I've just returned to work after mat leave and we have various grandparents helping out with childcare for my baby which I'm very lucky to have.
I'm getting mixed messaged from them as to whether I should be leaving them lunch to have.
Two of them have stated they'll bring their own food as they feel it's unfair to ask me to prepare something.
The other has asked I leave her something in the fridge and has been specific about what they will and won't eat.
I'm happy either way but I'm wondering what the done thing is.
Yabu - I leave them a prepared lunch
Yanbu- I would not prepare them a lunch