To want to know what you're sick of about men !

Whut?

So, 1 in 4 women have said "yep I've been raped" but there were no follow up questions? Like by who?

THIS!

They exist.

I accept the exist and don’t go near them. But I don’t think you can just gender swap as misogyny kills and harms women everyday.

The same is not true in reverse.

There really aren’t.

I am supportive of men supporting each other.

You don’t understand what white and or male privilege is and that’s ok.

It does NOT mean you will never experience difficulties in life.

I would think it was weird on a female forum.

I expect there are posts like what you suggest all the time on male forums.

It’s the constantly raping and/or murdering women for me.

Not all men of course. But every week, every year, in every country.

Ditto white women.

I’m

To all the men stating “not all men”
please, watch this video by Daniel Sloss

“When I get home I just want to relax”
”what have you done all day” (after being at work til 4, getting home then having 3 hours max cooking dinner for us all and cleaning up)

Wanting all the perks of having a girlfriend. Without you actually being the girlfriend and how you are good enough to help them out, lend them.money, look after their pets, borrow stuff from, but not good enough to be seen in public with or tell anyone or about, or even be nice to because even the compliments are phrased in a a way that makes it hard or inconvenient for THEM.

It speaks volumes that even though OP literally caveats her post with "not all men" this thread is still full of variations on the theme "but why do you hate all men so much????"

It's may not be all men, but it is too many men. Women who have been affected by the behaviours described on this thread, or who are concerned about the impact of those behaviours on their daughters, should be allowed to talk about it. They should especially be able to talk about it on a forum that was created by women for women.

How do we get to that point though?

After fucking years of living with them which in effect ends up in us being their nurse-nanny-carers (because it's that or live in squalor), being groped because their libido is solely down to a woman to deal with (god forbid they should just quietly deal with 90% of it on their own), their inability and unwillingness to be an equal parent to THEIR children. And all of this on top of us working the same if not more hours and earning equally or more than them. While doing at least 90% of the domestic labour.

They need to bloody hurry up and evolve. I've been saying for years they're not evolving quickly enough. Because ultimately, the majority (no, not all, there are some LOVELY guys out there) of men are a burden that so many women are no longer prepared to carry.

Luckily all the important men in my life have been respectful and kind, so I can't really complain.. But ok, I will!

I think the thing that bugs me, which almost every guy I know does, is expect a fuss every time they do something they think is clever. They just can't move on without drawing attention to it and getting their congratulations. I know some women that do this too, but it's definitely waaaaay more prevalent in men.

what is the irony?

Please do show me stats that show a race or sexual orientation having such an horrific effect on another class of people.

What are the men like in your personal life Op? Partner? Father? Brother? Friends?

This describes a customer about 10 years ago
Slimy,ugly,Foul,greasy,nasty creep doesn't come close to describing the wanker
He'd come in with his long term girlfriend and I was polite to the pair of them (because it's my job)
About ten minutes later,I was bent over changing the bin and he came up behind me,ground his hard cock into my backside and ran off laughing
He wasn't laughing when the police showed up and had words
He tried to deny it (it was caught on cctv)then claimed it was part of a game we played,then when that didn't wash,he claimed I'd been giving him the come-on for weeks
His nasty girlfriend sat there squawking that he'd 'had every right' and 'he was just joking'
Fuck all happened-the police had a word and left (which they've done every single time I've been assaulted)
I didn't see him (or her) again until yesterday
I was walking to work,i got to a corner,when I could just feel someone's vibes-and I didn't like what I could feel
I turned around and there was nasty fucker,just stood smirking at me
He followed me up the street and round another corner (the streets where full of people and shops) before he gave up-just enough to freak me out,but not enough to get into trouble
He's one of many men who have felt they can treat women like this-I've had it since I was a child
He's another man who can't pull a woman (well he has,but she's a nasty,spiteful bitch who he'd dump in a heartbeat if he could find someone prettier)
What gives them the right to touch a woman's body or scare the hell out of them?

Accepting suggestions from a man that 10 minutes earlier they dismissed from a woman. Most recently by an estate agent whom I spoke to in person: 1/10 suggestions accepted. Went home & emailed him as though from my husband: 10/10 suggestions accepted.

The sulking, my god the sulking! And the lack of emotional intelligence/depth, I just find a lot of them superficial, boring and a bit...basic 🤷🏻‍♀️

You've phrased that perfectly! Also makes my blood boil that standing up for my daughter (or any girl her age actually) is because I'm jealous. It's insane.

The absolute selfishness, and the unwavering idea that they know best, despite all evidence to the contrary, and the petulant sulking when they're shown aforementioned evidence.