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in wanting to ram my neighbour’s leaf blower where the sun doesn’t shine?

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sweetkitty · 30/05/2025 20:50

I know I’m tired, menopausal, in chronic pain and I also have an infection from where I had a tooth removed so I’m extra grumpy right now but hear me out.

My across the fence neighbour is using his leaf-blower yet again, yes 8:45pm on a Friday night he has nothing better to do than suck up leaves from his garden. 9am Sunday morning he is at it, one warm sunny day he was either leaf-blowing or pressure washing ALL day. The thing is there’s a small under 2 year old who lives next door to him and another baby across from him why would you do this?

He also whinges about my and the other neighbours trees, mine are cherry blossoms do even though we have trimmed them so none of them are close to his fence sometimes for that one week in May some of the cherry blossom gets in his garden. He also does annoying things like water his garden whilst I have a dry washing out in the evening, wetting my washing. He also has a large dog he locks out the house and the poor thing barks at the patio doors. Oh and then I hear him and his wife screaming at each other all the time. He sounds obnoxious.

But it’s the leaf/blowing that grinds my gears, he needs to get another hobby!

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MummoMa · 31/05/2025 22:38

Whatafustercluck · 31/05/2025 14:07

We use it to get the dropped leaves from the neighbours' privet hedge out of our slated/ grevelled corner so I don't think a rake would do it. Besides, the way I see it, we don't make a fuss about their privet hedge growing over the fence and into our garden (we've nicely asked them to cut it back a bit but they haven't) so they can put up with 15 minutes of leaf blowing noise about once a week.

That's quite reasonable.

We have a leaf vacuum but not a leaf blower. Can't possibly rake the rockery. Not every area can be raked. It's probably only used once or twice a season though.

IwasDueANameChange · 31/05/2025 18:16

Your neighbours 2 year old is definitely not still sleeping at 9am on a sunday in May. No self respecting 2 year old is, that kid has been up since 5 and thinks the leaf blower is brilliant.

Whatafustercluck · 31/05/2025 14:07

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 31/05/2025 11:33

just get a rake and put your neighbours out of their misery.

We use it to get the dropped leaves from the neighbours' privet hedge out of our slated/ grevelled corner so I don't think a rake would do it. Besides, the way I see it, we don't make a fuss about their privet hedge growing over the fence and into our garden (we've nicely asked them to cut it back a bit but they haven't) so they can put up with 15 minutes of leaf blowing noise about once a week.

Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 13:09

DollopOfFun · 31/05/2025 12:14

i remember my first day back in the office after the pandemic, couldn't hear ourselves think during a meeting due the on-off roaring outside. I stood up and looked out the window clearly annoyed, and the gardener was stood there, leaf blower in hand, eyeballing right at me like 'yeah. I'm blowing leaves bitch. What you gonna do about it'.

I don't even notice it anymore, clearly I'd just gotten used to the quietness of WFH!

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DollopOfFun · 31/05/2025 12:14

i remember my first day back in the office after the pandemic, couldn't hear ourselves think during a meeting due the on-off roaring outside. I stood up and looked out the window clearly annoyed, and the gardener was stood there, leaf blower in hand, eyeballing right at me like 'yeah. I'm blowing leaves bitch. What you gonna do about it'.

I don't even notice it anymore, clearly I'd just gotten used to the quietness of WFH!

ifIwerenotanandroid · 31/05/2025 12:07

Bearhunt468 · 31/05/2025 11:17

I use a leaf blower/muncher thing as otherwise the leaves are all mulchy and my baby can't crawl around without trying to put half of them in her mouth. And jet wash my AstroTurf as dog poos on it and sometimes even after picking them up it leaves a little bit of mess, before kids play out there on a sunny day/having company over for a BBQ. Probably only takes 10 mins in total and always after 9am. I didn't realise they were so hated by people! Once a year at the beginning on summer I'll also jet wash the patio and trampoline ready for the summer so that takes longer but really is once a year.

All this description needs is a hot tub & a set of wind chimes, & you've got the perfect MN-hated garden.😂

It doesn't have a cat in it because the cat's in a neighbour's garden using a flower bed as a litter tray, killing songbirds & eyeing up the food it can see through the kitchen window.

Womanofcustard · 31/05/2025 11:44

A friend who lives in an area with spread out properties and large gardens is driven mad by ride-on lawnmowers. He says they just ride around all day on them. Nothing better to do, and their way of avoiding their wives (who are probably thankful to get them out the house).

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 31/05/2025 11:37

Bearhunt468 · 31/05/2025 11:17

I use a leaf blower/muncher thing as otherwise the leaves are all mulchy and my baby can't crawl around without trying to put half of them in her mouth. And jet wash my AstroTurf as dog poos on it and sometimes even after picking them up it leaves a little bit of mess, before kids play out there on a sunny day/having company over for a BBQ. Probably only takes 10 mins in total and always after 9am. I didn't realise they were so hated by people! Once a year at the beginning on summer I'll also jet wash the patio and trampoline ready for the summer so that takes longer but really is once a year.

I don’t think anyone begrudges the occasional use of garden tools it’s the ones who use them all day every day that are a pain.

Teajenny7 · 31/05/2025 11:34

Thank you. Just signed it.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 31/05/2025 11:33

Whatafustercluck · 31/05/2025 10:39

Oops. I use a leaf blower, but i don't think I'm an antisocial leaf blower user. Between the hours of 9 and 5 is OK isn't it? And certainly not for extended periods.

just get a rake and put your neighbours out of their misery.

Weekmindedfool · 31/05/2025 11:26

That’s quite a list you have there….

AtomicPumpkin · 31/05/2025 11:26

GreenCandleWax · 31/05/2025 08:32

Mine too. And if its not the leaf blower (what leaves at this time of year?), its the pressure washer, the loudest grass mower in history, or multi-decibel chain saw. He actually has a collection of the noisiest power tools ever.

Substitute penis. One's not enough for some men.

Holly485 · 31/05/2025 11:22

Oh we have a neighbour like this, he doesn't suck or collect any leaves up he just spends hours blowing them all into the road. He's just an all round arsehole though.

Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 11:19

I used to use a rake when I had a lawn. Is that not something anyone does anymore? How did people with children cope in the days pre leaf blowers/jet washers?

Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 11:18

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“He’s probably OCD” - and he’s probably just an inconsiderate arsehole.

Bearhunt468 · 31/05/2025 11:17

I use a leaf blower/muncher thing as otherwise the leaves are all mulchy and my baby can't crawl around without trying to put half of them in her mouth. And jet wash my AstroTurf as dog poos on it and sometimes even after picking them up it leaves a little bit of mess, before kids play out there on a sunny day/having company over for a BBQ. Probably only takes 10 mins in total and always after 9am. I didn't realise they were so hated by people! Once a year at the beginning on summer I'll also jet wash the patio and trampoline ready for the summer so that takes longer but really is once a year.

Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 11:12

GreenCandleWax · 31/05/2025 08:32

Mine too. And if its not the leaf blower (what leaves at this time of year?), its the pressure washer, the loudest grass mower in history, or multi-decibel chain saw. He actually has a collection of the noisiest power tools ever.

All of those and an angle grinder (used purposely on beautiful sunny days, the utter bastard).

Springtimehere · 31/05/2025 11:11

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Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 11:10

pontivex · 31/05/2025 10:28

What I would give for the noise of a humble leaf blower! My neighbour spent all winter cutting down trees and branches and has a massive house size pile of them. She has purchased a diesel generated wood chipper and spends every weekend feeding branches through the fucking thing.
It starts up around 10 am
CHUGACHUGACHUGACHUGACHUCHUCUCUCUCUUCUCCUUCUC
Branch goes in
CHHHHWWEEEAAAAAAAAWWWAAAAAASSSCCGGHHH

Repeat until sundown with a short break for lunch. She wears ear defenders while doing it it is THAT loud. In 6 weekends she’s barely made a dent and I’m ready to feed her though the cocking machine.

How many trees are/were there?? And why? I love trees.

Nousernamesleftatall · 31/05/2025 11:10

Yanbu. My neighbour has a gardener whose first task of the day is blowing the leaves near my boundary.

pictoosh · 31/05/2025 11:07

Leaf blowers are an absolute menace and so completely unnecessary.

Slatterndisgrace · 31/05/2025 11:07

Redpeach · 31/05/2025 10:53

What do leaf blowers actually do, just blow leaves into piles?

edited I think so. A neighbour up here has a vacuum for his.

SpecduckularlyQuackers · 31/05/2025 11:05

Your neighbours sound incredibly annoying but I'm not sure what the problem is with occasional, appropriate leafblower use. We're surrounded by large trees and if we didn't do something about the leaves in autumn our garden would be slimy mush for months. We leafblower them into a big pile, run the mower over and bag them up to make leafmould. Without the blower it takes flipping forever.

GreenCandleWax · 31/05/2025 10:57

pontivex · 31/05/2025 10:28

What I would give for the noise of a humble leaf blower! My neighbour spent all winter cutting down trees and branches and has a massive house size pile of them. She has purchased a diesel generated wood chipper and spends every weekend feeding branches through the fucking thing.
It starts up around 10 am
CHUGACHUGACHUGACHUGACHUCHUCUCUCUCUUCUCCUUCUC
Branch goes in
CHHHHWWEEEAAAAAAAAWWWAAAAAASSSCCGGHHH

Repeat until sundown with a short break for lunch. She wears ear defenders while doing it it is THAT loud. In 6 weekends she’s barely made a dent and I’m ready to feed her though the cocking machine.

Consider getting a solicitor to write a letter complaining about nuisance. "Nuisance" in its legal meaning is something that prevents another person having the quiet enjoyment of their home. That might make her a bit more aware of need to be considerate.

Also, have you looked into whether the trees were/are protected, either by Tree Preservation Orders or by being in a conservation area? Can be checked out with local council. If protected and the work is being done without council permission, she's breaking the law, and work should stop, also she should get a fine.

Redpeach · 31/05/2025 10:53

What do leaf blowers actually do, just blow leaves into piles?

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