To think that women (or men) who drop their kids off at school in PJS, go shopping in Tesco in pj's and come down to the breakfast in a hotel in pj's are wrong in the head?

Your post says so much more about you, but if you don’t care what people think of you… 🤷🏼‍♀️

The people who are commenting on someone popping out in PJs are the ones coming across as really nasty, bigoted, unintelligent snides.

You really have no idea what someone has going on in their life, and why they are dressed as they are.

I wouldn’t wander round the supermarket in my jammies, or catch a bus, or even walk my kids to school, but I don’t judge someone who does. It’s not my place to judge other people’s choices. It’s not yours either.

As I said, I’m clean, hygienic and hardworking. A lot of the time, the hours of 08:00 - 16:00 (or a variation of), are my “overnight sleep” hours. I bet if I got to sleep at midnight, and had to set my alarm for one am to pick up one of my children from work, or again at four am to take one of them to work, a twenty minute round trip, I wouldn’t be classed as “slobby, lazy etc etc” for jumping in the car in my pjs and going back to bed. It’s no different to me doing it at 08:45 or 15:00.

I choose to prioritise my sleep over what any ignorant minded person might think of me.

Ooh do I get extra points for being slovenly, grim, chavvy, and trampy?
This morning, I’ve ventured out in my PJ bottoms and Ugg boots. I’ve filled the car up with petrol and now I’m sitting in my car eating a McDonald’s breakfast. And I’m vaping. And on the way home I have an Asda click and collect to pick up.

However, I rushed out the house at 3 o’clock this morning to be with my boyfriend who had just spent the night in a&e watching his father die, and the last thing on my mind was getting changed. He was also in his pj’s so I’ll let him know to find a change of clothes before he gets a taxi home. I’m sure he doesn’t have anything else on his mind.

From working in schools this is also my experience.

When I see this my instinct is to wonder if they're OK rather than sneer at them for being "lazy" and "slovenly".

Mumsnet HQ are fine with the C word. They don’t mind discriminatory terms related to Romanis.

And class discrimination isn’t (yet) unlawful. We can all sneer at and prejudge the working classes.

It’s slobby and says something about the people that do this. But, if they have no pride in themselves, then it’s up to them. 🤷‍♀️

Ah, thanks LaLoba. Now it all makes perfect sense 👌 well he found his audience. Hope those women are proud of themselves for facilitating his misogyny 👏

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SaggyBollocksMan got bored of having his arse handed to him on the Femist board and came over to AIBU. Over there he was calling women right wing fascists, now he’s just unleashing his contempt for women.

I'm a big believer in cleanliness in public, so I'd rather see people in clean pyjamas doing the school run/in Tesco (some people have 'day' pjs), than straight out of bed but wearing proper clothes. But in a hotel it's more likely that the people at breakfast in pjs have literally just got out of bed and I agree with you that it's grim and inconsiderate to the people around them. I'd make an exception for children though.

It's basic manners to have a shower and get dressed, so you are clean in public.

Reminds me of this: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/8484116.stm
I don't know why anyone would go out in pyjamas during the day. I did it once on the small hours of the morning but had a coat and boots over the top. I don't have kids but would never do the school run in pyjamas and don't remember ever seeing it when I was kid, my Mum wouldn't have dreamed of it. I saw a woman just last weekend walking across Morrisons carpark clearly wearing pyjamas, slippers and a dressing gown, where are these people's self-respect?

I once saw a mum drop older child off at school with younger child in pram. Kid you not, mum was wearing a dressing gown with remote control in one pocket, babies bottle in the other.
We left that school.

It wouldn’t offend me at all- assuming they are appropriately covered up- but I do think it’s very lazy

I always put on (day) clothes to leave the house. I don’t always style my hair or put make up on though. I never wear jewellery except rings. And I think it’s unreasonable to suggest that we should. That is personal choice.

Where have you stayed and seen ‘lots’? I’ve stayed at plenty of different hotels and thankfully goodness have never seen anyone coming down to breakfast in their pyjamas. I’m surprised hotels don’t ban it. It’s a thoroughly grim, chavvy thing to do - no apologies for using the C word. Same goes for shopping or school run in PJs.

Unless they’re nice Muslim ladies - who are criticised for not going bareheaded.

Or for wearing an overcoat (abaya) when they leave the house.

piss smelling old homeless looking man

What a lovely way to describe a vulnerable member of society.

Why does it bother you for what someone else is wearing?

Apparently I’m not presentable as I don’t wear makeup or jewellery - never have.

I reported it yesterday.

Not to mention people have worked shift for decades, but only recently have people felt the need to walk around in their PJs, so this isnt about shift work, its about not giving a toss.

Well the goady thread is still standing. What horrible posts this thread has attracted. The language in the thread title seems to have unleashed a frenzy of judgemental, snobby attitudes. BTW, to describe someone as being "wrong in the head". Just have a good think about that.

It actually just makes me feel a bit cold if I ever see someone out with PJ bottoms on! They’re inside clothes surely unless it’s an emergency much better to get some proper clothes on

But unless you're wearing "nice" clothes and jewellery you'll still fall way below OP's standards 🙄

I agree. I don't feel ready for the day if I don't get dressed.

I've reported your post by the way for its disgusting ableism. Any amount of jewellery won't hide your bigotry 🤷‍♀️