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A 'Wifey' on DH's phone. And its not me.

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Needsomeadvice2234 · 30/05/2025 22:27

Real simple - snooped on DH phone and found a 'Wifey' saved in his contacts - he called this number unanswered a month ago but no history I can see. I called it and rang out then phoned right back. Like an idiot I hung up. Now I'm thinking I should call and find out who the Hell this is....
I'm feeling very sick and scared and just want to bury my head in the sand because I can't believe this...
I have the number. Do I call and find out or ask him first. I'm shaking.

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ShesTheAlbatross · 30/05/2025 22:42

I agree with just asking him.

If he’s having an affair (which I assume is your concern), saving the OW’s number as “wifey” would be a really bold move.

Stripeyanddotty · 30/05/2025 22:39

Just ask him.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 30/05/2025 22:32

Of course you should ask him first.

He's the only person that owes you an explanation.

Itsrainingthankgoodness · 30/05/2025 22:32

I would call the number OP