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To wonder if people were actually healthier when everyone smoked

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Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:11

(I have never smoked and used to hate going to bars etc that stank of smoke so this is a very against my own interests question but)

Smoking makes people thinner (it just does)

Cigarettes can be good for people with anxiety

Smoking is a social activity and social connection is good for health

Should we try and get a tiny bit more going?

(Not me I still don't want my hair to smell)

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ZaZathecat · 29/05/2025 22:51

I don't believe that if everyone was given 'permission' to smoke again it would stop the overeating. Also, don't forget the effects of passive smoking on other people, especially children. It was not a good experience being a child in the 60s surrounded by smoking adults.

mathanxiety · 29/05/2025 22:49

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

You are confusing correlation with causation.

People ate sensible portions, didn't spend the day snacking, and got more exercise back then.

It was also fine to point and stare and mock fat people. There was a lot of pressure to be thin. Women in particular were always dieting (Slimcia bread anyone?)

chocolatelover91 · 29/05/2025 22:48

Octavia64 · 29/05/2025 21:13

No.

it gives people cancer

My father in law died of cancer last year and didn't touch a cigarette in his life! This is a stupid statement!

HeyWiggle · 29/05/2025 22:48

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

It has more to do with minimal screens, properly active lifestyles, minimal processed food

Vinvertebrate · 29/05/2025 22:47

Something like 97% of smokers don’t get lung cancer, but that’s not really the point - there are so many other health risks associated with smoking.

JasmineAllen · 29/05/2025 22:45

Theunamedcat · 29/05/2025 22:22

I mean of we could take away the bad things about smoking like the smell and the way it literally kills you then you might have a point

Also having a mouth like a cats bum 😂

Giftser · 29/05/2025 22:45

I get what you are saying OP. My parents smoke. Of their siblings they are the most mobile (due to significantly lower weight). However I think they are sadly heading into the danger decade. So life expectancy will likely be less.

Of my peers; I smoke. But not many of my friends are overweight. We are all equally mobile and functioning. I am sure they are much healthier than me, and when I (if!) reach my parents age I am sure they will be much much healthier than me.

So I get what you are saying. But it’s not that smoking is healthy. It’s that obesity is in many ways can be worse than smoking.

ZaZathecat · 29/05/2025 22:44

YABU because they may have seemed healthy at the time but the number of older people with COPD due to smoking as well as heart disease and lung cancer is enormous

Cadenza12 · 29/05/2025 22:43

I've pondered this. Back in the day the message was the one thing people could do to improve health was to stop smoking. Now few people smoke but we're more unhealthy than ever. I wonder which is the lesser of two evils.

Rockhopper1 · 29/05/2025 22:40

Nobody would smoke if they really understood what it’s like to die from any of the many diseases it causes .
The very idea that people who smoke could be healthier is horrific to those of us who have watched people dying from the effects of cigarette smoking . My very first nursing job in a hospital when I was 17 was caring for a man dying of lung cancer . Day by day he had less and less surface area in his lungs which could take up oxygen . He effectively drowned slowly and made me promise him ( between horrific gasps ) that I would never smoke & I would tell people about him .
No one who has worked with patients suffering from head & neck cancer , as I went on to do ,would ever suggest smoking was better for people’s health . Such cancers and their treatment are the stuff of nightmares.
My Mum is currently dying from right sided heart failure caused by exposure to secondary smoke at the moment after running a pub for many years . My grandfather died of oral cancer & my father of bladder cancer - primary cause of both - smoking . Horrific deaths .
The tobacco companies suppressed the info re cancer for profit for as long as they could .
Utter wickedness .

GoldPoster · 29/05/2025 22:39

Of course there were some fat people in the 50’s 60’s and 70’s, but watch any documentary from that era but you’ll be shocked how thin people were in general.

Also the current wave of obese children, teenagers and younger adults haven’t reached old age yet, so we’ll have to wait and see. Life expectancy is bound to fall though.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/05/2025 22:37

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 22:14

Most people can't get mounjaro, though.

Yes they can.
Online pharmacies all sell it.

PawsAndTails · 29/05/2025 22:35

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:19

In the 70s about 3/4 of men smokes (look it up)

They're certainly not all dead now

My father smoked a lot and he's aged early 70s now. He's always had problems with obesity. On the whole, he's probably been lucky to have not had more serious problems, but it's caught up with him in later years. He stopped smoking about three years ago due to COPD. Smoking is never a good idea.

Smoking probably did help him cope with his undiagnosed neurodiversity and anxiety, but there are other ways of doing that, just as there are other ways of dealing with his weight issues.

It also affects my memories of him as a father. If there wasn't money for food, there was always money for smokes.

mumda · 29/05/2025 22:35

Theyreeatingthedogs · 29/05/2025 21:18

Have you been smoking weed OP? Smoking makes you thinner when you get lung cancer. UPFs, sugar, takeaways and ready meals are the things making people fatter, not a lack of smoke.

Smoke and you wouldn't be able to afford takeaway.

MalcolmMoo · 29/05/2025 22:35

My job is to price life insurance. When we underwrite one of the key questions is are you a smoker because your life expectancy is so significantly reduced when a smoker. So the statistics and don’t seem to be agreeing with your theory…

Anonymouseposter · 29/05/2025 22:35

I’m in my early 70s. I knew several thin people who smoked. Knew is the operative word, they have sadly died. Some of my more chubby friends are still enjoying life quite happily. Of course the healthiest neither smoked nor were significantly overweight but smoking was definitely the biggest predictor of poor health and early death.

misssunshine4040 · 29/05/2025 22:34

Smoking is absolutely NOT good for people with anxiety and is one of the many reasons quit. Your heart rate increases and exacerbates anxiety symptoms

SquashedMallow · 29/05/2025 22:34

There are some benefits to smoking (reduced appetite, reduced weight generally, boosted metabolism) beneficial to some people with mental health problems such as anxiety.

However, the cons by far outstrip any pros.

Alcohol is now to what cigarettes was then. In a couple of decades alcohol will be something only "old people" do too. (Thank god)

TomatoSandwiches · 29/05/2025 22:34

2025ismybestyear · 29/05/2025 22:31

Except in France they've banned smocking in nearly all public places.

You can always count of the French for style 😂

2025ismybestyear · 29/05/2025 22:31

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:16

And in countries where a lot of people still smoke (France, Spain) the population is a lot healthier than in lardarse Britain

Except in France they've banned smocking in nearly all public places.

NaeRolls · 29/05/2025 22:31

No. I smoked for years. I'm overweight and suffer from anxiety. Nicotine addiction increases anxiety. I was always in a state of withdrawal and needed to smoke to relieve the nicotine cravings and anxiety. When it was the nicotine addiction causing the anxiety in the first place.

I quit a few years ago and am healthier and calmer now.

Aposterhasnoname · 29/05/2025 22:30

Ah yes, people weren’t fat in the 70s when more people smoked so the two are definitely connected.

Did you also know alcohol makes you immune to electrocution? Tis true, in the Middle Ages everyone drank beer or wine cos the water was bad, but hardly anyone got electrocuted.

4naans · 29/05/2025 22:28

Why do you see addiction to food as a moral failing but not addiction to cigarettes?
Is it about aesthetics? You think smoking looks cool and fat people don't?k

Cherryicecreamx · 29/05/2025 22:28

Have to admit, made some good connections in smoking shelters when I used to go out!

GanninHyem · 29/05/2025 22:27

Yes, smoking to to blame.for obesity, not the other massive lifestyle factors that have shifted in the past 30+ years 🙄

Enjoy fishing OP?