2025 20:03

Sometimes WhatsApp updates can do funny things. I would definitely ask why!

pengwing · 31/05/2025 20:03

Did you advertise some sort of MLM?

RedRobyn24 · 31/05/2025 20:02

Can you message the person who admins the group directly and ask them what happened?

HappyLols · 31/05/2025 20:01

Have you asked the group leader why?