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To think that this is an odd way for the police to operate?

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ThreeNinjas · 30/05/2025 09:50

About seven weeks ago I had to report a crime to the police. One of our employees had been systematically stealing money from us over a period of weeks to the tune of several thousand pounds. I won't go into all the details, but basically he confessed to us at the point where he knew he was likely to be caught very soon because he was unable to replace the money or hide the evidence that it was him. When he realised the game was up he decided to confess.

We sacked him, obviously. He apologised, blamed personal problems and promised to repay the money as soon as he could.

I was told when I reported the crime that as he'd admitted it in writing (he sent me a long text explaining why he'd done it and exactly how much he'd stolen) and was not on the run it was a low priority/low urgency case but that he would be arrested and charged. Fair enough. I informed the employee that he should expect a call from the police as we would be pressing charges. He was expecting that and said he would cooperate fully.

I was then asked to give a statement over the phone about 4 weeks ago (yes it took another three weeks from reporting the crime and being given a reference number to be asked for a statement.)

I'd heard nothing since. Until this morning. At 6am my phone rings, wakes me up, and I ignore it because it's from an undisclosed number. But a voice mail is left.

It's the police officer dealing with the case. He was ringing me at SIX A.M IN THE MORNING to tell me that the ex-employee had just been arrested earlier that morning and was now in the station awaiting interview.

WTAF? If it's such a low priority, open and shut case, where the person has confessed to a relatively minor crime and had not absconded, why would they not just phone him and ask him to come to the station for an interview? Was it really necessary to knock on the door and wake the whole family up in the early hours of the morning?

And was it also necessary, having waited seven weeks to arrest the man at all, to wake me up to tell me about it? Confused

OP posts:
toomuchfaff · 30/05/2025 10:10

Ring ring - Hello, its the police, would you mind awfully coming into the police station we need to charge you for a crime.

Yes of course, I'll be there before the end of day ..

absconds....

Do you think possibly this could ever happen? Yes of course it does.

Let them do their job.

Thelnebriati · 30/05/2025 10:07

They might have previously asked him to go in for a voluntary interview and not heard anything from him.

ChessieFL · 30/05/2025 10:06

People are more likely to be at home early in the morning so easier to arrest them then rather than later in the day when they may not be home (which then potentially gives the person a heads up that they’re about to be arrested so they can abscond).

Yes they could have called you later in the day but it’s probably easier for them to just do it while they’re dealing with the case, it might get forgotten/missed if left until later.

SummerHouse · 30/05/2025 10:04

I agree OP. It would seem more appropriate for him to come in for voluntary interview but perhaps there is more to it?

pinkdelight · 30/05/2025 10:00

It was low urgency as he’d confessed but he still stole thousands so it’s fair enough to arrest him that way rather than politely invite him in. He’ll probably get off lightly so there’s no harm making some part of the process a deterrent or he’ll try his luck again. Agree with PP that police work 24/7 so they did the case when they got to it rather than waiting for a busier time for them that would be more convenient to the criminal.

ViciousCurrentBun · 30/05/2025 09:59

Friends DS is a police officer, he has many ongoing cases plus it’s a 24 hour service. It will have taken this long because that the first chance they have had to process it. Calls that are threats to life always take priority that’s why stuff like this and burglaries are not treated as urgently as any of us would like. They shouldn’t have rung you at such an early hour but I can't get worked up about a criminal being arrested at any of the time day or night. He spends most of his time dealing with DV, MH issues and missing people, everything else has to wait. I know the police are not exactly loved on MN but they are seriously under funded and without them it would be carnage and survival of the fittest.

Pootles34 · 30/05/2025 09:59

Makes perfect sense to me - I guess they have officers working at night anyway, if they've no urgent cases on they'll work on yours?

Fastingandhungry · 30/05/2025 09:58

The crime was reported, it’s been reviewed and allocated, the person has been arrested. But just not at the hours you find convenient?

takealettermsjones · 30/05/2025 09:54

This is a strange issue to have tbh. The police work around the clock. You wanted him arrested, he's been arrested. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's their business how they do it, surely?

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