To think that women (or men) who drop their kids off at school in PJS, go shopping in Tesco in pj's and come down to the breakfast in a hotel in pj's are wrong in the head?

Sensible approach. Though isn’t this the point? Not everyone wears PJs in bed.

Some people wear shorts and a vest. Or joggers and a t-shirt. So how does anyone know people are wearing (to breakfast in an hotel, on school run or in supermarket) clothes they’ve slept in?

Is it OK as long as it’s not identifiable sleepwear? When most of the criticism about wearing PJs is about wearing clothes you’ve slept in.

You'd ask a hotel for a refund because a guest came down in PJs??

What an earth do you expect the hotel to do about it, throw them out? (after allowing them time to dress so as not to offend your delicate sensibilities, of course)

Seriously, I think you might need a bit more to occupy your mind...

When I am in a hotel, I'm really not interested in the clothing of people I don't know. Of course I can see them, but I am hardly forced to sit looking at them, even if they are on the next table. I am focussed on my own food, the company I am with, thinking about the day I am going to have, not gawking at others in the dining room.

It's not hard to pay little attention to people quietly getting on with their breakfast when you have your own interests to be getting on with.

If they were stark, bollocks naked, I might look twice. But it's not going to put me off my breakfast unless they've dunked their unmentionables in the bacon.

I have better manners than to sit staring at people, regardless of what they have on. I'm not embarrassed by what other people do, it's a pointless emotion to attached to another person. It is their embarrassment to have, or not as the case may be.

I don't get these people who can't just get on and shop/eat breakfast/whatever whilst somebody else does the same in different attire. It's a public space. Other people exist in it. Clothes don't stop people being sweaty and smelly.

If I was this bothered I would have breakfast in my room and shop online.

Those people who think its fine and they are just clothes, 'who cares!? mind your own business!', how about going out in your underwear or just a towel?
I mean if everything is covered and its nobodies business then is it fine to be shopping in boxers or a slip? Would you clutch your pearls for this or be ok with it?

Geniunely interested what the cut off point is! (I live in a fairly dodgy area and have seen some pretty hair raising sights....including a guy walking down the middle of the street in his underwear!).

@MatildaMovesMountains exactly. I went on a bus today with about 20 people on.
The driver had a uniform. I couldn't tell you about anyone else 😂
Edit : I lie. I did think briefly "isn't she hot in that coat" about a lady in one of those long puffy coats.

Your one golden life, and you're frittering it away on pointless, futile, joy-killing anger over something you can't influence.

I couldn't tell you what anyone wore today - I don't waste my life staring at other people's outfits, unless of course they are extra stylish and I have outfit envy. Which is quite often. See also: trouser envy, dress envy, hair envy.

@Asdada Don't look if you don't like it 😂
I always show this picture on these (tedious weekly anti-pj) threads of this fantastic pair of 1920s pyjamas.
I wonder what colour they were? I wish I had the body to wear something as pretty and floaty as these.
I can't believe the non important things people get het up about.
(picture make take a minute to show)

Nobody cares.

Other members of the public have to look at you in your PJs though. It’s disgusting and depressing and I’d be asking for a refund from any hotel that allows it. No chance I’d turn a blind eye. I don’t eat breakfast with a view of anyone in PJs even if I’m related to them.

I agree. I’ve literally had major life changing surgery and a week later whilst feeling the worst I’ve ever felt, I've still got myself dressed and done the school run whilst on crutches - fully presentable in clothes. There is no reason for it, it’s embarassing. I knew someone who would say ‘I don’t give a fuck what people think of me’ and wear he dressing gown whilst doing her Tesco shop each week. I could never understand what she was gaining by wearing that instead of putting a coat on instead

They only banned 20 stone men? Or everyone?

Okay, not the best description, however I agree with you that sitting beside someone who stinks on public transport is horrendous.

I have no idea if the man who sat beside me recently was homeless, his grey tracksuit bottoms and trainers were clean-ish, he stank of stale piss, stale alcohol, his finger nails were filthy, he sat beside me for 8 stops, I didn't want to offend him by opening the windows, I was dizzy holding my breath. I live in the city, there is homeless facilities for showers and clean clothing 5 minutes away.

Vile.

Silk floaty pjs are beautiful.
Much more beautiful than some "smart" outfits other people wear.
More comfortable too.
But why do you actually care so much?
Really what actual difference does it make to YOU?
Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Your obsession with other people's sartorial choices is really weird.

School or corner shop - don't see a problem.
Big shopping or town - pretty strange.

I would not stop smelly homeless person from using the bus - its their right and the nature/ purpose of the public transport. The fact they smell bad and are gross - well, its life... its not like I'm going to discriminate or abuse them over it.

My original comment was re someone sitting in their bed clothes on the piss stained seat and then, I assume, going to bed wearing the same clothes. Its not something I would consider hygienic, but seems a lot of people on here would not mind. I normally get changes once I get home, and would never sit on my bed wearing "street clothes". But everyone's standards are different, I know that.

Not only have I done this a few times, (in hotels) I actually washed and got changed in to fresh PJs to do it. I love wafting about in PJs in the morning, but don't sleep in clothes.

My favourite time was in a very swanky place, in satin PJs, on the terrace in the sun eating my scrambled eggs, before retiring to my room/balcony with the newspaper crossword and a mimosa. Bliss.

Wonderful to see how I long may have lived rent-free in people's heads 😄

Quite. And has made the giant leap to anyone not being bothered by this must be happily attending interviews in PJs.

😆 🤣 😂 moving them back to Reddit - with any luck.

Moving the goalposts a bit, are we? 🤪

OP has also only seen one person eat breakfast in a hotel in their pjs. And apparently is now mortally offended that anyone might go anywhere in PJ's.