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Nigel Farage on abortions- slippery slope?

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Ph2028 · 28/05/2025 01:13

Following the speech, Farage was also asked about his view on abortion limits. He replied that he was pro-choice but that it was "utterly ludicrous" for abortion to be allowed up to 24 weeks, when a hospital would "move heaven and earth" to help a baby born at 22 weeks survive.

Aibu to think it may be a slippery slope to reducing the number of weeks until it is effectively banned...

Anyway it's a bit of a non issue on Nigel's part given nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.so very few abortions happen at 24 weeks.

Now i remember why I requested a tubal ligation when I was pregnant with first baby as I didn't want anymore in any circumstances. It was predictably denied so dh got a vasectomy instead.

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CRbear · 28/05/2025 09:31

For all those saying “babies can survive at 23 weeks” or similar - what about when we can take a newly fertilised egg from the mum and finish the growing in a lab? What then? No abortion because it can survive? As early as possible, as late as necessary- always.

TheSwarm · 28/05/2025 09:30

As late as necessary, as early as possible.

Pro-life is such a complete lie of a term. Pro-lifers don't give a shit about life. They don't give a tiny crap about the thousands of women who die each year because they can't access safe abortion. They just see their control over all those careless women slipping away, and that makes them angry.

Koalafan · 28/05/2025 09:30

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:23

Yes and unfortunately the baby doesn't get any say in it

How do you propose we give an non-speaking embryo/foetus/baby a say? You, or anyone else, cannot speak on it's behalf. Even if it could have a say, the woman/girl has more of a say. 🤔

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 09:30

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:15

Is the trauma of having a baby and giving it up for adoption worse than the trauma of terminating a pregnancy of a healthy baby? Neither option is going to leave no mental scars

Yes undoubtedly so I would say. You do realise that the majority of abortions involve taking a couple of pills right? Most women aren’t left traumatised at all by it. Even if they are traumatised by their own choice (important to clarify that we do not force anyone to have an abortion in this country - some women who have one may face external pressures but generally it’s a choice they make) then no that is not as bad as being forced to carry a pregnancy to term, give birth and live with the strong possibility of the child contacting you later in life and of your family members having contact with the child. Not to mention that the child themselves might have issues due to being given up at birth.

HopingForTheBest25 · 28/05/2025 09:30

@SofiewooI had my scans done at 18 weeks and was told by the NHS that this was the right time to have them. It's possible to have testing for certain conditions carried out much earlier - nuchal fold scans for ex. Maybe not everything can be caught early but there are things which could be done better.

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 09:29

He can have his views all he wants but a man cannot dictate to a woman on this matter. Your womb, your choice. Simple as.

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 09:29

Idisagreewithu · 28/05/2025 09:19

The limit was set at 24 weeks - brought down from 28 weeks actually - on account of advances in treatments, so the timing of the scan is determined by the 24 weeks rather than the other way around.

No it’s not, the scan timing is based on foetal development. It’s absolutely not linked to the abortion limit.
Countries that don’t have access to abortions still have anomaly scans during the same window of time, don’t be so ignorant.

WhatMe123 · 28/05/2025 09:26

It needs to be 24 weeks for medical terminations as the 29 week scan can find abnormalities that then need investigation which takes time so 24 weeks is needed for medical terminations at least I don't see how this can be reduced to 20 weeks

FatherFrosty · 28/05/2025 09:25

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:23

Yes and unfortunately the baby doesn't get any say in it

Because it’s not a baby yet

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:23

Koalafan · 28/05/2025 09:19

For some women/girls, yes, it will be.
For some, no it won't be.
They get to make the informed choice, not you.

Yes and unfortunately the baby doesn't get any say in it

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 09:22

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 09:10

You cannot pick and choose who you are talking to when you say discussing an abortion “is not classy”.

Yes I can, because we live in a democracy and I am entitled to my own opinion.

Example A- finds out later in their pregnancy a much-wanted baby will die as soon as they are born, there is nothing anybody can do about that, Mum may even die too. Mum needs to talk about that afterwards because she is inconsolable, trying to process why this has happened and raise understanding and awareness.

Example B- someone who is on their third avoidable, early abortion of a viable foetus minimising this with ‘oh well, it’s only a bundle of cells, it’s no different to using contraception’ and openly boasting about this as an empowered choice to anyone and everyone.

I absolutely have more sympathy and understanding for example A. I would listen to example A talking for hours. Example B I would have less time for.

Nominative · 28/05/2025 09:22

LookingAtMyBhunas · 28/05/2025 08:53

nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.

Thought it would be higher than this tbh.

I've had 2 early abortions so am clearly absolutely not anti abortion, I supported and drove my friend to hers in December.

I am currently 23 weeks. She's kicking and moving I would break legs to save her if I was to go into pre term labour. Late term abortions aren't anything like early ones, the trauma the mother goes through physically is totally different. I also think more needs support and emphasis should be put on adoption.

Suppose you were told, God forbid, that your child had a horrible condition that meant they would only live a short time after birth and would spend that time in horrible pain and/or really struggling to breathe? Would you break legs to avoid miscarriage or termination in that situation?

Aintnobodygottime · 28/05/2025 09:21

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 09:19

I didn't say it doesn't happen. I asked if there were stats available.

The problem you have outlined for the women posting is abusive men, though. Not the availability of safe, legal abortion.

If that availability didn't exist, those women would be pressurised into back street abortions, as in ye good olde days that Farage wants us to go back to.

Edited

Many year ago when I was student, I was in a debate on abortion rights with a young man who was keen to see them banned. When it was put to him that this would lead to women dying through unsafe illegal abortions he replied ‘only a few probably’. I always think of him and his casual dismissal of the lives of ‘a few, probably’ dead women.

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:20

FatherFrosty · 28/05/2025 09:18

being forced to have a severely disabled child at 23 weeks could bankrupt families now, let alone with all the medical costs. Any existing siblings lives irreparably limited and damaged.

Pretty much every comment on here includes a caveat for severe medical issues being treated differently

Koalafan · 28/05/2025 09:19

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:15

Is the trauma of having a baby and giving it up for adoption worse than the trauma of terminating a pregnancy of a healthy baby? Neither option is going to leave no mental scars

For some women/girls, yes, it will be.
For some, no it won't be.
They get to make the informed choice, not you.

Idisagreewithu · 28/05/2025 09:19

dontcomeatme · 28/05/2025 02:53

I always thought it was 24 weeks because of the 20 weeks scan? If it shows something "wrong" with the baby then the parents can use that information to decide whether to terminate, is that not the case?

The limit was set at 24 weeks - brought down from 28 weeks actually - on account of advances in treatments, so the timing of the scan is determined by the 24 weeks rather than the other way around.

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 09:19

Viviennemary · 28/05/2025 08:50

Nearly every day on MN there are posts by women threatened or coerced into abortion.

Edited

I didn't say it doesn't happen. I asked if there were stats available.

The problem you have outlined for the women posting is abusive men, though. Not the availability of safe, legal abortion.

If that availability didn't exist, those women would be pressurised into back street abortions, as in ye good olde days that Farage wants us to go back to.

FatherFrosty · 28/05/2025 09:18

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 09:12

Its not compatible. But he doesn't care. It's got fuck all to do with anyone's wellbeing.

being forced to have a severely disabled child at 23 weeks could bankrupt families now, let alone with all the medical costs. Any existing siblings lives irreparably limited and damaged.

Youdontseehow · 28/05/2025 09:17

Menopausalsourpuss · 28/05/2025 06:25

The left love to quote extreme cases which often aren't even in this country. I am extremely anti abortion (while recognising others unfortunately are not). As I said on another thread many women are coerced into abortion which is a feminist issue. Unfortunately it doesn't just affect a woman's body as another body (the baby) is involved. I have had four pregnancies and very much felt like a baby from very early on.

Many many many more women are coerced into pregnancy than abortion. Rape, controlling men, lack of access to contraception, incest, abuse. Should these women be coerced into giving birth? If the child is unwanted? And if the concern is for the child - how are they going to feel in later life if they find out they are the product of rape or incest?

Just because you “felt like a baby” from early on doesn’t mean every woman or girl does. Think about a 14 year old raped by a family member for instance. She might want to have the child but she might not, and that should absolutely be her choice.

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 09:17

HopingForTheBest25 · 28/05/2025 09:13

Once a pregnancy reaches 24 weeks, as brutal as it sounds, at this point, it is killing a baby. At 24 weeks a foetus is fully formed, it feels pain. If it was born prematurely, it would have a good chance of living.

Imo there should have to be reasons beyond the argument that it's a woman's body and entirely her choice, even if she's 9 months pregnant!

Of course there should remain exemptions for severe foetal abnormality and hand in hand with a reduction in time, should be better maternity care inc earlier testing - no woman should be waiting until 20+ weeks for an abnormality scan!

no woman should be waiting until 20+ weeks for an abnormality scan!

Why? 20 & 21 weeks is the normal window of time for this scan as before 18 isn’t not accurate enough for many of the markers.

Aintnobodygottime · 28/05/2025 09:16

HopingForTheBest25 · 28/05/2025 09:13

Once a pregnancy reaches 24 weeks, as brutal as it sounds, at this point, it is killing a baby. At 24 weeks a foetus is fully formed, it feels pain. If it was born prematurely, it would have a good chance of living.

Imo there should have to be reasons beyond the argument that it's a woman's body and entirely her choice, even if she's 9 months pregnant!

Of course there should remain exemptions for severe foetal abnormality and hand in hand with a reduction in time, should be better maternity care inc earlier testing - no woman should be waiting until 20+ weeks for an abnormality scan!

Some abnormalities are just not apparent until that stage. I had antenatal care at a world-leading centre and they couldn’t rule some things out until that point. It’s not NHS delays, it’s foetal development.

Many children wouldn’t survive when born at 24 weeks. Certainly most with underlying health conditions wouldn’t.

BDG007 · 28/05/2025 09:15

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 09:12

It’s a realistic take on adoption and what would be involved for a woman who goes through with a pregnancy that she doesn’t want. You can’t keep adoptions secret. There are of course happy adopted children. I was talking more about the impact on the woman - it would be a lifelong trauma that she can’t escape and the idea that that is better than an abortion is ridiculous.

Is the trauma of having a baby and giving it up for adoption worse than the trauma of terminating a pregnancy of a healthy baby? Neither option is going to leave no mental scars

StandFirm · 28/05/2025 09:15

FatherFrosty · 28/05/2025 09:10

farage wants to privatise the nhs doesn’t he?
how on earth is that compatible with lowering the abortion limit

Again, Farage is following a script. If you look at everything he says through the prism of American politics and culture wars, it will make sense. Big US pharma has wanted access to the UK market for a long time. The NHS is a strong regulating force and an obstacle for them.

Idisagreewithu · 28/05/2025 09:14

Naepalz · 28/05/2025 03:35

Babies born at under 24 weeks gestation can indeed survive, but not without a huge amount of medical interventions keeping them alive. Therefore the argument about viability vs abortion limits, is in my opinion a total red herring. Those calling for the time limit to be lowered are often those who don't agree with abortion full stop. 35 years ago I had a baby born at 23 weeks who survived birth but died at 9 months old. This has not changed my opinion that the limit should remain as it is. Abortions near the limit are not only uncommon, but usually carried out for very legitimate reasons. I think abortion law should be left alone, as I agree that lowering the time limit is just not helpful or necessary and I worry about where this would lead.

The limit for abortion obviously used to be 28 weeks. It would seem logical from what folk are saying that the 24 weeks is already the slope and that we should therefore be campaigning for a return to the 28 week limit. From this POV if you want to maintain a 24 week limit (rather than return to 28 weeks), you are part of the problem.

HopingForTheBest25 · 28/05/2025 09:13

Once a pregnancy reaches 24 weeks, as brutal as it sounds, at this point, it is killing a baby. At 24 weeks a foetus is fully formed, it feels pain. If it was born prematurely, it would have a good chance of living.

Imo there should have to be reasons beyond the argument that it's a woman's body and entirely her choice, even if she's 9 months pregnant!

Of course there should remain exemptions for severe foetal abnormality and hand in hand with a reduction in time, should be better maternity care inc earlier testing - no woman should be waiting until 20+ weeks for an abnormality scan!

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