Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Is ‘shunter for British Rail’ a working class job?

283 replies

Correction · 28/05/2025 08:15

Been dating a man for 7 months. He was born 1970 just FYI. His parents were both born in 1927 just for context and both long gone from this world.

I know his mum worked in a care home - but I really don’t know her level of seniority- could’ve bern a manager - could’ve had a more routine job - I haven’t asked.

Anyway - I know he was close to his Dad and seemed to be a happy family but had no clue what his Dad did for a living so asked him over the weekend and he said

‘Shunter for British Rail.

AIBU to ask if you’d class it as a working class job?

OP posts:
Bjorkdidit · 28/05/2025 10:39

Dotjones · 28/05/2025 09:42

Working class means low paid or (perhaps ironically) unemployed. If someone has a job at or above the national average salary then they're no longer working class. You can't be wealthy and working class, you can't be comfortable and working class. Being working class means struggling to get by. Not "struggling to pay for a holiday" or private school or a new iPhone every five years, but struggling to pay your rent, energy bills and putting food on the table.

Obviously in the OP's case foodbanks weren't really a thing back then, but these days if you're not reliant on foodbanks, you're not working class. If you don't have a prepay energy meter, you're not working class.

That's not working class, that's poor/deprived/in relative poverty.

Class really is pretty meaningless these days as no-one can agree on a definition and it isn't related to income, job, interests or any other factor that people say is a class marker.

DP and I earn over £100k pa between us. I have multiple professional qualifications and am recognised internationally as an expert in my field. DP is a skilled manual worker in a very niche industry. No-one would consider us middle class if they met us and our older relatives were all miners, factory workers, barmaids, shop workers etc so have what would be defined as a very working class background but, despite what people seem to think, that doesn't mean our parents didn't value education or cultural interests, both our childhoods prioritised these - DP progressed well with music lessons as a child. My miner dad took me to museums regularly.

Just that for people born from around the 1960s onwards, they were no longer forced to leave school at 14/15 to earn money. That's when I feel defined classes in the UK started to break down.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 28/05/2025 10:32

Correction · 28/05/2025 09:33

I’m really really sorry to hear about this ❤️

I’d not heard, up until now, of any fatalities in this role

There would have undoubtedly been many more in the past.

Bbq1 · 28/05/2025 10:30

@Correction
What's your job?
What's bf's job?

InvasiveSpecies · 28/05/2025 10:29

pimplebum · 28/05/2025 10:24

Class and money are completely separate and your class cannot be changed

I am born middle class and will die middle class it dies not matter if I use a food bank or win the lottery I will still be middle class that is why the class system no longer works in today’s society as it makes no sense

your class is based on your parents profession and modern professions don’t fit fir example I.T jobs or marketing

Of course your social class can be changed. My dad was a binman. I went to Oxford and lead a comfortably middle-class-looking life. I still identify as 'educated working class', but my son is essentially middle-class on the grounds of parents' occupations, household interests, education, holidays and pastimes etc.

SnowFrogJelly · 28/05/2025 10:29

WheresMyPlanetGone · 28/05/2025 08:19

Why does it matter?

This

MN is obsessed with ‘working class’

WhiteRosesAndCandles · 28/05/2025 10:28

Who cares?

I am not better than anyone else, no-one is better than me.

I work in and office and am middle manager, OH is a graphic designer. If I were to define our family, we are working class.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 28/05/2025 10:25

heavenisaplaceonearth · 28/05/2025 09:29

You must be aware that’s incredibly unusual though? Did she survive 5 pregnancies in 7 years in the eighteen hundreds?

It's not unusual at all. Women went on having babies for as long as they were able to conceive. They started young and finished late. Reliable contraception wasn't available, or any contraception at all for most women. Men regarded sex with their wife as their right and women regarded it as their duty. The phrase was conjugal rights. My great grandmother had thirteen babies, 11 of whom survived. She didn't marry until her mid 20s and must have had her last child in the 2nd half of her 40s. This wasn't unusual at all.

pimplebum · 28/05/2025 10:24

Dotjones · 28/05/2025 09:42

Working class means low paid or (perhaps ironically) unemployed. If someone has a job at or above the national average salary then they're no longer working class. You can't be wealthy and working class, you can't be comfortable and working class. Being working class means struggling to get by. Not "struggling to pay for a holiday" or private school or a new iPhone every five years, but struggling to pay your rent, energy bills and putting food on the table.

Obviously in the OP's case foodbanks weren't really a thing back then, but these days if you're not reliant on foodbanks, you're not working class. If you don't have a prepay energy meter, you're not working class.

Class and money are completely separate and your class cannot be changed

I am born middle class and will die middle class it dies not matter if I use a food bank or win the lottery I will still be middle class that is why the class system no longer works in today’s society as it makes no sense

your class is based on your parents profession and modern professions don’t fit fir example I.T jobs or marketing

Ohnobackagain · 28/05/2025 10:24

Correction · 28/05/2025 08:25

Ok because shunter sounds like a working class job but I’ve looked online and it’s well paid

‘Working class’ and ‘well paid’ are not necessarily mutually exclusive … not that it matters.

Ketzele · 28/05/2025 10:18

I agree with pp about the decline of well-paid working class jobs. Though we should remember that back then these were seen as 'men's jobs'. I can't think of any traditional wc 'women's' jobs that were well paid.

Oh, and another one here whose gran had her first baby at 17 but was considerably older when she had her 11th. I know that baby was def hers because my mum was pregnant with me st the same time. I'm in my 60s and that gran is still alive and kicking!

billycat321 · 28/05/2025 10:17

I always thought that you were middle class if your Dad went to work in a suit

OneFunBrickNewt · 28/05/2025 10:17

Class in the UK isn't about money. I'm very middle class, and the child in my class whose Dad is a builder is certainly working class. He earns a lot more than I do! And good for him too- he doesn't need to take his work home with him!

Correction · 28/05/2025 10:16

AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:15

The fact that you specify cardio and weight training leads me to think you may be confusing "a working class job" with "heavy manual labour".
What have you done in the past?

Mainly office jobs few cleaning

OP posts:
AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:15

Correction · 28/05/2025 10:13

No .. that’s the thing I may not be suitable.

However I’m willing to learn and I’ve got an excellent work ethic even if I say so myself ! Was often working over 60 hours aged 17!

I do a lot of cardio and weight training

but if I’m not what they want … I’m not what they want

Edited

The fact that you specify cardio and weight training leads me to think you may be confusing "a working class job" with "heavy manual labour".
What have you done in the past?

Coffeeishot · 28/05/2025 10:15

Dotjones · 28/05/2025 09:42

Working class means low paid or (perhaps ironically) unemployed. If someone has a job at or above the national average salary then they're no longer working class. You can't be wealthy and working class, you can't be comfortable and working class. Being working class means struggling to get by. Not "struggling to pay for a holiday" or private school or a new iPhone every five years, but struggling to pay your rent, energy bills and putting food on the table.

Obviously in the OP's case foodbanks weren't really a thing back then, but these days if you're not reliant on foodbanks, you're not working class. If you don't have a prepay energy meter, you're not working class.

Yeah that isn't what working class means, I don't know where you got these ideas from .

AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:13

Dotjones · 28/05/2025 09:42

Working class means low paid or (perhaps ironically) unemployed. If someone has a job at or above the national average salary then they're no longer working class. You can't be wealthy and working class, you can't be comfortable and working class. Being working class means struggling to get by. Not "struggling to pay for a holiday" or private school or a new iPhone every five years, but struggling to pay your rent, energy bills and putting food on the table.

Obviously in the OP's case foodbanks weren't really a thing back then, but these days if you're not reliant on foodbanks, you're not working class. If you don't have a prepay energy meter, you're not working class.

This is utter rubbish. I know plenty of self-employed tradesmen who earn considerably above the average salary who are all absolutely working class.

The things you list as essential to be defined as working class simply are not the case in the UK class system.

If you are talking about a more Marxist definition of the international working class then maybe, but that's an entirely different thing.

OneFunBrickNewt · 28/05/2025 10:13

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 28/05/2025 08:25

Why are you so interested in what someone's dead dad did for a living and how much that would've paid? Serious question.

Spot on.

Movinghouseatlast · 28/05/2025 10:13

Squarepuffin · 28/05/2025 08:45

A lot of them were teenage daughters' kids....

Yes, that's me! My 'sister' turned out to be my mother.

I never met another person at school with a 'mum' as old as mine. Based on my experience it was rare for a woman to have a child in her 40's.

Correction · 28/05/2025 10:13

AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:10

So does your previous work experience lead you to believe you are in any way suitable to do this, considering you are hoping to come to it at a very late stage of your career?

No .. that’s the thing I may not be suitable.

However I’m willing to learn and I’ve got an excellent work ethic even if I say so myself ! Was often working over 60 hours aged 17!

I do a lot of cardio and weight training

but if I’m not what they want … I’m not what they want

OP posts:
Grammarnut · 28/05/2025 10:13

Correction · 28/05/2025 08:22

To be fair I was just stating the facts - I didn’t say I cared and I honestly don’t care !!

So, why are you a) asking b) so ignorant about the social structures of the UK? Of course 'shunter for British Rail' is a working class job, your BF's father probably voted Labour, too (also traditionally working class, not so much now). A shunter was a high-end upper working-class position, well-paid (relatively) and having responsibility. Had he been a train driver he would have been top of the working-class trees, btw.

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 10:12

Dotjones · 28/05/2025 09:42

Working class means low paid or (perhaps ironically) unemployed. If someone has a job at or above the national average salary then they're no longer working class. You can't be wealthy and working class, you can't be comfortable and working class. Being working class means struggling to get by. Not "struggling to pay for a holiday" or private school or a new iPhone every five years, but struggling to pay your rent, energy bills and putting food on the table.

Obviously in the OP's case foodbanks weren't really a thing back then, but these days if you're not reliant on foodbanks, you're not working class. If you don't have a prepay energy meter, you're not working class.

That isn’t what working class means.

pimplebum · 28/05/2025 10:12

You are confusing money and class

two completely different things

you can be a upper class duchess in a castle but be penniless and you can be a working class shunter and be well paid

builder =working class = millionaire
posh Hugh grant owns a book shop = bankrupt

AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:10

Correction · 28/05/2025 10:08

Sorry typos shoulda checked before posting

my interpretation of what a shunter job entailed was moving engines into sidings

So does your previous work experience lead you to believe you are in any way suitable to do this, considering you are hoping to come to it at a very late stage of your career?

TonTonMacoute · 28/05/2025 10:09

I would say that back then it would be described as a Blue Collar job rather than working class.

White Collar jobs were office based and Blue Collar jobs were manual work. Working class people did both.

Correction · 28/05/2025 10:08

AthWat · 28/05/2025 10:07

What did you mean to say there because "I knew fall" could be anything.

Edited

Sorry typos shoulda checked before posting

my interpretation of what a shunter job entailed was moving engines into sidings

OP posts: